I had a guy text on Fri, asking to see me Sat night or first thing Sunday. I don't usually answer texts, but it was polite and I told him I could only do Sat daytime ( I was going out with friends on Sat night and don't work Sundays), and to call if convenient. He texted back on Sat morning and asked if he could see me Mon morning as he was travelling in from over seas and could organise his travel plans accordingly. Again I texted back and said I was unable to (had an appointment), but could be available from 2pm Monday, and to call me. He texted a 3rd time saying 2pm is fine and to book him in. At this point I was becoming increasingly annoyed. I had told him twice to call to arrange and he still hadn't. I texted back again and said I wanted him to call to arrange. I didn't hear anything from him until Sat teatime, when he actually called. He sounded well mannered, courteous and genuine and asked if he could book me for 2 to 3 hours. As I hadn't seen him before I said it would be best to book for 2 hours and see how we got on and extend if he wished, rather than have the awkwardness of booking 3 hours and it not go to well. He was fine with this, and he would text me once his ship had docked with hotel details.
However Sat night I came on 5 days early (I have been known to come on twice in a month. I'm never regular, which is a really pain in the arse). So I texted him and told him and that I would be limited on Monday as to what I could do, and if he would rather see me at a later date when full service was resumed then I would understand.
He texted back saying "there is more than one way to skin a cat, " and was still happy to go ahead with Mondays booking.
Through all this I have had a gut feeling all is not quite right. He has given me no reason for alarm, his texts and phone conversation have been friendly and polite, but I can't help thinking somethings wrong and have concerns about doing this booking. Am I just being paranoid, and should I just go ahead with the booking? Although I have shot him down several times he is still keen to see me? I don't know what to do and any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks
Dexi
xx