Ok so I'm probably going to receive my fare share of critique for this and to be fair it's warranted.
I've been taking bookings from a guy for around a year now and he's got a bit "too friendly".
During the booking before our last one, at a hotel, he said he would like me to stay the night.
I was caught off guard because it hadnt been prediscussed and felt quite awkward. I didn't want to stay so to soften the blow (which I shouldn't have done) I said next time. Our bookings are usually 4 hours. I get the impression he would want me to stay over for no more cash than he would pay for the 4 hours.
Next time came and I made an excuse about family commitments. He was disappointed but took it ok. He assumed I would be staying over on our next appointment, which is today, and I let him. (Again, bad me!)
I really don't want to do an overnight because I won't feel comfortable, period. But because I feel I need to keep his business for financial reasons (I don't see many people) I don't know how to tell him and I've buried my head in the sand. (I know I know)
So do I text him now, before I go to the hotel tonight, or do I wait until our appointment tonight? I'm quite an anxious person so something like this is typical of me but is also the reason I only see a handful of people.
Sigh
Any advice please x