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TheLittleMatchGirl

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Re: Hate boobs being touched. Didn't before.
« Reply #75 on: 26 December 2015, 09:54:11 pm »
I get this. They're a sexual area and if someone who turns my stomach is all over them it can make me feel sick.
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Re: Hate boobs being touched. Didn't before.
« Reply #76 on: 28 December 2015, 10:10:44 am »
I think sometimes its the way they touch them, I've had a few press them on the nipple like you would a door bell ffs !!

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Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #77 on: 11 March 2016, 12:42:43 am »
Hey girls...

It seems I have a problem. At the beginning I thought that is just in my mind but now I can't really cope with it anymore.
I just can't resist anymore when clients are playing with my breast. I am a 36E and I know that a lot of them are attracted to me only because of my breast. I love my breast. However, when I offer incalls, I feel like I am going to die. After one client my breast are so sensitive that I can barely touch them. It is not only about my nipples but I feel pain everywhere. If they want to play with them - it's a real nightmare. No matter how gentle they are after a client or two, I feel like I can't do it anymore. Moreover, if they want to kiss or suck my nipples that's it - worst pain ever. What can I do girls? I am already desperate. After a day of incalls when I see 5 clients or even more sometimes, all I wanna do is hold my breast for 30 minutes and  try to forget about the pain.

Please help me ... Do you have the same problem or is this just me ( they are quite heavy and massive - this might be a problem somehow) ?

Thanks xxx

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #78 on: 11 March 2016, 01:17:07 am »
My boobs are a 38gg and although my nipples are sensitive, they don't seem to give me the same issue as yours. The reason I am replying is because I have the same issue with my clit. Men are really rough and since Jan, I have had nothing but uti's and kidney infections. I only worked an hour today and the pain is intense as he seemed to think my clit was like scratching a lottery card!!!

Anyway, back to your boobs lol. You could always spray them in strong perfume which will stop them sucking at least due to the awful taste in their mouth. Failing that, just say your boobs don't do it for you and you'd prefer their fingers to play down below as that is where you get the most pleasure from. Try to get them to lay down and rub your boobs on their man parts if you can stand it, before giving oral?

I guess we just have to manipulate the best we can at the time of the booking. Put some wet flannels in your fridge for between bookings as hopefully this will help ease the discomfort.

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #79 on: 11 March 2016, 01:34:07 am »
My boobs are a 38gg and although my nipples are sensitive, they don't seem to give me the same issue as yours. The reason I am replying is because I have the same issue with my clit. Men are really rough and since Jan, I have had nothing but uti's and kidney infections. I only worked an hour today and the pain is intense as he seemed to think my clit was like scratching a lottery card!!!

Anyway, back to your boobs lol. You could always spray them in strong perfume which will stop them sucking at least due to the awful taste in their mouth. Failing that, just say your boobs don't do it for you and you'd prefer their fingers to play down below as that is where you get the most pleasure from. Try to get them to lay down and rub your boobs on their man parts if you can stand it, before giving oral?

I guess we just have to manipulate the best we can at the time of the booking. Put some wet flannels in your fridge for between bookings as hopefully this will help ease the discomfort.


Good point !!  I am telling them that I don't really feel pleasure when they play with my boobs but men are men. No matter what, they just like to touch them.
I am sorry to hear about your clit  :-[. I never had this problem but sometimes my pussy get sore too and they I need to stop from making sex at least few hours. ( I think latex condoms are the problem sometimes ).
I am really pissed off about my breast problem but I hope I will manage somehow. Just the idea of a man playing with them and licking my nipples makes me sensitive. God !!  :'(

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #80 on: 11 March 2016, 07:12:18 am »
I have the same issue with my breasts...im  a 34HH and they are totally obsessed. When they are being to rough i tell them in a firm voice GENTLE! It seems to work....Years ago i had my nipple bitten and was hanging...Not a nice experience so i am really firm when it comes to me feeling uncomfortable.
With the clit and vagina business i totally know where your coming from...especially if they have been sucking on it for ages..or you have seen a lot of clients. I use plenty of lube and also you can by a numbing cream or a cream called Vagisil which has a numbing ingredient in it. The things we endure [sigh]
p.s. you could use a numbing cream on your nipples also x

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #81 on: 11 March 2016, 10:19:57 am »
It could be Fibromyalgia and Chronic Myofascial Pain. Reading up on it avoid caffeine (Coffee and chocolate) and see a doctor to get your pain diagnosed.

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #82 on: 11 March 2016, 11:01:40 am »
Mine don't get pain but I hate them being touched now to the point it turns my stomach. X
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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #83 on: 11 March 2016, 12:28:36 pm »
I have the same issue with my breasts...im  a 34HH and they are totally obsessed. When they are being to rough i tell them in a firm voice GENTLE! It seems to work....Years ago i had my nipple bitten and was hanging...Not a nice experience so i am really firm when it comes to me feeling uncomfortable.
With the clit and vagina business i totally know where your coming from...especially if they have been sucking on it for ages..or you have seen a lot of clients. I use plenty of lube and also you can by a numbing cream or a cream called Vagisil which has a numbing ingredient in it. The things we endure [sigh]
p.s. you could use a numbing cream on your nipples also x

Definitely!!! I am telling them to be gentle too if I think I cannot endure anymore but usually my clients are nice and gentle. The problem is with me. I will that cream you were talking about. Thanks x

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #84 on: 11 March 2016, 12:30:10 pm »
It could be Fibromyalgia and Chronic Myofascial Pain. Reading up on it avoid caffeine (Coffee and chocolate) and see a doctor to get your pain diagnosed.

I never thought about this. Hmmmm. This is helpful. Thanks a lot.
I am not drinking coffee ( never ) and I am not a big fan of chocolate so I don't think these might be something that affect me. However, I will go to a doctor soon ...  Thanks x

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #85 on: 11 March 2016, 12:30:37 pm »
Mine don't get pain but I hate them being touched now to the point it turns my stomach. X


Oh yes ... I know the feeling!!!  :FF

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #86 on: 11 March 2016, 06:05:19 pm »
I have the same issue but my boobs are very small. I have cysts in one of them that come and go depending on my cycle (hormones) and them being played with seems to just irritate me. Additionally, my clit gets very sensitive too. I really do't know what you can do to avoid clients playing with them, especially since yours are so big, they are a USP of your service!

The only thing you could do is just be honest and say that they are very sensitive so don't show them too much attention?

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #87 on: 11 March 2016, 10:55:07 pm »
I don't mind mine being played with as long as its not rough, but I have found myself occasionally developing abscesses in the last year or two.

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #88 on: 12 March 2016, 02:43:27 am »
I have had same issue lately. Im 34FF and most clients who book me love my boobs. But lately the are so oversensitive. I have one client who always wants to pull and twist and slap my nipples and it is agony. I have no idea why they have become so sensitive lately, but I am hating them being touched at all, so feel your pain.  :'(

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Re: Breast play - I can't do this anymore
« Reply #89 on: 12 March 2016, 03:08:35 am »
I have smaller boobs and experience the same thing, i think mine is down to how much some idiots slap, twist, suck them (so hard they practically suck them off), its made me so sensitive. I cant stand it at all now.
If you dont like it put a little in ya profile (faqs on aw) that whilst you like them being admirared you prefer alot of the attention to be downstairs, as your boobies are really sensitive, that way youve covered your back. If they dont read it, well thats their tough luck.
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