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alexisrosex

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Just started offering outcalls - tips & advice please
« on: 29 March 2022, 09:35:54 pm »
Hey everyone!

So, I've just started offering outcalls and I have my first outcall booking on Saturday at 10pm for an hour (at their house)

I'm just seeking some advice regarding what to take, safety measures, any tips, etc.

Thank you! Xx

amy

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Re: Just started offering outcalls - tips & advice please
« Reply #1 on: 29 March 2022, 10:50:01 pm »
There is an thread about outcall bag contents somewhere which was bumped/merged fairly recently; I'll have a look for it

As with all outcalls the priority is your security checks; you need proof of residency to avoid a wild goose chase and an agreed system with your security buddy for before and after so that they can raise the alarm if they don't hear from you. I don't visit private residences (and I haven't done an outcall in years now), but if you have no other way to check then a scan of a bill and a deposit would be better than nothing.

For security calls I'd suggest a call just before you arrive, another once you're in and have been paid and the last one once you've left (NOT before you do - you need to be safely away). Agree a length of time before they try to contact you (I used to do ten minutes max) and a course of action for if they can't get hold of you - calling the client first and then the police, for example :)

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Re: Just started offering outcalls - tips & advice please
« Reply #2 on: 30 March 2022, 10:18:12 am »
As ever, Amy’s advice is priceless.

I only do outcalls and will not visit private residences as I prefer the security of a hotel.  As you are electing to visit private residences, it is even more vital you do have a safety system in place with a friend. Also, if you are taking advance bookings, I would suggest asking for a deposit as this will cut down on time-wasters and those looking to send you on a wild-goose chase.

Be sure to keep all your things together, and pay attention to how the front door/any doors are locked.  Also, if you are offered any beverages, be sure they are from an unopened bottle - have a sealed bottle of water in your bags just incase all drinks have been opened.


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Re: Just started offering outcalls - tips & advice please
« Reply #3 on: 30 March 2022, 11:58:38 am »
As ever, Amy’s advice is priceless.

I only do outcalls and will not visit private residences as I prefer the security of a hotel.  As you are electing to visit private residences, it is even more vital you do have a safety system in place with a friend. Also, if you are taking advance bookings, I would suggest asking for a deposit as this will cut down on time-wasters and those looking to send you on a wild-goose chase.

Be sure to keep all your things together, and pay attention to how the front door/any doors are locked.  Also, if you are offered any beverages, be sure they are from an unopened bottle - have a sealed bottle of water in your bags just incase all drinks have been opened.

I'm currently mainly outcall, Miffy's advice is the same I would give. I do visit homes, private residences. Women have been imprisoned in hotel rooms, watch out for those who might give a different room number, my security buddy always has the room number.

For private homes ask for parking information (if driving), colour of the door, is the number on the door? Any special directions? I learned this after arriving without a door insight, I want to make sure I can find the door and that it's the right one. I also ask for towel, soap, heating on many people including very respectibles forget this. I do carry a small towel in one of my outcall bags but the other bag is not quite big enough.

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Re: Just started offering outcalls - tips & advice please
« Reply #4 on: 09 June 2023, 12:56:56 pm »
Did you establish he was at the address he was claiming to be at (and just wouldn't come out) DL, or just go along on the off chance? It would be helpful to know whether he's going to catch out people who do their security checks.

How might someone do that Amy?
I've always just gone along to outcall addresses until an unpleasant experience on tour in St Helens so now I don't offer outcalls on tour.

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Re: Just started offering outcalls - tips & advice please
« Reply #5 on: 09 June 2023, 01:15:15 pm »
I've merged your post in here Cgiw, since it's not part of the warning thread.

My answer above is the same now as it was then, although I do a handful of (hotel) outcalls now and again. It's one of the vanishingly small number of situations where I would ask for a deposit if somebody was unable to prove their whereabouts, but there will be people here more up to speed with checking private residences and they'll have more ideas :).

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Re: Just started offering outcalls - tips & advice please
« Reply #6 on: 09 June 2023, 01:20:58 pm »
I've merged your post in here Cgiw, since it's not part of the warning thread.

My answer above is the same now as it was then, although I do a handful of (hotel) outcalls now and again. It's one of the vanishingly small number of situations where I would ask for a deposit if somebody was unable to prove their whereabouts, but there will be people here more up to speed with checking private residences and they'll have more ideas :).

Before I took deposits I would ask for a photograph of a recent utility bill, or that they had a landline in the telephone directory - I would look up the telephone number, phone it and speak to them on it.

Hotel I needed copy of the booking confirmation, and or to be able to speak to them on the room landline eg phone reception ask to be put through the Mr Smith in room XX.

One of the biggest problems, little narks these days is not being given the room number. Even when I meet outside it's part of my security (I never disappear into a hotel without a trace). Also check the room number when you do go to the room, I have had someone give me the wrong one which meant if anything happened my security buddy would be sending staff to the wrong room. I only realised when on my way out, he said it was a typo on his part.

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Re: Just started offering outcalls - tips & advice please
« Reply #7 on: 09 June 2023, 03:30:30 pm »
I've merged your post in here Cgiw, since it's not part of the warning thread.

My answer above is the same now as it was then, although I do a handful of (hotel) outcalls now and again. It's one of the vanishingly small number of situations where I would ask for a deposit if somebody was unable to prove their whereabouts, but there will be people here more up to speed with checking private residences and they'll have more ideas :).

Thanks Amy, appreciated.