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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #15 on: 23 January 2025, 10:26:26 pm »
I'm guessing it invalidates the landlords insurance (or mortgage terms or similar).

It's not something that police actually bother to enforce, but it's illegal even with just one person doing "habitual prostitution". (Apparently, everyone is supposed to own - not rent - their work place.)

Hence clauses about immoral activity in leases and insurance contracts.

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« Reply #16 on: 24 January 2025, 11:01:07 am »
It's not something that police actually bother to enforce, but it's illegal even with just one person doing "habitual prostitution". (Apparently, everyone is supposed to own - not rent - their work place.)

Hence clauses about immoral activity in leases and insurance contracts.

'Don't piss off the neighbours' is the second line of the sex work bible.

im curious..they say an escort at home is a business...i know someone in my building who is a therapist..doesnt have clients coming over but takes sessions on the phone as payment..isnt this a business too?

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #17 on: 24 January 2025, 02:11:17 pm »
im curious..they say an escort at home is a business...i know someone in my building who is a therapist..doesnt have clients coming over but takes sessions on the phone as payment..isnt this a business too?

What does that have to do with this though - I still don't really understand what it is you want to know?

Surely you can see how somebody working at home via phone calls (or making and selling small items online, or writing articles for somewhere) is not the same as having random people turning up in person and potentially damaging things, causing a nuisance to neighbours or making a noise, parking vehicles in the wrong place and so on?

My landlord knows I'm self employed, just not the nature of my business. So many people work from home now it's completely normal for somebody to be doing admin type tasks - that isn't what the problem is here and most people would think that was obvious?

What if your neighbour was running a fish and chip shop or a bar from their flat and had people wandering in and out, knocking on doors and making a noise? Would you expect that to be ignored?

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #18 on: 24 January 2025, 02:27:05 pm »
no amy..but i dont see why it would be an issue for me to have one guy a day coming if they were quiet and not causing any neusaince?

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #19 on: 24 January 2025, 03:00:32 pm »
no amy..but i dont see why it would be an issue for me to have one guy a day coming if they were quiet and not causing any neusaince?

If I may respond to your post  No of course having one guy a day visiting you is perfectly reasonable. Brothers/uncles/cousins/friends/work colleagues etc. can visit you just as you could visit them. Clients don't have a large sign saying "going to visit a prossie"on their heads.  As long as you aren't flinging open your door and standing there in your pvc thigh boots and sexy thong and push up bra.  However I think you may intend to see a lot more than one guy a day?

If it's the former then who knows he's paying you other than the two of you?

Discretion is everything and careful consideration over the location of the property and your own front door!

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #20 on: 24 January 2025, 03:10:50 pm »
If I may respond to your post  No of course having one guy a day visiting you is perfectly reasonable. Brothers/uncles/cousins/friends/work colleagues etc. can visit you just as you could visit them. Clients don't have a large sign saying "going to visit a prossie"on their heads.  As long as you aren't flinging open your door and standing there in your pvc thigh boots and sexy thong and push up bra.  However I think you may intend to see a lot more than one guy a day?

If it's the former then who knows he's paying you other than the two of you?

Discretion is everything and careful consideration over the location of the property and your own front door!

I have had numerous punters be indiscrete, on arrival and leaving as well as be unthinking regards neighbours. I have a little guide I read out to new clients to prevent this, some have still done something totally random that I haven't listed. Incredible sometimes.

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #21 on: 24 January 2025, 03:27:09 pm »
I have had numerous punters be indiscrete, on arrival and leaving as well as be unthinking regards neighbours. I have a little guide I read out to new clients to prevent this, some have still done something totally random that I haven't listed. Incredible sometimes.

Yes I have too ( very few so not numerous as in many) but have dealt with them tactfully and swiftly and with a smile. Otherwise the bookings would have been a little soured.  They certainly haven't repeated their mistakes with me 🙂

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #22 on: 24 January 2025, 07:48:51 pm »
I have had numerous punters be indiscrete, on arrival and leaving as well as be unthinking regards neighbours. I have a little guide I read out to new clients to prevent this, some have still done something totally random that I haven't listed. Incredible sometimes.

So have I, and I'm extremely careful and screen heavily (nor do I open the door half dressed, and the only PVC thing I own is a pleather handbag :D). The occasional pillock doesn't matter, but a few in a week/month will start to look odd and anybody who decides to take an interest will soon spot a pattern.

