Sorry if this has been covered before - admin... feel free to merge if relevant.

I have some questions about fisting. I listed fisting as a like when I started out, but never got any requests and then I read somewhere that it was dangerous and that AW were banning it (but it remains as a default likes option).

After getting a bit scared about the safety and health side more than anything, I removed it as a "like" about 3 years ago. Recently, I picked up a new regular who likes some pretty full on kinky stuff. He mentioned fisting a few times but I said no - just went as far as heavy fingering and stretttt...ching. Then, one session, I was surprised that I actually did it for the first time (right up to his wrist) and I have done it several times since. It is actually quite enjoyable if done slowly and the last couple of times I have been near to orgasm it was that pleasurable to be totally full.

Am I being stupid to do this - will it damage me (it feels fine and all shrinks back afterwards - no blood or pain). Why did AW ban it?

If it is OK, I might use as a paid extra in limited amounts. I have Googled it and it seems to be a lesbain kink/thing - anyone get women asking for this?
Thanks for any advice.

Sammy

There's no way I'd even consider trying it with anyone, but if it's OK for you it's not doing anyone any harm. I would perhaps only offer it to regulars you trust though, as there is the potential to do damage.

I've ever tried it with (or ever would ) is Mr Amy and we got nowhere, probably because he's got hands like bloody shovels .

 

I tried it once years ago in civvy life and managed it just about ok but was so nervous and I remember thinking never again. No matter if large sums of money were offered I will never do it again.

Ha me neither , we can get babies out so are pliable but I had a tightening job done a few years ago ( because I wanted to) but no way would I have wanted to stretch before or after .

copied from wikipedia

Fisting can cause laceration or perforation of the vagina, perineum, rectum, and/or colon, resulting in serious injury[9] and even death.[10][11][12][13] In addition, sexual activities that cause air to enter the vagina can lead to a fatal air embolism, and the risk is probably even higher during pregnancy.[14]


Anal fisting being performed on a man
Anal fisting carries risks of colorectal perforation; participants are advised to use latex gloves and lubricant,[15] and designate a safeword, the utterance of which will call an immediate halt to the activity. The practice, along with the insertion of hard objects into the anus, has been significantly related to the traumatization of the rectal mucosa in increasing the likelihood of infection, including Hepatitis B.[16]

Legal status

I enjoy my partner (female) doing it to me now and again. It's an incredibly intimate, powerful act of trust.

The reason I am mentioning female is erm... there's a difference in the size of her hands compared to most men's hands. But that area is a muscle, and if you are sufficiently relaxed, lubricated and aroused enough, with a partner who is willing to go slow, working their way up, I can't see the issue.

I have also fisted a woman vaginally and fisted men anally. You can't use enough lube with the latter, and with either one, you can't ever go too slow or too gentle. That would be my main concern in doing it with a random client - if they don't take it slowly enough, get over excited and just, bluntly, ram it in there.

I re-read your message and you mentioned it as a lesbian sex act. Erm... I have engaged in it with 3 partners but I can't say, speaking to many of my friends, it is something many of them do. I just have a try everything twice mentality, and the first time I did it, it just... happened. I had a partner who asked me to do it to her, but I don't enjoy doing it because I am too scared of hurting a woman in that way. As a Domme, I do it ocassionally on men.

TL;DR - lube, lube, lube. Go super slow, gloves are good, you won't cause lasting damage, no we aren't all fisting each other

So could a great many sexual and other physical activities if attempted by people who lack common sense and haven't got a clue what they're doing (possibly because they think Wikipedia is the fount of all knowledge ). Bondage would be a good example, as would breath play.

There isn't one, that's why .

I know that, but the OP asked about fisting on this post, which is why I posted about fisting and not bondage