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Janie_J

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Getting away with incalls.
« on: 17 June 2012, 02:19:31 pm »
Hello Gals,

This could seem like a daft question; and please, feel free to laugh!!  ;D

I've done some incalls at my home, very few and never more than 2 in a week.  I've got 3 people coming this week, but I'm concerned about such ''high'' footfall  (commence laughter here  :D :D :D :D :D).

I read one ladies post in here about working somewhere a few months, then the neighbours complaining.  I suppose, through my waffle, I'm trying to learn how many clients one can have in a week before it's obviously noticable that a lot of non-residents are visiting a small blocks of flats?  Although with so many variables, I imagine it all depends.

I've an unusually busy week (by my standards) and have nothing lined up for the following week (I can stop fretting again).

What's the general consensus on traffic through the door?

Thank you,

Janie x

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #1 on: 17 June 2012, 03:43:34 pm »
I live in a house on a quite residential street. I see between 1 and 3 people a day ad I have never had any problems. I make sure I only see people mainly in working hours (9-5) when most people are at work and try to avoid clients arriving or leaving and 3.30ish when schools runs are returning. I also live with my partner which I think makes people less suspicious. We maintain a friendly but distant relationship with neighbours. I think they all think I am a sort of invalid wife as I am always at home and keep having crutches and so on!
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« Reply #2 on: 17 June 2012, 03:51:17 pm »
You are right Janie J ................. it DOES all depend.  Its something you have to judge for yourself.  Many people don't like visiting their own homes too especially if they live alone and guys get to know that it is infact their 'home'.  :(
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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #3 on: 17 June 2012, 03:54:07 pm »
I think it takes a very very long time,for people to even think or work out,that someones an escort!people just dont think like that,untill they hear something or if there were cars pulling up at all hours,even then they could just think there friends!
i think sometimes we get paranoid and think theres a sign on our head!
you have to think of it logicly..
unless they actually saw you in stockings and suspenders kissing difffernt men a day,thats the only way they could work it out..
im an escort and if one of my neighbours had alot of comings and goings dont even think i would jump straight to that conclustion..
really i wouldnt worry at all,your obviously discreet..just see the guys,and dont think to deep in to it..dont throw money away,for something that would never be figured out..x x

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #4 on: 17 June 2012, 04:02:43 pm »
but to ansew what a good traffic flow would be ,i think it is mainly times,like someone said 9-5
that would keep you the most discreet..

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #5 on: 17 June 2012, 04:08:15 pm »
You are right Janie J ................. it DOES all depend.  Its something you have to judge for yourself.  Many people don't like visiting their own homes too especially if they live alone and guys get to know that it is infact their 'home'.  :(

I just wanted to say that personally I tell clients that my incall is just a working flat, even though I live there. It just makes me feel safer.

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« Reply #6 on: 17 June 2012, 04:11:55 pm »
I have maximum of 5 clients in one day thats if its the busiest and the neighbours dont say anything, im very discreet and own the property.
I would prefer to do hotels and not my home but its bit too expensive. Ive not had any problems though.
 I also say its a working flat too if asked.
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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #7 on: 17 June 2012, 04:13:57 pm »
You are right Janie J ................. it DOES all depend.  Its something you have to judge for yourself.  Many people don't like visiting their own homes too especially if they live alone and guys get to know that it is infact their 'home'.  :(

Thank you, Lady Lust.  I have told people that I rent the place for bookings.  I've no personal photos on walls or anything of the like in an attempt to shroud the truth.

janie x

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #8 on: 17 June 2012, 04:17:22 pm »
Aaaahhhh, thank you everyone.  You've allayed pretty much all of my paranoia.

I truly appreciate your help.

janie xx

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #9 on: 17 June 2012, 04:22:37 pm »
Glad all the girls who have replied here are the sensible ones.  It is unbelievable the number of escorts that get the 'middle of the night' callers in the hope of being seen.