I also know somebody who lost their work flat because of some women working indiscreetly from another flat on their floor - there was a complaint and when the CCTV was checked the traffic to their flat was noticed. Sometimes there is literally nothing you can do.

Back to the original question, a landlord can currently evict a tenant from their property for any reason including no reason at all, although this is set to change. Breaking the terms of your tenancy (which you signed agreeing to stick to) is more than enough to get you the boot

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #23 on: 24 January 2025, 09:34:47 pm »
Hey,

My landlord found out and said he would look at eviction if I continued as (I didn't actually realise this), it states in my tenancy agreement that I can't conduct business from the property.

He found my AW profile and neighbours reported people coming and going so no denying it really...

I now work from hotels and they are fine with that! They're fine with what I do, just not from his property, which is fair imo.

A lot of tenancy agreements will include this clause, and also one that mentions not using the property for "illegal or immoral purposes", which could include escorting (under immoral), so have a read!

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #24 on: 24 January 2025, 10:14:12 pm »
I've worked from home from 5 different places and never had any problems. I'm low volume, screen (most important thing for me is a client seems responsive to listening to instructions, read adverts etc so he's less likely to be indiscreet upon arrival!) etc In the two places I worked that were in big blocks of flats I doubt anyone noticed (I'd rarely see the same person in the corridors/lifts the places were so big) but in some of the smaller places I had reason to believe the neighbours cottoned on eventually, but they didn't seem to react, luckily. If you are quiet, sensible etc a lot of people just want to get on with their own lives.

I recall an old acquaintance who got kicked out of her flat (a house conversion of 4) by the landlord after the neighbour complained, but she kept banging on his door to mouth off at him about various petty things, which was inadvisable given her position! It always surprised me how long it took him to to dob her in to be honest...

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #25 on: 27 January 2025, 08:45:35 am »
I managed to work from my rented flat for 3 years and had no problems. I was doing longer meetings only, so there weren't herds if men coming in and out. Very nice experience.
Now I tour and behave very respectfully to the holiday rentals. I tighten and oil the beds, etc.
But I did have one unpleasant incident in a holiday rental flat. The manager was obsessed with hunting escorts and he was actually doing investigations and yes, I was asked to leave. Really traumatic experience I must admit.

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #26 on: 27 January 2025, 03:07:41 pm »
hi gazaro
i tried to book a place through [a short let apartment site] asnd the owner asked me the purpsoe for my visit
do you get asked that too
or not use [a short let apartment site]
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[edited to remove name of site. SAAFE does not encourage use of this site]
« Last Edit: 27 January 2025, 03:14:09 pm by SAAFE »

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #27 on: 10 February 2025, 09:23:25 pm »
I had my fair share of evictions too.

1). Got kicked out an apartment after 1st client as the office was across the road and I was new and didn’t know what to look for.

2). A client reported me to the hotel.

3). A chambermaid reported me.

4). Reception was too small and I checked out after they knocked.

5). I deliberately worked a keycarded hotel 3 times and I got the knock as I was packing to go.

With the exception of No 5, the rest were many, many years ago.

I was just unlucky.

This made me giggle. I've also been incredibly unlucky in my time but also super jammy. I've been kicked out of 4 now, one very high end because a lady next door was getting the sh*t kicked out of her so bad my tv wobbled on the wall. So I being a good person rang hotel reception immediately. Police came, I was right, situation diffused.

Well they had to review the CCTV and I was 3 days into my stay and extremely busy. And you can gather the rest.

Apartments are great but they are all turning into apart hotels with 1 day stays and lots of cleaners wandering as they're all in giant blocked owned by the same company and it has been very invasive and close call at times. More so London

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Re: has anyone heard of any friends,you being evicted for escorting?
« Reply #28 on: 11 February 2025, 09:10:37 am »
Sometimes it might not be due to you being busy... I remember using a well known hotel in Borehamwood, I've heard rumours, about the escort agency's in the area reporting touring girls to eliminate competition. I thought to myself well -- I'm fat n ugly, I can't be a problem to them 🤣I was wrong, on my third day, in the morning, the hotel manager came and told me to leave as they got a report and he even showed me my Aw profile. He allowed me to pack up and check out after 12noon. I even had breakfast 🤣before I left. Now I can't use tht chain of hotels