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Kinkyink

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After advice please
« on: 01 May 2024, 06:49:53 pm »
Hi Guys

I've been camming on adultwork for a while now and slowing becoming intrigued with starting escorting when i have regulars asking me.
i joined here a few weeks ago and read a fair few topics and the warnings tab and it kinda scared me a bit but i guess my question is, can you have a option to pick and choose on AW who you'd meet?
Would i change my profile to seeking services so i can then chat during cam about meeting as at the moment my camming agency said you can get your account suspended if you do talk about it but dont offer it on your profile?
I'd only be able to offer out calls to so do you think that would hinder my client base?
I'm just trying to research as much as i can before taking the plunge xx

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Re: After advice please
« Reply #1 on: 01 May 2024, 09:06:23 pm »
Hi Kinkyink and welcome :)

First and foremost you can (and will) turn down a punter for any reason you like; not wanting to see them is a reason. Adultwork is just one of many advertising platforms, and how you choose to work is nothing to do with them. I have idea idea about anything to do with webcamming though, so I'll leave that for somebody else.

Being outcall only will limit things a bit, but a lot depends on where you are and when you're available. If you have other sources of income then I'd give it a go and just be very picky - you might want to stick to hotels for starters rather than private residences but either way, make sure you have a security buddy who knows where you are and is expecting to hear from you.

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Re: After advice please
« Reply #2 on: 11 May 2024, 03:46:46 pm »
Even if you see someone and don't enjoy his company for whatever reason and don't want to see them again I normally say I don't think we are compatible .

Also might be an idea to restrict booking time to say an hour max so you can see if you get on with an option to extend if you enjoy their company.

As mentioned above get a security buddy and call or text them once you arrive.

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Re: After advice please
« Reply #3 on: 11 May 2024, 05:28:24 pm »
This is why you see a lot of beautiful cam models rates as £500 an hour. So they can lure men in on cam thinking they are going to sleep with them but at a really high rate.

You can only vet your clients over text to get an idea of what they are like IE age,ethnicity, nationality. But this doesn’t guarantee a good client. A lot of clients don’t like paying deposits but you could add a low deposit of £20 to avoid time wasters.

Be careful working from your own home I’ve known clients who get obsessive to out girls to neighbours or turn up unexpected. Would suggest starting in a hotel to make yourself safer.

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« Reply #4 on: 11 May 2024, 11:31:22 pm »
This is why you see a lot of beautiful cam models rates as £500 an hour. So they can lure men in on cam thinking they are going to sleep with them but at a really high rate.

You can only vet your clients over text to get an idea of what they are like IE age,ethnicity, nationality. But this doesn’t guarantee a good client. A lot of clients don’t like paying deposits but you could add a low deposit of £20 to avoid time wasters.

Be careful working from your own home I’ve known clients who get obsessive to out girls to neighbours or turn up unexpected. Would suggest starting in a hotel to make yourself safer.

All of the above is great advice, I'd like to add that when I see a new person at home, even after my vetting, I only give them the postcode. I tell them where to wait and if I look out of the window and it doesn't look like something I want to do, I just f it off!

Plus, if it doesn't feel right, don't go there.

As working ladies, we have to attune our "spider senses"... you know in your soul if something isn't right, listen to that instinct, it's there for a reason and it will keep you safe.
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Re: After advice please
« Reply #5 on: 12 May 2024, 12:22:19 am »
I'd only be able to offer out calls

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« Reply #6 on: 12 May 2024, 12:23:54 am »
For those who missed it :)

Noted, but I still think that it was worth saying x
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Re: After advice please
« Reply #7 on: 12 May 2024, 12:25:35 am »
Noted, but I still think that it was worth saying x

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« Reply #8 on: 12 May 2024, 12:26:54 am »
For those who missed it :)


... and even for outcalls, I still do the same. Vague address and a damn good look at em
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« Reply #9 on: 12 May 2024, 12:28:09 am »

... and even for outcalls, I still do the same. Vague address and a damn good look at em

Sorry, I mean on tour
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« Reply #10 on: 12 May 2024, 12:33:58 am »
I've had times when I have looked out of my touring apartment and thought to myself, NO WAY, there have also, admittedly not many times, but there's been more than one turn up...only in Birmingham, but you have to keep on your toes
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