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Ieaio

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Give them a chance?
« on: 29 September 2015, 05:16:54 pm »
If someone hasn't read your profile do you give them a chance or are you strict so if something is brought up that you don't do, will that be it for them? Or will you give them a chance to go over it and then book them in if they still want it?

Wondering wether i'm too strict.

Like theoretically, theres a lot of information in the nooks and crannies of any website i'm listed on but also on the flip side surley you'd take the time to read it if you were serious and a lot of the time when I do give them a chance, they tend to be undesirable clients that I would prefer not to meet in the booking. Not all the time though.

« Last Edit: 29 September 2015, 05:23:46 pm by Ieaio »

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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #1 on: 29 September 2015, 05:43:49 pm »
Many here don't read my profile so save myself the stress and explain the basics. Remember some clients are dyslexic or in a rush in thier life for what ever reason.  Not reading a profile doesn't make them a time waster. I have got many genuine clients like this.

Be as strict as one wants but some clients will look else where.


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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #2 on: 29 September 2015, 05:49:00 pm »
I always go with the tone of the email / conversation........ as stated prior some are just busy , accessing from mobile site etc..... you can usually tell if their just a pillock quite quickly in :-)

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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #3 on: 29 September 2015, 05:55:43 pm »
I don't mind answering more specific questions about a booking but it does grate when they don't seem to know what city I am in or what I charge.Most genuine guys will at least scan those basic things if they are serious and to be fair if they have the time to play 20 questions with probably a few escorts until they find a suitable one then they have the time to check the basics.I'll answer 3 or 4 service and rates related questions and then I will suggest they go back to my profile and have a think about it then they are welcome to call back if they want to go ahead.Some do some don't.I don't expect them to read my profile word for word but I do expect them to have at least scanned for the basics.

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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #4 on: 29 September 2015, 05:57:48 pm »
Many use their phones for hooking up and you don't see full profile on that AFAIK.
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Ieaio

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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #5 on: 29 September 2015, 06:19:09 pm »
I've not got a smart phone anymore, does it give much less info?

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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #6 on: 29 September 2015, 06:28:51 pm »
I just explain, personally. I've found that a lot of actually genuine clients are impatient people with "too long, didn't read" attitude. I just have a few lines I repeat like a broken record if they are being dense about something.

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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #7 on: 29 September 2015, 06:49:56 pm »
You can see the full profile on a phone but it's harder to do - you have to click through to various tabs. The immediate, obvious info they're presented with is pretty much just photos and number.

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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #8 on: 29 September 2015, 07:09:41 pm »
Like Lynx says.
They ring up impatient, annoyed and present
themselves so poorly I've already decided to reject.
I don't want an annoyed man in my flat.

They rarely bother to explain why they haven't read it.
I just say 'read the website' and they rarely accept that
without trying to argue.
« Last Edit: 29 September 2015, 07:39:15 pm by cheesypeas »
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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #9 on: 29 September 2015, 07:45:13 pm »
Many use their phones for hooking up and you don't see full profile on that AFAIK.
Thats not true at all.I can view everything on my mobile it just requires you clicking on the relevant tabs or scrolling down so any bloke who tells you this is full of crap.If he can get on the internet on his phone then he can see the profile especially rates and location.On the AW app for instance all they have to do is click on rates which is on your main profile page underneath the pics etc.They actually have to click on another tab next to the profile tab to get the number.So more effort in that way to miss location and rates to find the number.If accessing the pc version on a mobile all they have to do is scroll down to find your number and the rates and location are just above the number. So alot deliberately don't bother and go about it in a more time consuming arse about face way either because they are lazy or messing around deffo not because they can't view things or because it takes too long Even supposedly in a rush they probably waste more time ringing round and asking 4 or 5 different girls all about themselves.No logic to the being in a rush argument really.
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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #10 on: 29 September 2015, 09:03:04 pm »
..to be honest I try and cut them a little slack - many don't read my profile and ask me daft questions - as long as they are polite I can deal with some ignorance etc.   Funny because some of my nicest clients were and are rubbish on the phone....

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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #11 on: 29 September 2015, 09:13:50 pm »
If they phone and ask questions I generally answer without getting into the whole, this is what will happen in a session scenario. But will allow them some lea way.  If it's a text I am less tolerant and put a link to my web site in my reply. 
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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #12 on: 29 September 2015, 11:17:47 pm »
I don't expect them to read everything, but I do expect them to at the very least read the main few sentences at the beginning of my profile that shows my availability and that I don't respond to text messages etc. It's there to save us both some time, it'll take a lot longer to go through everything via email (I rarely show my number).

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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #13 on: 30 September 2015, 12:09:37 am »
Yes, I take a judgement call on each client. What mainly annoys me is when they ask fundamental info, mostly how much I charge (why call if you have no idea if you can afford me?) and if I do anal (when it's plastered all over all my ads and website that I don't). If they can't even digest those pretty basic facts, and they also come across as charmless, I don't waste too much time on them. If nothing else, that type tends to never book anyway.
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Re: Give them a chance?
« Reply #14 on: 30 September 2015, 11:31:48 am »
I've found that lots seem to have a problem scrolling & clicking tabs, especially if using their phone. I direct everyone to my website if they call & ask prices, really grates on me as I hate to feel like I'm working in a call centre & my patience isn't that great. I think that my tone can be a bit blunt sometimes & I should work on this. Had one guy moaning that it took him aaaages to read my info on his phone, when it all it takes is 20 seconds.  ::) If their network is slow or something then this is an issue. They all seem to be in such a rush these days that I fear they can't be arsed to read all the relevant info. I find most from vivastreet don't seem to find the prices which baffles me  ???