Author Topic: Hating nipples being touched. (Read 24932 times)

ladyofthemansion · « **on:** 15 June 2012, 09:11:10 am »

Never troubled me before but I hate my niles being touched now and find difficult to hide that. Ok with boobs but the minute they lay with nipple I come over all horrible. Is that common?

figa98 · « **Reply #1 on:** 15 June 2012, 09:17:05 am »

I can't stand it when they nibble/bite or even just suck them,it feels almost painful.Can't say anything unless it gets really too much but I hate it!

Lil Lolita · « **Reply #2 on:** 15 June 2012, 11:55:42 am »

I dont think its that uncommon, it's whatever you are happy with that matters

I had a client once who wanted me to bite and suck his nipples until they bled. I refused, and said I would tweak them instead, but he was insistent. I still refused however as I was worried about blood going in my mouth- he had had other girls bite them before, and his nipples were red raw with bite marks. Pretty gross.

ilovedots · « **Reply #3 on:** 15 June 2012, 12:13:06 pm »

I was going to start a thread about that myself a couple of days ago.

I absolutely hate it when they touch my nipples, words can't describe how angry it makes me feel. I never say anything, because it seems a bit, I don't know, unfair perhaps? Instead, I immediately try and get them interested in something else, or say that it's their turn to sit back and enjoy some oral or whatever

Works in most cases, but occasionally one does come across the odd persistent prat, who's convinced that a woman tries to get away, cos she's obviously enjoying it TOO MUCH.

Do you know of any methods to make one's nipples a bit less sensitive (temporarily)? You know, something similar to anal desensitizer, but for breasts?

blondieMK · « **Reply #4 on:** 15 June 2012, 01:45:30 pm »

I used to absolutely hate it, I think this was from an ex was kind of violent and used to grab and twist them hard so it traumatised me a little.
I never used to let them touch my nips because it literally made me feel sick, but over the past year I've got a lot better and actually like it now

I don't think it's uncommon at all. They never used to question me when I said I didn't like my nipples being played with xx

Mellow · « **Reply #5 on:** 15 June 2012, 01:50:33 pm »

I love it!!!!! Its a major major turn on for me, far more so than being touched downunder. In fact due to my USP I'm super sensitive down there so try and distract them to my boobs and nipples!

Kimmy · « **Reply #6 on:** 15 June 2012, 01:55:27 pm »

I have a similar issue but I HATE my clit and just around it being touched, many clients poke it and press it and are not gentle at all and it feels absoloutely horrible and I always have to tell them I am too sensitive there. Most clients are fine and are either a lot more gentle (its ok sometimes if they really are very gentle), but many have a look on their face like I'm doing something wrong by saying this. I dont mind being fingered but don't like my clit being touched, it feels so sensitive its practically painful. Sometimes I find clients arnt pleased if you tell them you dont want this or that to be touched...ruins the booking for me as I just think they are an arse that doesnt care about my feelings or pleasure and just wants me to let him do as he likes

If you dont like them being touched make it clear to the client, if they dont like or respect your boundaries then they arnt worth having as a client anyway

Mellow · « **Reply #7 on:** 15 June 2012, 02:00:00 pm »

Quote from: Kimmy on 15 June 2012, 01:55:27 pm

If you dont like them being touched make it clear to the client, if they dont like or respect your boundaries then they arnt worth having as a client anyway

I agree I think clients appreciate being told things clearly - I always say I don't allow fingering for example; if they get a bit rough downunder mostly its accidental and they don't mind being asked to be a bit more gentle.

ilovedots · « **Reply #8 on:** 15 June 2012, 03:24:24 pm »

Quote from: Mellow on 15 June 2012, 01:50:33 pm

I love it!!!!! Its a major major turn on for me, far more so than being touched downunder.

I too find it a massive turn on, but only when it's done by my boyfriend. I get really irritated and uncomfortable when clients try to play with my nipples. I guess it's one of those things, like passionate kissing etc. Doing it with a partner who you love and trust is totally different to allowing/agreeing to do it with a paying customer - a complete stranger.

