I don't think its ur own fault at all. He had no right to scare u like that confidentiality is crucial. How the hell would he react if u said you know his front door and he was married.
He is probably a techno freak and merely pointing out you can be traced. I often think  up scenarios. Don't worry about it.

Also with whatsapp. Can't stress enough to having a completely different work phone. Like Anna
said it's creepy and there's a lot of weirdo's out there!

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After the sex he referred me
By my real name n I was shocked and he went on to tell me he knows I'm
always on and off Facebook, referred to a picture of me and my nephew on there, names of people I know, told me that iPhones are connected to satellites and that he can trace exactly where pictures �r took n said he's seen my front door on google maps and when I freaked out he said he was joking! I'm completely creeped out and will NOT be seeing him again I'm just scared in case he messages a relative or something saying I'm working!

I know it's mostly my own fault. Has this happened to anyone else?

He's a creep. He disrespected your privacy. Then he tries to be funny by letting you know he  doesn't have a life and he's been spying on you (facebook, google maps, family, what next?). Creepy. Rude. Disrespectful. Do not see this guy again.

Had I been you I would have confronted him in a very serious manner. Something along the lines if: "How would you feel if you call me for an appointment and first thing I do is tell you your real name, your facebook  friends, your family and what's the colour of your gate?" And see of he "gets it".

In any case what's happening right now (and I keep reading it on the punter forums) is that girls using iphones, androids, blackberries etc... who are logged on their facebook when they send an e-mail to a punter your facebook profile will pop up in his  "people you might know or friends reccomendations etc... and your real identity will be revealed.

Urgh this would've freaked me out! Change your privacy on fb so that no one other than your friends can see your pics, posts and your friends
I had a client add me on twitter in my early days, big lesson learned!

What a sad waste of space! I never use those fancy phones for this line of work as they don't seem to give a toss about peoples privacy. If you are up to date with how to block people from getting your private details such as facebook etc it is okay but if you forget to tick the details you don't want others to see you can end up with them knowing everything about you. 

My facebook is private and not searchable and I'm mostly deactivated so it's all really puzzling me. I know one of you said you'd have expressed anger but while I was alone with him I didn't want to start any sort of conflict in fear of my safety.

I'm somewhat comforted by the fact that I do know his name, hes married with kids,I took his car reg number and have his bank account details, he knows all this except the car reg so he'd be daft to do anything stupid regarding my privacy.

My facebook is private and not searchable and I'm mostly deactivated so it's all really puzzling me.

Even if you de-activate your facebook profile it will "activate" again by itself after a little while. Your facebook profile never dies. The only way of completely removing your facebook account from the web is having your family send them your death certificate.  No I'm not kidding. Harsh but true. 

I have a private facebook account which is not linked to my emails in anyway and I never access it from my work phone.  I only access my work email address from my work phone too as it stops them being linked.

Most photos taken nowadays do have info in them with the GPS of where they were taken, although it does not give your full address just a rough idea of the area.

This guy is obviously on your friends list or has a friend who is to be able to see your details although he would not be able to find your home address from this, he could however get it from your name if you are on the electoral register

It is actually far too easy to find out details about people once they have your facebook account as they then have your full name as well as where you went to school, places you have worked (I HAVE NEVER FILLED THESE PARTS IN) as well as being able to befriend your family and friends and can get info that way, by saying Hi I am so and so friend but I have lost her address as just moved back to the UK and you will be surprised how many people will give it out rather than just saying 'oh well she is on here so ask her yourself'

Delete everyone on your facebook you are not 100% sure of, change your name to something only family would know as in an old nickname etc, and if you are escorting NEVER put photos of you up, pets, family etc are all ok but yourself is a big NO NO as it is too easy for clients to find you.   This guy might just have been trying to warn you how easy you are to find but did it the wrong way but regardless now you lnow you need to change everything to someone who wont tell you but would stalk you instead cannot find it

Also if you have a website with your own domain name make sure you have opted out of Who is.  Otherwise anyone can get your real name and address unless you have paid by pre paid credit card in your work name