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Hadley

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #90 on: 12 March 2016, 05:11:54 pm »
Sorry to hear that Kassandra, that sounds like a horrible position to be in xx

Do you think it's the roughness of clients that is the problem, or do you think you have breast tenderness generally? I only ask because if you're on the contraceptive pill sometimes this can make that area feel a bit tender and sore. A bit of a long shot I know but if you think it might be this you could always try changing pill maybe?

Probably though it's clients isn't it.... if you tend to attract "boob men" it's difficult to dissuade them from playing with their favourite things I guess. But if it's causing you pain I really think you have to get them to be more gentle..... you're not there to be hurt! Could you say that when you're horny your boobs get very sensitive to touch (true) and you love them to be stroked gently with butterfly kisses all over... etc. So making a big deal of your assets but encouraging gentle play as well. Or after a brief period of boob play just say they're turning you on so much that you can't take any more and you need to fuck them / do something to them / have them go down on you. Again minimising boobies time  :)

Hope you feel better soon

H xx

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #91 on: 13 March 2016, 01:25:43 am »
I've got huge natural knockers on a tiny frame and they cause me no end of grief to be honest but when clients are being too rough I just firmly tell them to take it easy, if they ignore me I will redirect their attention by putting the focus on their dicks works every time.

I get very sensitive at different times of the month though so I understand your pain, a cold cloth sometimes helps as already suggested above.
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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #92 on: 24 March 2016, 01:54:58 am »
Hey girls !!! I am back ...

I have been away a while because I had a surgery to do. However, everything is fine now and I back in business.  ;D

I am so glad to see so many replies.  ::)

As I said before, the pains are because I am sensitive in general - not because my clients are rough. Well, I guess there is nothing I can do - maybe just to let them know how sensitive my boobs are and that they need to take care of this.

I didn't work for 2 weeks and I am back to work this weekend - pretty excited. I am really curious to see how my body and my breast will react after such a long time without sex. Ops !!!

Kisses x  :)

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #93 on: 24 March 2016, 11:04:30 am »
I'm getting to the stage I can't stand them being touched at all. :-(
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #94 on: 24 March 2016, 01:57:14 pm »
I'm getting to the stage I can't stand them being touched at all. :-(


That's me !!!  I understand you 100%. I feel like I wanna kill him if he is gonna touch my boobs. Strange feeling !!!!

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #95 on: 24 March 2016, 02:10:54 pm »
I'm getting to the stage I can't stand them being touched at all. :-(


That's me !!!  I understand you 100%. I feel like I wanna kill him if he is gonna touch my boobs. Strange feeling !!!!

Used to be ok with it.  ???
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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #96 on: 28 March 2016, 12:29:59 am »
Grrrrrrrrr I'm the same .. Hate it .. Hate it ... Hate it ! Never used to tho .. My god used to be my thing .. Not anymore .. Makes me want to shout " u ain't tuning in a bloody radio " just made me cross my legs thinking about it ! I feel  your PAIN .. Xxxx

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #97 on: 28 March 2016, 01:30:50 am »
I have the same problem with getting sore, except I have smaller boobs.

My nipples hide until I'm either cold or turned on, so I often get clients trying to get them erect by going at them like they are trying to scratch off a scratch card (I like that one)

 This almost always has the opposite effect, and leaves me feeling sore and uncomfortable afterwards.

I always tell them that the best way to turn me on is to be gentle and sensual but most don't take note. As a result of this I now can't stand them playing with my boobs  :(


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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #98 on: 28 March 2016, 01:44:25 am »
This is going to sound odd but for me I think it is related to the release of oxytocin... Which is a love hormone which makes you feel caring and cuddly, even maternal(it helps with breastfeeding and bonding with your baby). So when a guy starts playing with my nipples I instantly feel like my sex drive/horny self switches off.

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #99 on: 28 March 2016, 02:56:45 am »
Hmmm. That's interesting ..

I have no idea what's the real reason for this but I suppose we should understand that we are also human beings. Doing this job is not that easy ... If we would have only one client a day I do not think we would have this problem but with 5 clients or more a day, this becomes a serious problem. ....

I still didn't find any solution for it. I worked this weekend: awful sensation after 2 clients.  :FF

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #100 on: 28 March 2016, 11:58:07 am »
For me it's feels awful in an emotional way.. Its not physical pain  but makes me immediately feel nauseous almost, turned off and non sexual. Yet if they grope and play with the rest of my book it's fine. Just the nipples I cannot stand! Absolutely Hate guys sucking them

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #101 on: 28 March 2016, 01:21:52 pm »
Hmmm. That's interesting ..

I have no idea what's the real reason for this but I suppose we should understand that we are also human beings. Doing this job is not that easy ... If we would have only one client a day I do not think we would have this problem but with 5 clients or more a day, this becomes a serious problem. ....

I still didn't find any solution for it. I worked this weekend: awful sensation after 2 clients.  :FF

Could you go to your doctor and ask him/her why your boobs are so sensitive? Did you say it hasn't always been this way? Plus, you mentioned your clients are gentle...
Somebody mentioned birth control, that defo gives me sore/sensitive boobs at least 1 week out of the month and I have the mirena coil so dont even get periods but still get all the symptoms every month...
It could be something hormonal, are they always sensitive and, if not, how long has it been going on for?
Just with you saying your clients are gentle, you could try asking for a medical explanation without having to tell the doc what you do.. Even say it happens when your bf touches them?
Also, numbing cream sounds good as well as covering them in perfume as a last resort lol. Good luck finding an answer! Xx
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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #102 on: 28 March 2016, 03:36:53 pm »
I have naturally big boobs and guys always go for my nipples, depending on the time of the month, it can be unbearable  :( I had a guy last week who I asked to be gentle with and got a very sarky answer back and kicked him out.

Men don't realise we are human beings and sometimes, just sometimes, we are able to feel pain like them, too. Would you believe it? xx

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #103 on: 28 March 2016, 04:35:28 pm »
Yet if they grope and play with the rest of my book it's fine. Just the nipples I cannot stand! Absolutely Hate guys sucking them


I quite like having boobs gently stroked too, but nipple sucking just feels horrible, a total turn off, its as if they're trying to breastfeed off me..YUK!  I'm always conscious of clients attempting to be rough with them and tell them to be gentle straight away now before they get near them lol

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #104 on: 28 March 2016, 10:28:50 pm »
Hmmm. That's interesting ..

I have no idea what's the real reason for this but I suppose we should understand that we are also human beings. Doing this job is not that easy ... If we would have only one client a day I do not think we would have this problem but with 5 clients or more a day, this becomes a serious problem. ....

I still didn't find any solution for it. I worked this weekend: awful sensation after 2 clients.  :FF

Could you go to your doctor and ask him/her why your boobs are so sensitive? Did you say it hasn't always been this way? Plus, you mentioned your clients are gentle...
Somebody mentioned birth control, that defo gives me sore/sensitive boobs at least 1 week out of the month and I have the mirena coil so dont even get periods but still get all the symptoms every month...
It could be something hormonal, are they always sensitive and, if not, how long has it been going on for?
Just with you saying your clients are gentle, you could try asking for a medical explanation without having to tell the doc what you do.. Even say it happens when your bf touches them?
Also, numbing cream sounds good as well as covering them in perfume as a last resort lol. Good luck finding an answer! Xx


Hey! Thanks for your reply.

I didn't went to the doctor yet. I think it is all because of the job. I had a boyfriend ( we just broke up recently ) and I never felt the same. I think that after 2 clients I become very irritated and my breasts become very sensitive.

Anyways, I will try the cream soon x