Although I admire everyone's honesty , there is no way that I could dilvulge my sex work profession to a virtual stranger , either before or during the first date . There are too many ways that it could come back to bite my arse in my opinion . By the time we've agreed on a date , we would have exchanged face pics , phone numbers, approximate location and such like and I feel it would be too easy for a disgruntled guy that didn't make the cut to a second date to out me .