Author Topic: had a week of horrible clients-- what am I doing wrong? (Read 4019 times)

Dani · « **Reply #30 on:** 05 July 2014, 05:32:25 pm »

As said before don't take things personally. This client may have expected you to look different (depends if you have face photos or not). He may have just not fancied you in real life or even felt guilty for being there and was trying to think of a polite excuse to leave. next time just say ok and walk them straight out the door and don't let them hang around.
As for the outcall you need to do your checks before going anywhere or you could end up on a lot of wild goose chases being sent to addresses where people don't actually live.

TWs are par for the course as are people booking and cancelling. You are new to this so you are still getting the newbie chasers who like to play games. they don't bother with women who have been working for a while as they know most of us wont fall for it.

It takes a couple of months but soon enough you will cotton on to those who are not genuine straight away. People who don't use your name are a good indicator they have just wrote down a list of numbers to ring up and play games, those who don't ask where you are, or who want to know what you will be doing during the booking. all indicators of phone wankers but there are many more than that. Even the tone of their vice can give them away.

We all had bad times when we started but it does drop off eventually once we learn to recognise the idiots

Siorse · « **Reply #31 on:** 05 July 2014, 06:50:05 pm »

It can be a bloody hard job, especially when you're already feeling a bit down in the dumps (you said you were feeling homesick
coz it was the 4rth July), when you're not feeling great about yourself, when you're tired and over-sensitive..
And then some a-hole who thinks of women as pieces of meat and think they're better than especially us wg's.., comes along and
kicks you even further down the gutter..

You've gotta be pretty thick-skinned and try not to take things personal, but sometimes that's easier said than done..
They say sticks and stones will break my bones but words will finish me off, and I think that's so true..!
I've been beaten up pretty bad and ended up in hospital in my early days when I worked the streets, but somehow physical
wounds and scars heal so much quicker than emotional ones..
And I got compensation for my injuries lol

Stay strong, you've just had a bad week when you were already not feeling your best, onwards and upwards girl, keep yer
chin up!
Sxx

caylee_k · « **Reply #32 on:** 05 July 2014, 10:05:29 pm »

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