Hello to all of you out there that I obviously have offended by my recent comments here. I am sincerely SORRY. When I say GLAMOURISING THIS INDUSTRY I'm merely talking about those ladies out there banging on about it been a widely accepted career choice, one that you still seem to think society as a whole will one day learn to accept. I know some women out there do make a good living from it and you seem to forget that I am also in this industry to some degree aswell, I may not have been doing it as long as some of you but I do have a good sensible head on my shoulders. I have found this site to be very useful in many ways and most women on here do seem to geniunely want to helps others and give really good advice, however some of you do tend to jump on your high horses a lot of the time and talk in riddles instead of plain english. This of course does'nt help when newbie are seriously looking for help and advice. I know you guys have been very active memebers on this website for some time now which is a good thing. Just spare a thought for those of us that need to lean on you for things we dont know at times, thats all i'm saying.
Sorry again for offending anyone, that seriously is not my intention.
I realise you've apologised, but you've pissed me off. You clearly said:
I'm not about to sit here on this site and see women glarmourising this industry......
....which clearly implies you meant women (inc. XW5) on this site and in particular in this thread. And also saying:
my advice is open, honest and all above board.....
also implies that our advice isn't. In this same thread I told the OP not to do this job if she doesn't think she can do it. Is your advice better than mine, or XW5, a bloke who's been around in this industry for years?
You were personalising your post, you weren't talking generally and yes, I do take offence to it.
Yes, I have been here since the beginning and yes, I offer advice when asked. But just because I do, it doesn't mean I can't have an opinion too. This isn't a fluffy job where the sex is always great and the men are always 6ft plus hunks. In no way, shape or form do I glamourise the industry and at no point on this forum have I said that this job will ever be socially accepted, because I personally don't think it will be. If the Bible is to be believed prostitution is as old as Jesus, but we're no further forward to ever being accepted. Sex, and the selling of it, will always be sordid to people. But so what if women make careers out of it? How does that coincide with us thinking that it's socially acceptable?
This job does have its perks. It's not all doom and gloom. And I will tell the truth about it, the good bits and the bad bits.