Pony up, thats brilliant.  I'm going to use that one. 

and yes i think it is wise not doing overnighters at home,

Incall home cooked Dinners! God what a superb idea! When I am able I shall do that too.

Now that's one hell of a booking! 

Would they be choosing an entree or would it be your surprise?

I'm with you lydia, we could offer GFE's with a take away pizza and a dvd instead... but that might actually be a bit too much like real life, I could actually get a real boyfriend to do that with.  less painfull if im being paid for it i suppose lol

Hey all

Not so much in this instance but I have to say when I have gone to visit people I don't want to (LOL) - nothing to do with escorting then I pre-arrange with my daughter to call me at a certain time and I in turn say - Oh No = I am late for ...............    got to hurry up.

Obviously we cannot do this in escorting but what I have done is when I know I am going to have a dawdler then I set an alarm on my mobile phone to go off at a pre-set time and then say to him - Oh gosh that is my reminder for .................  whatever it is...........

However, these above steps really dont need to be taken.

What I usually do if I feel someone is overstepping the mark is stand up and dont sit down again and start tidying up and walking in and out of the room so eventually they get the hint and i indulge less in conversation - it usually works.

But, again, if need be I have actually said - yes I have another client coming so need to get ready.  Like the others said, If they dont like that then tough.

Have a great day all
Love
Alex xx

Lord! One thing I won't do is cook for anybody in a booking. I do enough of it at home. I'm not going to do it in a booking, even if I'm being paid for it. Saying that, I'm happy for guys to show off their culinary skills if they so wish.

I'm thinking I don't actually want to advertise overnighters.. And I don't want to cook  though I would happily buy something in. 

I don't want anyone thinking that incall dinner dates are an expected/regular thing - I have done three in total (although I have made many a sandwich/microwaved leftover shepherds pie and so on for the more pitiful-looking before they have left) and I only know of one other lady who offers them at all!

A dinner date is almost exclusively outcall - if I am asked about a dinner booking I ask whether the client would like incall or outcall, and the reaction is always one of surprise! I am a very confident cook but would not even think attempting this if I was anything else - there are enough potential pitfalls as it is without adding the possibility of ruined food to the mix as well. My only other tip is don't make starters and always make pudding. Men like pudding, even if they say they don't.

(and if they cancel at the last minute you can eat it all yourself, in your dressing gown )