He’d also look to control your dating life too not just your career life. Big thing to consider if you’re currently single.

Hi.
I left for client and I really regret it.
After few months of seeing him I found he had another woman for last 11 years
I wouldn’t do it anymore ever.

I think you’re right about the payback thing. But it’s an offer I really can’t refuse it, and why not if it’s worth it in the end? Getting paid to sit on your ass isn’t bad

I’ve never heard of that, who are they? X

Georgina Symonds and Christina Abbotts are former escorts-sugar babes.

I know one escort I met by accident who had a success story, it blew up in the papers when he stole from his own company and went bankrupt so it is possible to rinse a SD sucessfully.

If you can't refuse, I'd suggest getting a lump sum from him for a couple months and see how that goes.
Then renew, renew rather than commit to anything long term. Like a library book!

Salty I don't think manipulating a guy into committing a crime that send his ass to jail is a "success story", nor should it be encouraged, but each to their own    Sitting at home knowing that a man is in jail because of you is terrible karma, and karma..... is a bit like a boomerang.

(OOps just re-read my post maybe bit unclear...he was the company owner. Anyway stealing is stealing.)

I see where you're coming from Ana.
For her it was a succcessful mission. I read her ad on AW and she got what she advertised for. Her ethics not mine.
There's no accusation or evidence to suggest she knew he was stealing. His choice. His free will(y).

I actually feel quite positive about it, I wouldn’t do this with any client. I need to be able to get on with them and not look weird with them out in public. He’s in his 40s and is very handsome, does not do drugs or smoke so he looks well.

In his 40s is much younger than I thought! Not doing loads of mind altering drugs and keeping in shape sounds good too. Enjoy it for what it is, and know that you have the power.

I read her ad on AW and she got what she advertised for. Her ethics not mine.
There's no accusation or evidence to suggest she knew he was stealing. His choice. His free will(y).

I agree. Why would any client disclose that his money comes from the proceeds of crime? Unless she did a lot of digging into his finances, she wouldn't know. 

I think it is a rare man who can cope with our type of work and it is pointless to fantasise someone is going to come along and accept us.

Unless it is those who work in the adult industry themselves e.g. sexshop owners, brothel managers, pornstars adult photographers and so on.

There are some exceptions to this i.e. some men who do accept working in the industry but these are rare gems indeed.

Luckily I don't need somebody in my life and it is bliss to remain single.  Though I do speak as a mature escort and having had four cohabiting relationships in the past prior to working in this sector.

 I don't know if you have done so already but you would really need to sit down with him and discuss what he expects out of the arrangement. For example, would you be expected to drop plans to be at his every beck and call? Would he become annoyed and possessive if you were unable to see him one day? Is he after a real relationship or has he clearly stated the your relationship will stay purely client/escort?

He may seem like a nice guy now and has clearly gained your trust over time you but you never really know someone, especially a client. As you spend more time together you may end up hating him but still feel obliged to meet him.

There is also dropping all your regulars for a year (unless your sneaky and you can see the odd one on the side) After the year is over you may have to build a client base up again (as I expect he may want you to delete all advertising means)

Personally,  despite the attractive lump sum of money.... This sort of arrangement would be too intense for me. I like my own independence and would not like the feeling of being "owned" by someone.

If you are really tempted by the proposal I would maybe suggest trying it with him for a few months to see how you find it.

The OP is asking about a paid 'exclusive' arrangement with a single punter (or if she has any sense, two or three of them); this isn't another thread about packing it in for a boyfriend.

Boyfriend...never lol makes me want to vomit