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casey_kisses

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Gutted
« on: 27 July 2010, 01:17:37 pm »
 :'(

Just having a bit of a rant really... A client came round today and I answered the door as normal, asked him if he wanted a drink and made some small talk with him for about 2 mins, then out of the blue he said he didn't fancy me, gave me ?40 and left. This has never happened before and I haven't changed my appearance since my pictures, I haven't developed a huge spot on my face and I haven't put any weight on. I just don't get it. I know someone on the forum had a experience like this in the past, but I can't find the topic to save my life! Its just got me questioning myself big time...even though I know its probably not anything specific I have done.  I just feel so down now :(

He also said I don't see escorts much, and seemed nervous... but not sure if that has anything to do with it since he was babbling/ I was so shocked I wasn't really paying attention.

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Re: Gutted
« Reply #1 on: 27 July 2010, 01:33:39 pm »
Nerves, by the sound of it!  I'm sure it was nothing personal and at least he gave you some money. Grit your teeth and go on to the next one.
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casey_kisses

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Re: Gutted
« Reply #2 on: 27 July 2010, 01:44:01 pm »
Yeah I guess- At least the money will pay for my driving lesson  ;D

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Re: Gutted
« Reply #3 on: 27 July 2010, 03:43:45 pm »
We have all had it. In fact I started a thread after having two walk outs in one day but then I was advertising in the paper and it came with the territory.

Wouldn't take it personally as its clear he just got too nervous and bottled  but to save face he blamed it on not fancying you.

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sammy s

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Re: Gutted
« Reply #4 on: 27 July 2010, 04:06:24 pm »
I had someone a coule of months ago who showed up and seemed happy. He then out the blue told me that he wasn't comfortable because he didn't fancy me and thought I would have been slimmer.
He gave me 30 quid and left
maybe it was the same guy you had?
I was utterly horrified when it happened and had a good cry.

But now I realise he was either nervous and knew he wouldn't get hard or be able to enjoy it and didn't want to spend the money.
Or he wanted a quick perv at an escort.
I hve so many face and body pics on my profile so unless he was blind I don't see how he couldn't have known exactly what I'd look like.

Hope you're ok and don't let it make you nervous for future bookings

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casey_kisses

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Re: Gutted
« Reply #5 on: 27 July 2010, 05:26:58 pm »
Sammy S: Do you work in the East Midlands? I hear there is a gentlemen around these parts for doing this

Thanks guys you (and a substantial amount of chocolate) have really made me feel better, and I'm glad this seems like a normalish occurrence. I know it comes with the job, and usually I am pretty tough, but I think the mixture of shock and rejection baffled me for a while  :( but onwards and upwards  :P

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Re: Gutted
« Reply #6 on: 27 July 2010, 07:24:20 pm »
Quote from: sexy_faith on 27 July 2010, 05:26:58 pm
Sammy S: Do you work in the East Midlands? I hear there is a gentlemen around these parts for doing this

Thanks guys you (and a substantial amount of chocolate) have really made me feel better, and I'm glad this seems like a normalish occurrence. I know it comes with the job, and usually I am pretty tough, but I think the mixture of shock and rejection baffled me for a while  :( but onwards and upwards  :P

xx

Unfortunately this happens from time to time, and it doesn't matter if you look like Carmen Electra.

Some guys just lose their bottle and rather than admit it, they "make their excuses and leave".
It's a male pride thing.  ::)

Don't let it rattle your cage, it's part of the job. I always think " I wonder how they'd feel if I said
'Oh sorry, you're shorter and balder than I thought."  ;D
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