We just don't know how a guy is going to feel 'when he gets the urge' when out for a night 'with the lads' and fancies 'getting his leg over'  .............. dread the thought of them turning up on anyones doorstep especially if the escort is a single mum with children and they are living with her on the premises she uses for incalls.
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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #10 on: 17 June 2012, 09:09:48 pm »
Every incall I've ever taken has been at home and I have never had any problems, I also live with my boyfriend and my landlord (who is also a good friend of my mums, who knows of my work and couldnt care less) lives 2 doors down! Clients to tend to know or get let known I have a boyfriend who lives with me and knows whats going on, and I think that may have deterred them. I've never had a client turn up once uninvited. I'm not recommending working from home but just saying that it has worked for me.

I havnt had any problems here where people know what I am doing however the last place I lived at was a flat in a block and the walls were very thin. This was a 'council' owned flat and people were often moving in and out, most of them alcoholics and similar and young people so no one ever said anything, although some of the longer term residents were aware but only because I told them! I'm quite open about my profession with people close and come from a very liberal household (my boyfriends sister escorts and webcams and my great gran was also a hooker! ;D), but of course this is different for a lot of girls.

As other girls have said stick to a low amount of clients a week, this should be easier as you wont have many overheads. I see a max of 3 a day, and work daytimes 1-5pm and i do just fine, I'd recommend this to any girl looking to work at home. Vet your clients also, have a weapon stashed JUST IN CASE and use your instincts, I've only ever had nice clients whilst working independant, pretty much every negative experience from the very minor has been whilst working in parlours, where you are expected to see everyone who walks through the door.
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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #11 on: 17 June 2012, 09:18:56 pm »
...have a weapon stashed JUST IN CASE

Having a weapon about the place not only puts you at huge risk if anything does go wrong or any unpleasant situation escalates (not least because it is likely to be taken and used against you), but will also get you prosecuted in the event that the police become involved, and we cannot advise against this strongly enough. Possession of things like CS gas or Mace will also get you charged with firearms offences, which is no walk in the park either.
 
There are many threads on the forum about what to do in the event of an attack or robbery already, but there is no good reason whatsoever to start hiding knives, bricks, bats or whatever about the place - concentrate on screening and proper security instead. The best defence of all is to make sure you always have an escape route, and get as far away as possible as fast as you can. If you have to have anything, have things you can throw (vases, books and so on).

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #12 on: 17 June 2012, 09:44:57 pm »
I have just started escorting from my home and on one week, i had four different guys. I made one of them wait at the end of the road and i picked him up in my car.
Another i told to bring a big folder, like he was an Insurance man.
And another guy i collected further down the street,hidden from my neighbours view and made him lay on the back seat under a car blanket, as i was paranoid my neighbours may see! Poor guy, but i he didnt mind.

To top it all, the fourth guy parked right outside my house (i told him not to) and said hello and waved to my nosey neighbour next door!!
Grr!!!
So from now i will take more care, but i agree that i am possibly being paranoid.  My neighbours on both sides get a lot of visitors and i dont suspect they are up to anything, so hopefully, they wont do the same!  ;)

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #13 on: 18 June 2012, 12:13:32 am »
...have a weapon stashed JUST IN CASE

Having a weapon about the place not only puts you at huge risk if anything does go wrong or any unpleasant situation escalates (not least because it is likely to be taken and used against you), but will also get you prosecuted in the event that the police become involved, and we cannot advise against this strongly enough. Possession of things like CS gas or Mace will also get you charged with firearms offences, which is no walk in the park either.
 
There are many threads on the forum about what to do in the event of an attack or robbery already, but there is no good reason whatsoever to start hiding knives, bricks, bats or whatever about the place - concentrate on screening and proper security instead. The best defence of all is to make sure you always have an escape route, and get as far away as possible as fast as you can. If you have to have anything, have things you can throw (vases, books and so on).

I dont keep anything specific and have hardish things stashed away that I know I could use, I dont deliberately keep bats or anything on the premises lol! I have a big 3 bedroom house old victorian and theres rooms the client doesnt even go in

of course proper screening is advised first and I agree and practice it, probably why I've never had any problems, and of course I do agree the best way to get out of a sticky situation is to leave and not use violence against the client

it helps me to feel safer knowing that if the guy tried to kill me I could atleast do something to get him down a minute!

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #14 on: 18 June 2012, 10:57:37 am »
Could you get a hotel room one or two days a week in your town and get them to come to you there as an incall if your worried about nosy neighbours

Although I dont think 3 guys in a week will draw too much curtain twitching unless you live on Wysteria Lane
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