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glafkes

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Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« on: 25 September 2023, 01:38:57 pm »
Hi, I'm a fairly new escort who's been working about a month, and I'd appreciate some insight from those more experienced!

I recently got messaged on AdultWork by a guy saying he was interested in making a booking with me, and listing his interests, which all seemed fine. But then I click on his profile and turns out it is an offering services profile, with rates listed. He is a straight male and has 0 feedback, which is unsurprising since as far as I'm aware it's nigh on impossible for male escorts to make any money unless they are willing to see men.

Any thoughts on how I should take this? I'm worried he might think he's entitled to a discount/freebie, or that he might have a bit of an ego and be hard work. Should I accept but be very clear up front that he is my client and he pays my full rate? Or should I just avoid altogether?

Thanks in advance.

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #1 on: 25 September 2023, 04:13:01 pm »
I have had several of those types message me over the years. When i see they are offering services i just ignore or block them. I just have no interest even finding out if they actually pay to see women or not. So it's up to you what you want to do ignore or message back.

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #2 on: 25 September 2023, 04:31:16 pm »
I've seen at least a couple of guys who were also down as offering services.
The two I can bring to mind were actually great, enjoyable respectful bookings. One was bi, the other wasn't.
I'd label them as sex addicts more than anything more dodgy, trying any way they can to get it.
Both said that they'd mostly had enquiries from men.

I wouldn't have them down as an automatic no, it's the tone of their messages that will give me much more info about whether to accept or decline.

MissBetty

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #3 on: 25 September 2023, 05:46:58 pm »
OK do I am cynical but I bet he asks you next to do some content together for your profile. 

I have also met 1 guy who was offering services. He was after free sex and sating he can get us couple work.  Just another chance.  Now if I see offering services from a prospective client he gets ignored.

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #4 on: 25 September 2023, 06:00:31 pm »
I think some are just trying their luck, I have had a couple of bookings with men who are set as straight male service providers, the first was awful very arrogant and full of himself. Then he asked me why he had had so few offers if any, and why his profile views were so low....

Others have been absolutely fine.

Shared content requests get a 'no thank you' and I have a list of clients who would like to star in videos I make. I only make solo videos.

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #5 on: 26 September 2023, 06:42:41 am »
I see a guy who has a couple profile on there with his girlfriend and he’s lovely. I usually feel a bit iffy if they’ve got a offering profile with 0 feedback and dick pics but they could be ok guys just chancing their luck trying to make a bit of £ so I don’t take it too seriously and will usually take bookings from them. I’ve found usually the new or pretending to be brand new clients are nightmares in the room and texting afterwards thinking it’s a dating site x
Not today satan

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #6 on: 26 September 2023, 08:24:08 am »
If they have an account on AW they get tempted to fill in a profile and so use offering services hoping they will be lucky.

When they have feedback it’s from people “offering services” so you can see that they pay escorts.  I have met a couple and as others have said no issues.  Most of the profiles just show a picture of a cock, which pretty much sums them up.

I did get one male escort asking to share feedback without a meet, that was easy to say NO to.

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #7 on: 26 September 2023, 10:38:47 am »
My only experience with meeting clients who had profiles on AW offering services was several years ago. Two separate men who booked me through my own website and were ok. Mid way through the bookings they casually mentioned they were also escorts and were on AW etc.  Obviously waiting for my reaction and I must have just humoured them because I had seen the occasional straight male profile before and wondered about them, always zero feedback.
After the bookings they then contacted me via AW so I could see their profiles. These two men were one offs for me as one didn't attempt to book again but the other did. I turned him down politely as didn't want to listen to anything he might have to say.

glafkes

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #8 on: 26 September 2023, 09:43:23 pm »
Thanks everyone for your input. In the end I decided to message him saying I could see him but making it clear I would be charging my full rate. He hasn't replied so *shrug*

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #9 on: 27 September 2023, 01:47:42 pm »
Thanks everyone for your input. In the end I decided to message him saying I could see him but making it clear I would be charging my full rate. He hasn't replied so *shrug*

Did he ask for a discount?

glafkes

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #10 on: 27 September 2023, 06:55:25 pm »
Did he ask for a discount?

No, he didn't, but I just wanted to make sure he understood I would see him as my client only and was not interested in an exchange of services. Perhaps that was a bit rude of me when he hadn't mentioned a discount but I would rather pre-emptively cut to the chase on that rather than waste time setting up a meeting only to have him ask/assume further down the line.

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #11 on: 07 October 2023, 07:00:06 pm »
I've had bookings off a few wannabe straight male escorts, they have never had a paid booking themselves. Some are OK, some want content sharing, if they ask this I block immediately.

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Re: Recevied a booking enquiry from a guy who offers services
« Reply #12 on: 07 October 2023, 09:39:23 pm »
If & when a man contacts me and he also offers services I behave exactly the same as I would to any other customer.
I don't assume anything.
If they want something to do with their own service, they will state it in the message, and I decline. But otherwise, they are just clients like any other. I wouldn't even make reference to the fact that they offer services.
The guys I've met who do offer services have all been fine.
Also, I do know those straight men do get booked by women and couples - not as much as they'd like, but there is a market for them.