Hi hon....
I think you need to change your profile back to "offering" as some guys will search based on that, and if you are "seeking" surely that means you are looking for escorts yourself?
I am totally with you on your post and have had the same problem myself in that when I started out, I too got too personal, and learned a big hard lesson. To be honest, for me though, I started out not having a clue, where to turn, who to talk to, and where to set boundaries.
Which is why im so grateful I found this site.
And you quickly learn!!
If you want to talk more about the situation you found yourself in, feel free to PM me, ive probably been there myself so may be able to help, and if not, hey, sometimes its just nice to share.
xxx