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ladyofthemansion

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Hate boobs being touched. Didn't before.
« Reply #60 on: 22 December 2015, 10:59:56 pm »
In the past I didn't mind my boobs being touched then a couple of years ago it was just the nipples I hated being touched. Now I hate them being touched at all. I manage to get out of it by telling them how much I love my bum being squeezed lol. My boobs not sore or sensitive. I now just can't stand them being touched at all in any way, shape or form. Even emails or texts talking about touching or sucking them turn my stomach. On about one out of 100 occasions it's ok when they are doing a massage technique kind of touching around the boobs but that's about it. On a couple of occasions they've asked to suck and on those occasions where I decided to grin and bear it when I saw their tongues coming out mouth to do it I pulled away thinking yuck!!! I don't get it because this hasn't always been the case. I haven't had a bad experience or anything. Wonder if this has happened to anyone else.
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« Reply #61 on: 22 December 2015, 11:02:20 pm »
I have this very feeling come and go,  for me personally it's caused by flare-ups of gender dysphoria. I'm gonna guess that's not the case for you, though?

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« Reply #62 on: 22 December 2015, 11:07:42 pm »
I sometimes get this when I need a break.

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« Reply #63 on: 22 December 2015, 11:17:45 pm »
I think there is something in what bibi says. When I read your post I said to myself "sounds like she is getting scunnered with the job" ... maybe it is time for a break.
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« Reply #64 on: 22 December 2015, 11:20:16 pm »
In the past I didn't mind my boobs being touched then a couple of years ago it was just the nipples I hated being touched. Now I hate them being touched at all. I manage to get out of it by telling them how much I love my bum being squeezed lol. My boobs not sore or sensitive. I now just can't stand them being touched at all in any way, shape or form. Even emails or texts talking about touching or sucking them turn my stomach. On about one out of 100 occasions it's ok when they are doing a massage technique kind of touching around the boobs but that's about it. On a couple of occasions they've asked to suck and on those occasions where I decided to grin and bear it when I saw their tongues coming out mouth to do it I pulled away thinking yuck!!! I don't get it because this hasn't always been the case. I haven't had a bad experience or anything. Wonder if this has happened to anyone else.


I've had this on and off over the past few years, it was really bad a few years ago when I was taking the 'mini pill', they were so painful even taking off my bra was sore.  They were swollen, red and really painful when touched.  Anyone touching them I couldn't bear it. I was at the point where I wanted to put on my profile 'please don't touch my breasts' but thought better of it as soon as I make an issue of something that I Don't like, I can guarantee guys will do!!!  I really dislike my nipples being squeezed or even worse gently bitten, and have sacked off a few of good regulars for doing this. 


Anyway, since having the mirena coil fitted they seemed to have settled down and aren't as sore and sensitive as they were, although still are a bit at the time of my period.

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« Reply #65 on: 22 December 2015, 11:34:01 pm »
I think there is something in what bibi says. When I read your post I said to myself "sounds like she is getting scunnered with the job" ... maybe it is time for a break.

No. I'm ok with everything else. Im thinking to continue with the massage and hand at lower rate with no touching at all but don't know if that would go down well. It's not so bad when they touch at the last minute when about to come but that's about all I can take.
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« Reply #66 on: 22 December 2015, 11:59:43 pm »
I don't mind my boobs being touched or squeezed, I just hate having my nipples bitten and I hate it when they squeeze too hard.

I had a man on top of me the other week while using my boobs to hold himself up, was fucking agony.

Our boobs are full of glands and they really hurt if too much force if used especially on the run up to time of the month.

As I said, I'm fine with most things in moderation. When some people take things too far is when it becomes uncomfortable but that can be said about practically everything sexual like kissing for example, fingering or giving someone deep throat. There's always someone who wants to devour your entire face, finger you dry and stuff as many fingers in as they can with raggy nails and then there's always someone who wants to force their cock so far down your throat that you vomit and that's just a few examples.

It must be really difficult to be in a job like this when you really loathe having your boobs touched OP

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« Reply #67 on: 23 December 2015, 12:04:11 am »
I am the same and it came out of nowhere too.
I didn't even used to notice someone was doing something to my nipples/breasts. They weren't at all sensitive and it did nothing to me when they played with them. Now I can't eve stand the idea, and at this very moment I cringe inside eeeewwww.
However! However... I love when someone who I am sexually atracted to does it, ans it gives me pleasure. But unfortunatley 99% of my clients are not in that category.
So, I can say- it could be that it's all in the head.

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« Reply #68 on: 23 December 2015, 12:44:48 am »
I am the same and it came out of nowhere too.
I didn't even used to notice someone was doing something to my nipples/breasts. They weren't at all sensitive and it did nothing to me when they played with them. Now I can't eve stand the idea, and at this very moment I cringe inside eeeewwww.
However! However... I love when someone who I am sexually atracted to does it, ans it gives me pleasure. But unfortunatley 99% of my clients are not in that category.
So, I can say- it could be that it's all in the head.


Mine were never painfully sensitive until a few years ago,  with my (then) boyfriend I couldn't bear them to be touched even by him. I think its mostly a hormonal problem.

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« Reply #69 on: 23 December 2015, 07:53:27 am »
I like it during actual sex but I have always hated it during paid sex. I hate when they try to make my nipples erect. It fills me with rage. I spend a lot of time trying to distract them from my nipples. I don't mind the entire breast being squeezed so I tell them that that's how I like it. But some still try to stimulate the nipples.

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« Reply #70 on: 23 December 2015, 09:34:13 am »
I like it during actual sex but I have always hated it during paid sex. I hate when they try to make my nipples erect. It fills me with rage. I spend a lot of time trying to distract them from my nipples. I don't mind the entire breast being squeezed so I tell them that that's how I like it. But some still try to stimulate the nipples.

It's because so many guys think that you have to have erect nipples to be turned on not understanding for a single second that some nipples go really erect and some don't. We're all different x

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« Reply #71 on: 23 December 2015, 11:04:17 am »
I am the same and it came out of nowhere too.
I didn't even used to notice someone was doing something to my nipples/breasts. They weren't at all sensitive and it did nothing to me when they played with them. Now I can't eve stand the idea, and at this very moment I cringe inside eeeewwww.
However! However... I love when someone who I am sexually atracted to does it, ans it gives me pleasure. But unfortunatley 99% of my clients are not in that category.
So, I can say- it could be that it's all in the head.


Mine were never painfully sensitive until a few years ago,  with my (then) boyfriend I couldn't bear them to be touched even by him. I think its mostly a hormonal problem.

I was going to say, I think it (the OP's problem) could be hormonal. Menopause or peri-menopause or HRT or new contraception or just periods in general. I can't stand my boobs being played with for the 2 weeks between ovulation and period, don't come near me when I'm on please, then I really enjoy it just after I have finished my period. My boobs just feel happier and more sexual.

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Re: Hate boobs being touched. Didn't before.
« Reply #72 on: 23 December 2015, 11:05:11 am »
Yes, nipples go erect when stimulated because of breast feeding. This doesn't mean women are sexually aroused whilst nursing!

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« Reply #73 on: 23 December 2015, 01:09:23 pm »
Had menopause 11 years ago so no idea what it is lol. X
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« Reply #74 on: 23 December 2015, 04:14:54 pm »
Had menopause 11 years ago so no idea what it is lol. X

Ha, then it's not that then ;D