Coty · « **Reply #9 on:** 15 June 2012, 03:56:57 pm »

I love it, but I had a client 4 weeks ago (my last booking whaaaaa!)who bit them so hard they bled and are still scabbed....so never again! I like it hard but not that bloody hard!

Mellow · « **Reply #10 on:** 15 June 2012, 04:00:41 pm »

Quote from: ilovedots on 15 June 2012, 03:24:24 pm

Quote from: Mellow on 15 June 2012, 01:50:33 pm
I love it!!!!! Its a major major turn on for me, far more so than being touched downunder.
I too find it a massive turn on, but only when it's done by my boyfriend. I get really irritated and uncomfortable when clients try to play with my nipples. I guess it's one of those things, like passionate kissing etc. Doing it with a partner who you love and trust is totally different to allowing/agreeing to do it with a paying customer - a complete stranger.

I love kissing too as long as the guys are good kissers, same with nipple play I love it so long as they know what they are doing. I am lucky in that I can let go easily and really enjoy my bookings (on the whole)

If I had a partner I might see things differently. Then again, I've made the decision not to date whilst escorting as I like to give 100% to a relationship and I don't feel I can do this whilst escorting.

bananamuffin · « **Reply #11 on:** 15 June 2012, 05:02:08 pm »

Quote from: Kimmy on 15 June 2012, 01:55:27 pm

Sometimes I find clients arnt pleased if you tell them you dont want this or that to be touched

How dare you not conform to their expectation of what you will or won't like, selfish woman, ruining their enjoyment like that!!!

I have found, contrary to you, that I actually used to like previous partner when he was giving me oral, if his teeth reallllly pressed in there - it hurt but blimey, it was a good hurt!!! I used to make him press all the harder!

Nipples thankfully don't bother me thank god cos I had a (very lovely I might add) dairy worker the other week who seemed very obsessed with my udders, I mean breasts, couldn't stop sucking on them bless him .... wonder why???

It is funny though, you go through things that you do like, then some things you like with one person but not with another - do you find that you are ok with certain activities with certain guys (or girls of course), but with someone else, you just never used to do that???

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #12 on:** 15 June 2012, 07:36:15 pm »

I used to HAAAAAAAAAAAAAATE my nips being touched at all, made me feel physically sick with a major cringe going on....so bad it was that I couldn't even breast-feed...

Now I still get the cringe factor on the week leading to period, but know what guys should do so that they de-sensitise - not that my requests are always met!

Kimmy · « **Reply #13 on:** 16 June 2012, 12:50:24 am »

Quote from: bananamuffin on 15 June 2012, 05:02:08 pm

Quote from: Kimmy on 15 June 2012, 01:55:27 pm
Sometimes I find clients arnt pleased if you tell them you dont want this or that to be touched

How dare you not conform to their expectation of what you will or won't like, selfish woman, ruining their enjoyment like that!!!

I have found, contrary to you, that I actually used to like previous partner when he was giving me oral, if his teeth reallllly pressed in there - it hurt but blimey, it was a good hurt!!! I used to make him press all the harder!

Nipples thankfully don't bother me thank god cos I had a (very lovely I might add) dairy worker the other week who seemed very obsessed with my udders, I mean breasts, couldn't stop sucking on them bless him .... wonder why???

It is funny though, you go through things that you do like, then some things you like with one person but not with another - do you find that you are ok with certain activities with certain guys (or girls of course), but with someone else, you just never used to do that???

It honestly depends, if its an occasion where I'm feeling in the sexual mood and the client has been being gentle then I will enjoy it, also with my boyfriend I am comfortable and turned on by it the majority of the time, yet sometimes with clients its so sensitive I feel like i cant have them anywhere near it! I think its something to do with the vast sensitivity of the areas, it can just be cringeworthy having them touched in certain situations/times and with certain people.

Being a woman though sexually the way I feel changes at different times, and I tend to try and work during the times I'm feeling the horniest, so this isnt so much of a ball ache

Emma152 · « **Reply #14 on:** 16 June 2012, 03:17:18 pm »

Hi

I also hate having my nipples touched. I thought I was the odd one out but am reassured to see quite a few of you dont like it too.

They are just too sensitive and touching/sucking/etc makes me squirm

XXX

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