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Kendall

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Re: Giving credit
« Reply #15 on: 21 June 2018, 12:16:29 am »
I already told him it would be ok. He sees me at least once a week so don't want to cancel as don't want to lose his business. I do let him get away with more than others but that's probably my personal feelings getting in the way.
Will let you know how it pans out. I seriously don't think he would jeopardise not seeing me again.

It's not really business if you're giving it away for free, and if you really believe he's skint he won't be able to afford to go see another hooker before pay day..

English Massage

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Re: Giving credit
« Reply #16 on: 21 June 2018, 12:21:38 am »
I wouldn't do that, if he is struggling financially he needs to focus on priority bills, living expenses etc...  Seeing girls should be an affordable hobby, he probably will pay you and I know it's your business but maybe his weekly visits are causing him hardship. I would be inclined to limit his visits, but that's just me and I know it doesn't make good business sense to be like that, I'm probably a bit too soft.

LotusFlower

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Re: Giving credit
« Reply #17 on: 21 June 2018, 12:33:21 am »
Nope, never. I had a reg show up at my hotel for our booking then called me from next to the lobby cash machine to say he had accidentally left his wallet at work. Even though I knew he would pay me next time, I didn't want to take that risk as I would absolutely resent them.

Another time, my client got all the way up to my apartment to realise he left his wallet in the car. He looked at me expectantly as if to say "can it wait til after?". No chance.

Give a client any glimmer of special treatment and it then becomes the norm. Give them an extra 10 mins, before you know it, it will be an expected thing. 

ladyofthemansion

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Re: Giving credit
« Reply #18 on: 21 June 2018, 09:06:06 am »
I did it once and the guy came good and paid me the following week but there was always the anxiety in my mind that he wouldn’t pay.

I have two regulars who always pay at the end and I even get the anxiety with them. However they both tip so I don’t want to rock the boat.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

NikitaS

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Re: Giving credit
« Reply #19 on: 21 June 2018, 01:49:46 pm »
I wouldn't do it. Come on thats not how the game is played. Maybe go out with him for a drink and comfort him, but let him know you have principles.