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sassy27

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Getting a p/t 'vanilla' job along side escorting .
« on: 10 March 2016, 01:15:20 am »
The reasons for doing this is to stop people wondering where I get my money from (will need to be a decent wage). The other reason is to be qualified in something so when I eventually retire from the sex industry I have something to fall back on. The problem is no job is going to pay as well as escorting does unless you spend 10 years at uni which I don't want to do. So my dilemma is trying to find something that isn't too stressful (I suffer from depression), that is on a self employed basis & well paid. Obviously these jobs are few and far between but im willing to study/train for it if it is right for me. I've thought about being a dental hygienest, Web developer, independant financial adviser, accuputurist, psychotherapist. All are half decent paid, can work part time and from home. With the exception of an IFA I believe they won't be too stressful. What do you ladies think? Basically I want the benefits of escorting but not escorting. I understand I will have to take a pay cut which is ok - I can top my money up escorting. Any suggestions of jobs/careers please girls. I'm more than willing to study hard but it's finding something that suits.  Thanks in advance xx
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Kay-Darlin

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Re: Getting a p/t 'vanilla' job along side escorting .
« Reply #1 on: 11 March 2016, 09:45:27 am »
hi hun,  I completely understand with you, my only advise would be until you get tired of escorting and don't care enough about the benefits it give's you and the money's worth, it is then you can accept a pay cut and the value of the money is worthless then your sanity it will give you rather then escorting, does this make any sense??
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L88K

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Re: Getting a p/t 'vanilla' job along side escorting .
« Reply #2 on: 11 March 2016, 01:15:08 pm »
Psychotherapists are not "decently"  paid- they are very well paid! Depending on which path u choose to go, theres lots of different departments but the best is if tou work from home and they tend to charge per hour same as escorts do. I know this for a fact because I have 2 friends already qualified and working from home / self employed , im also doing my degree now but to become fully qualified you need many years of study. A simple course will not allow you to work.
I also though of doing something aside of escorting but havent found anything i like so im just sticking to my studies and work atm
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Mirror

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Re: Getting a p/t 'vanilla' job along side escorting .
« Reply #3 on: 11 March 2016, 02:15:21 pm »
Quote from: L88K on 11 March 2016, 01:15:08 pm
Psychotherapists are not "decently"  paid- they are very well paid! Depending on which path u choose to go, theres lots of different departments but the best is if tou work from home and they tend to charge per hour same as escorts do. I know this for a fact because I have 2 friends already qualified and working from home / self employed , im also doing my degree now but to become fully qualified you need many years of study. A simple course will not allow you to work.
I also though of doing something aside of escorting but havent found anything i like so im just sticking to my studies and work atm

I'm involved in Psychotherapy and many do not charge anywhere near my Escort rate, or that of any other Escorts I know of.
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L88K

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Re: Getting a p/t 'vanilla' job along side escorting .
« Reply #4 on: 11 March 2016, 02:23:36 pm »
Quote from: Mirror on 11 March 2016, 02:15:21 pm
Quote from: L88K on 11 March 2016, 01:15:08 pm
Psychotherapists are not "decently"  paid- they are very well paid! Depending on which path u choose to go, theres lots of different departments but the best is if tou work from home and they tend to charge per hour same as escorts do. I know this for a fact because I have 2 friends already qualified and working from home / self employed , im also doing my degree now but to become fully qualified you need many years of study. A simple course will not allow you to work.
I also though of doing something aside of escorting but havent found anything i like so im just sticking to my studies and work atm

I'm involved in Psychotherapy and many do not charge anywhere near my Escort rate, or that of any other Escorts I know of.

Its a competitive job like escorting, everyone is charging different but I can only speak for the people i know. They are very well established and have long years of experience, about their rates im sure 100% one is charging 120 per hour. I know of someone else who is charging ?40 per hour to which i was surprised to why so low
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Miss Bentley

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Re: Getting a p/t 'vanilla' job along side escorting .
« Reply #5 on: 11 March 2016, 03:04:05 pm »
It's are getting more and more heavily regulated, you do need approval from the regulator as well which requires an exam (not too difficult) BUT approval also requires a credit check (I know that will cause a problem for some) and there's  morality clause in the documentation which this job would almost certainly fall foul of, saying that I'm not sure how they would enforce it and have rever heard of anyone losing it on the grounds of morality for anything short of a criminal conviction! And obviously you will need some background in finance!
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Mirror

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Re: Getting a p/t 'vanilla' job along side escorting .
« Reply #6 on: 11 March 2016, 07:30:05 pm »
Quote from: L88K on 11 March 2016, 02:23:36 pm
Quote from: Mirror on 11 March 2016, 02:15:21 pm
Quote from: L88K on 11 March 2016, 01:15:08 pm
Psychotherapists are not "decently"  paid- they are very well paid! Depending on which path u choose to go, theres lots of different departments but the best is if tou work from home and they tend to charge per hour same as escorts do. I know this for a fact because I have 2 friends already qualified and working from home / self employed , im also doing my degree now but to become fully qualified you need many years of study. A simple course will not allow you to work.
I also though of doing something aside of escorting but havent found anything i like so im just sticking to my studies and work atm


Most psychotherapists in my part of the UK charge ?30-40 per hour experienced or not, and I know it's pretty much the same in other areas too.
I'm involved in Psychotherapy and many do not charge anywhere near my Escort rate, or that of any other Escorts I know of.

Its a competitive job like escorting, everyone is charging different but I can only speak for the people i know. They are very well established and have long years of experience, about their rates im sure 100% one is charging 120 per hour. I know of someone else who is charging ?40 per hour to which i was surprised to why so low
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Mirror

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Re: Getting a p/t 'vanilla' job along side escorting .
« Reply #7 on: 11 March 2016, 07:33:01 pm »
Quote from: L88K on 11 March 2016, 02:23:36 pm
Quote from: Mirror on 11 March 2016, 02:15:21 pm
Quote from: L88K on 11 March 2016, 01:15:08 pm
Psychotherapists are not "decently"  paid- they are very well paid! Depending on which path u choose to go, theres lots of different departments but the best is if tou work from home and they tend to charge per hour same as escorts do. I know this for a fact because I have 2 friends already qualified and working from home / self employed , im also doing my degree now but to become fully qualified you need many years of study. A simple course will not allow you to work.
I also though of doing something aside of escorting but havent found anything i like so im just sticking to my studies and work atm

?40 is mostly the going rate, certainly in my part of the country and further a field.

I'm involved in Psychotherapy and many do not charge anywhere near my Escort rate, or that of any other Escorts I know of.

Its a competitive job like escorting, everyone is charging different but I can only speak for the people i know. They are very well established and have long years of experience, about their rates im sure 100% one is charging 120 per hour. I know of someone else who is charging ?40 per hour to which i was surprised to why so low
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Re: Getting a p/t 'vanilla' job along side escorting .
« Reply #8 on: 12 March 2016, 02:46:12 am »
Quote from: sassy27 on 10 March 2016, 01:15:20 am
The reasons for doing this is to stop people wondering where I get my money from (

You could do something just one or two days and tell people you do more so they think it's your main income.
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lady c

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Re: Getting a p/t 'vanilla' job along side escorting .
« Reply #9 on: 15 March 2016, 01:51:59 pm »
i am in the same position as you and thought maybe just get a few mornings a week doing something different but later on i think i will buy a small coffee shop.
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