I'm so confused, not sure if the message was spam or not but it's a link to a net flicks escort documentary. No words just a link. Does that sound like spam or a hint.

That's some coincidental spam if so. It's just weird if that's his way of hinting, what business is it of his i never spoke to the dude anyways. Shall i spam him back "Office worker documentary" whats your point haha.

Confused.

I did once, it's on facebook so yes i have him on there just confused. It sounds like a spam but the coincidence is just too crazy to the point where i don't think it is. He hangs out with my friends but i don't know him i just know of him. I know he is odd with jokes however.

Well looks like my friends are going to have to have the awkward talk. Not straight off the bat though i'll see if anyone else drops hints.

I can't blame for the gossip spreaders i mean it is a giggle at my expense because it's an odd job i'll give it that however this direct approach is odd & a bit catty. I can't say that if i wasn't in this job & found it super positive that i wouldn't do the same aka spread the gossip. My friends don't know but i have a feeling they soon will. Which is.. ok ... not ideal but i know i can handle / (banter) it to my licking. Tonight over drinks  because i'm coincidentally going to the hometown of the guy in question. So no doubt the gossip is thriving there.

I'll live  . I was running out of excuses as to why people couldn't come over anyways. Just got to keep it cut off from close family really.

Anyways i'm jumping to conclusions, i'm not going to blurt out SO GUESS WHAT........ to have them completely clueless hahaha.

Yep, I agree - brazen it out. You don't know for sure that he knows or has proof, so you might be outing yourself for no reason.

Is there any way at all he could have found out? If you've been careful, and not shown your face anywhere you could easily call his bluff. Say nothing and he won't be able to pin anything on you.

If you panic and blurt it out, you'll be playing right into his hands. You can never go back on it either. If I was you, I'd sit tight, and pretend the link he sent has absolutely no significance. Just wait and see what happens before you do anything else.