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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Vichyssoise on 16 September 2014, 07:04:19 am

Title: Gated appartment
Post by: Vichyssoise on 16 September 2014, 07:04:19 am
I have been a bit reluctant to do out calls to private residence, I feel far more in control with in calls even from a hotel. Tonight I have an out call to someone previously met at my usual in call hotel. I liked him enough to agree to a out call. Usually checks done, but he lives in a gated appartment. What are your thoughts on this?   :-\
Title: Re: Gated appartment
Post by: meetingdiversity on 16 September 2014, 09:17:18 am
It just means he has plenty of money. If he passed all the checks what is your concern. The gated apartment be it or a house. But what determines whether the client is genuine is not by judging the housing they live in.You have met him before. You liked him enough. You agreed to an out call.

When a client doesn't pass the checks is a bad thing. Which is a good sign staying safe.

Title: Re: Gated appartment
Post by: Rosa on 16 September 2014, 09:20:54 am
I'd have no problem, it's simply where he lives. Make sure you clarify the procedure to get in/out.
Title: Re: Gated appartment
Post by: Vichyssoise on 16 September 2014, 09:37:55 am
Thank you both, he has passed the checks. I was just a bit concerned in case it felt like I was being 'locked in'. I wanted more experienced people to put my mind at rest. Being my first to a private residence I am a bit skittish, and overly nervous.
Title: Re: Gated appartment
Post by: luciefate on 16 September 2014, 09:53:15 am
I always do outcalls and have never had a problem yet. Go with your gut instinct - it's never wrong.
Title: Re: Gated appartment
Post by: Curvygal on 16 September 2014, 09:19:01 pm
I've been to gated places before.  If it all checks out go for it, especially if you know the guy. :)
Title: Re: Gated appartment
Post by: Vichyssoise on 16 September 2014, 09:30:39 pm
Well I have been and I am back  :). Just as when I met him before he was lovely. And wants to book a dinner date next. Wouldn't have liked going in without having met him first though. Thank you all.