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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #15 on: 27 April 2016, 04:39:44 pm »
I had a client shed a few tears when they were going through their marriage breakup.  He was also very nervous and I don't think he had seen an escort before.  He was a nice man and easy to talk to and hopefully he felt better for releasing some emotions.

I just don't think he had had an opportunity to discuss his predicaument with others much.  Perhaps he had a stressful job too and was feeling on the brink.

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #16 on: 28 April 2016, 12:28:55 pm »
I have a regular who books for 2 hours every week. Every week we go through the same process. He cums within 5 minutes of starting and then talks (and usually cries) about his mum and dad who died a few years ago. I don't really speak, I just listen to him and let him get it out his system. It's the only time each week that I actually feel like the 'therapist' that I put on my tax return.

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #17 on: 08 May 2016, 06:32:05 am »
I've had quite a few that break down after they have cum and burst into tears, sometimes it's guilt and sometimes it's just from the release of all that emotion from their orgasm. Either way it's kind of awkward and I just sort of hold them until they are spent.

This job is very much half sex goddess half therapist, I always tell them a shrink would have been cheaper and yet they still return week after week.
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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #18 on: 08 May 2016, 07:12:57 am »
I don't think it's ever happened to me. I've had guys talk about things that were upsetting them and needed me to listen but never had weeping. Teddy, you must have one helluva fanny to do that to men frequently!  ;D

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #19 on: 08 May 2016, 07:44:31 am »
I had a bloke pop 10 mins into a 30 min booking then burst into tears as he felt guilty because he was cheating on his wife...bit late there mate.It.was kind of awkward but I tried to comfort him and talked it through with him.He told me I was very kind and he was going to take his wife out and try and talk through their problems with her.

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #20 on: 08 May 2016, 09:39:25 am »
So he says...but he rarely (never) does (never speaks to his wife about "****").   :-X

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« Reply #21 on: 08 May 2016, 09:47:49 am »
I had a lovely guy cried just after he came, still inside me so was slightly awkward but just a release of emotions. He said he'd been single for a couple of years or something so hadn't had the human physical contact! He used to work in the mental health arena & has been exposed to some seriously nasty characters so I reckon he's got PTSD from that. Saw him again a few years later but he didn't cry that time around thankfully lol.

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #22 on: 08 May 2016, 12:11:18 pm »
When I first started I had one who cried before we had even done anything and kept wailing about how could he do this to dear Marjorie (I'm not even making that name up!) So he cried about how guilty he felt whilst absent mindedly stroking my boobs!

It transpired dear Marjorie (his wife) had been dead 15 years so I felt partly sad and partly that Marjorie wasn't in a position to care about being cheated on!

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #23 on: 08 May 2016, 02:20:16 pm »
Couple times maybe, Some guy was talking about his life which I always try to steer the conversation light hearted & positivley but sometimes they just wanna talk about it yano and he just started bawling, hey we're all human life will make you do that lol. Crying is a build up of intense emotions so with hornyness nerves and general reflection on why they've come to an escort maybe guilt too it's not a shocker some might cry.  I do find that the type that cry in bookings will try their hardest to talk about their problems despite best efforts to deter the path of convo but things can ussually be put back on a perky path. 

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #24 on: 08 May 2016, 03:25:40 pm »
I've had quite a few emotional bookings, but no actual years as of yet. I always think it's worth remembering that what is a routine booking for us could be a very. big. thing for a client. Sometimes they tell you why beforehand, and sometimes afterwards, but you often just don't know.
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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #25 on: 08 May 2016, 06:24:38 pm »
When I first started I had one who cried before we had even done anything and kept wailing about how could he do this to dear Marjorie (I'm not even making that name up!) So he cried about how guilty he felt whilst absent mindedly stroking my boobs!

It transpired dear Marjorie (his wife) had been dead 15 years so I felt partly sad and partly that Marjorie wasn't in a position to care about being cheated on!

This cracked me up.  But on the other hand, knowing some seriously "bent" male sexuality, he may get a sexual kick from "doing something wrong" (taboo).  If he felt "genuinely guilty", he wouldn't have been stroking your boobs...that is a dead "giveaway" to me.. ::)  Having said that, men can get "emotional" during or after sex - I often think (hope this will not come across as disrespectful or degrading to them / punters) sex means a lot to men and they get excited and even find "the meaning" of their existence via sex.  But it does not mean the emotions they feel is the same type of emotions us, women feel.      Sometimes, the emotions they feel are "sex-driven" (or cock-driven) unlike "feelings-driven" like women do (who are in touch with her emotions without having sex).   There are people (both men and women) who understand the difference between having sex and "love" but some men get confused more easily because their "cock" distorting their rational thinking.  This is based on my experience with men generally and my recent experience with some punters I met so far. 
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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #26 on: 08 May 2016, 06:54:22 pm »
There are plenty of women who have sex just because they like fucking and have no interest in an emotional connection.
Plus, if women were all 'feelings-driven', we wouldn't be able to be sex workers without going mad.

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #27 on: 08 May 2016, 07:35:30 pm »
When I first started I had one who cried before we had even done anything and kept wailing about how could he do this to dear Marjorie (I'm not even making that name up!) So he cried about how guilty he felt whilst absent mindedly stroking my boobs!

It transpired dear Marjorie (his wife) had been dead 15 years so I felt partly sad and partly that Marjorie wasn't in a position to care about being cheated on!
I had a widower get weepy but he said it was because I was the first lady he had been intimate with since she had died and I rather looked like her when she was younger.

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #28 on: 08 May 2016, 08:47:03 pm »
There are plenty of women who have sex just because they like fucking and have no interest in an emotional connection.
Plus, if women were all 'feelings-driven', we wouldn't be able to be sex workers without going mad.

Well, what I meant was, we are raised to care and nurture.  Men aren't.

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #29 on: 08 May 2016, 09:23:10 pm »
Kay that's actually right. I completely forget sometimes that this is a big deal for them, whilst it's routine for me.

I never thought about it like that before. Its kind of like how excited I feel when I buy things from a store. Thats a special event for me (better than sex ;D) but to the shop assistant it's just a normal routine day for her. All customers blend into one another eventually.