I met this client some months back and the first time we met he pushed me down on the sofa and tried to sit on top of me. I was like what the fuck are you doing ?, he apologized and said he was trying to help me relax. Lol .. the cheek of him. I forgave him, i just think he was a bit retarded and lacked people skills.

But then it gets worse because the second time i met him, was at his place and he said his wife could return home any moment which made me feel uncomfortable to say the lease, and whilst i'm giving him a massage he told me that when he was a school boy he was accused of raping another boy in the school, i mean talk about mood killer.  It turns out that he was really gay but had pretended to be straight all his life and that him and his wife never have sex, i felt a bit sorry for him and as the money was good i kept on seeing him once a week for a while .. but then he starts texting me all the time asking if we can be together and if he could fuck me, I try to make it clear that im an erotic masseur but he doesn't give up.

on the final time i saw him he asked if he could massage me,  i agreed but when i was lying back relaxing the next thing i know is he's got his tongue on my dick, i was really fucked off at that point and considered punching him, but didn't want the hassle. Then today he sent me an email telling me not to advertise because i belong to him only. I had to put him straight in the end and he had the nerve to say i have been stringing him along.. I really had all i can take of this client so blocked his number now.

Do you get support?  It's horrendous, but I am NOT surprised by your experience.  It's just the reality in this industry, I'm afraid to say....

My client I've know for quite awhile, I think at the beginning due to starting young I was quite vulnerable so he obviously prayed on that. It's been 3 years with him he's majorly out of my age gap, you could even say he's my granddad when we're out.  Hes been controlling me for ages I really want to get out of it. He fixed my laptop recently and I think he's put a virus or something  on it  so I cant  make a new adult work profile. I got rid of my last one as he was consistently stalking it. He's profession is in computers so he's well educated in doing so and not making it noticeable.
He stalks my house all the time I feel like a prisoner. We live quite close to each other which doesn't help. He's seen some of my escort friends and told them all kinds about me.. God I can go on and on... how do you go about something like this ?  I really need his business but don't want this treatment,do you think it's still possible to do so? Sometimes I think I stay with him because I feel sorry for him. He has done quite abit for me in the past but I think know he's turned on me because he wants control and wants me for himself.
Sorry for the paragraph girls.
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Firstly, take your laptop to a local repair store, say you think someone has installed spy software on it, can they check it out.

Has he ever had access to your mobile? Spy apps are possible on there too.

It goes without saying that you need to cut this abusive fucker off. Send him a text or email that says along the lines of "I don't think we're compatible any more so I won't be seeing you again. Please don't contact me any further. Best wishes." Block him on WhatsApp and Skype; block his calls but don't block his texts. If he continues to contact you you will need evidence of repeated attempts in order to get police involved.

If your AW profile had good feedback on it I'd probably ask AW to reinstate it. It's none of his business what you write on your profile or the feedback you get.

He will most probably threaten to out you to your family and friends so prepare yourself for that the best way you can (probably by telling them first if they're not already aware.) Is he married? If so you have some ammunition of your own.

Thank you for your response illl be doing that, I think I'm always worried what people think of me... I always think people instantly think I'm a escort so don't tend to go to computer shops etc that's why I went to him... I'll definitely be looking up some decent IT people tomorrow.

I've done that before and he just stalkers me he really is a character, I think he knows I'm weak and on me own so he's a predator on that. I'm quite a young escort, I'm 21. He took my profile down without me knowing just to have me for himself and I can't make a new one
I've been escorting for 4 years now. I met him at when I just turned 18 so obviously wasnt as business like the way I am now. I've learnt a lot in the years. I've know him this whole time he's always been jealous of the other men and tried that extra to be more than a client. He does really show narcissist characteristics like he contacted one of my escort mates and booked them just to talk about me and how I am on a booking. He knows where I live and waits outsid on a daily basis(I'm in flats).
He pretends he's having a heart attack so il go over, he's already had two strokes...

He really does show men up, he's 66 and I'm 21.. so you can imagine... he thinks money can buy him love.
The sex is horrible, he can't get it up or even move without getting out of breath. I feel like I'm stuck in such a shit situation. Have you been through anything like this, if so what did you do ? X

Thank you for your response illl be doing that, I think I'm always worried what people think of me... I always think people instantly think I'm a escort so don't tend to go to computer shops etc that's why I went to him... I'll definitely be looking up some decent IT people tomorrow.

I've done that before and he just stalkers me he really is a character, I think he knows I'm weak and on me own so he's a predator on that. I'm quite a young escort, I'm 21. He took my profile down without me knowing just to have me for himself and I can't make a new one
I've been escorting for 4 years now. I met him at when I just turned 18 so obviously wasnt as business like the way I am now. I've learnt a lot in the years. I've know him this whole time he's always been jealous of the other men and tried that extra to be more than a client. He does really show narcissist characteristics like he contacted one of my escort mates and booked them just to talk about me and how I am on a booking. He knows where I live and waits outsid on a daily basis(I'm in flats).
He pretends he's having a heart attack so il go over, he's already had two strokes...

He really does show men up, he's 66 and I'm 21.. so you can imagine... he thinks money can buy him love.
The sex is horrible, he can't get it up or even move without getting out of breath. I feel like I'm stuck in such a shit situation. Have you been through anything like this, if so what did you do ? X

I've had this and I know it sounds ridulous but what worked for me was turning him off me so bad and making him think that I am repulsive and such a horrible cow he never wanted to see me again. I tried the nice way and he didn't understand so this is what I resorted to. I started Farting, telling him I needed to poop regularly, talking about work constantly, saying about big penises that were always hard, and mentioning prenuptial agreements should we get married if the ring he buys me is big enough all did the trick. He told me that he couldn't talk to me ever again as I was a horrible person and he was better than the way I was treating him. And I was very relieved. I'm not a bad perosn but having an old man constantly telling you how much they are in love with you and sending you pictures of them with there dogs and family saying how much they want you to meet them is draining. Plus the flaccid cock bad breath and awful Sex. It's emotionally draining. I literally went to every effort to make him completely repulsed by me. After the prenuptial agreement comment and the one about pooping and how I enjoy sleeping with clients so much he never bothered me again. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind to yourself.

I've had this and I know it sounds ridulous but what worked for me was turning him off me so bad and making him think that I am repulsive and such a horrible cow he never wanted to see me again. I tried the nice way and he didn't understand so this is what I resorted to. I started Farting, telling him I needed to poop regularly, talking about work constantly, saying about big penises that were always hard, and mentioning prenuptial agreements should we get married if the ring he buys me is big enough all did the trick. He told me that he couldn't talk to me ever again as I was a horrible person and he was better than the way I was treating him. And I was very relieved. I'm not a bad perosn but having an old man constantly telling you how much they are in love with you and sending you pictures of them with there dogs and family saying how much they want you to meet them is draining. Plus the flaccid cock bad breath and awful Sex. It's emotionally draining. I literally went to every effort to make him completely repulsed by me. After the prenuptial agreement comment and the one about pooping and how I enjoy sleeping with clients so much he never bothered me again. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind to yourself.

You're absolutely genius 

It works. I asked my mum for advice and she told me. Make him repulsed by you so that he never wants to see you again. She wasn't wrong!

If that worked for you (or anyone else) then fine but I would not go down that route and act in a way I am not comfortable with myself. He still has some control as if he decided to still pursue you even after your attempts to deter him then you are no further forward. 

Face to face (as in IN his face) telling him to back off is the only way and blocking all contact but as someone said, retain all texts if they could be of value in the event of him becoming worse.