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Author Topic: Is preference for girls w/o sex industry experience bad?  (Read 1460 times)

ladyblue

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From what I can see, it's basically a sort of floating club in hotel suites to get around the touching strip club laws in my city--I've found it really hard to find any information about them, though. They've said they only want girls with no prior sex work experience, and I can't honestly really tell if that's a warning bell or not--and of course, that makes it doubly hard to get information about them. I'm wary, but it looks lucrative  so I thought I should get opinions before throwing it out entirely.

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Re: Is preference for girls w/o sex industry experience bad?
« Reply #1 on: 14 May 2011, 02:02:20 am »
That would definitely flag up for me, if there's no information about them around how are they getting clients? And no previous sex work experience? That sounds like 'we would like some naieve young women please' to me.

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Re: Is preference for girls w/o sex industry experience bad?
« Reply #2 on: 14 May 2011, 03:09:16 am »
I know a guy who has a couple of regular working girls that he always visits/ keeps in touch with; and always asks them to find a non-working 'naughty' friend to join in. He will still always compensate the 'non-working' girl ...  "shopping money" or whatever he chooses to call it. Without wanting to over-analyse too deeply I think it comes back to this hang-up that a lot of men who visit working girls have - wanting to feel a girl is there because she wants to be with him, rather than because it is her job, wanting to believe she is just a 'naughty' girl who likes to 'party'.
Whatever it is, it's their issue and from what I have heard..  ;) it is generally a working girl in disguise in any case!!
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Re: Is preference for girls w/o sex industry experience bad?
« Reply #3 on: 14 May 2011, 08:45:12 am »
If you're somewhere prostitution is illegal, I can almost see it as 'if we don't have people known as prostitutes, then we've a higher change of getting away with this'. (See the related way Anika Mae was banned from stripping at a local club once they found out about her escorting, for example. Mammothly unfair, especially given escorting is legal here, but it would have made their licensing easier.)

More likely it's 'if we don't have people with prostitution know-how, then we've a higher chance of getting away with stuff with them', so yes, warning bell until proved otherwise.
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Re: Is preference for girls w/o sex industry experience bad?
« Reply #4 on: 14 May 2011, 01:09:58 pm »
Or maybe the club management fear the girl with escorting experience  will be meeting clients outside making them loose interest in coming back to the club to pay her for more lap dances . Men are hunters by nature and if you don't give them what they want they'll keep coming back   for more (while leaving their $$$ at the club )  "in the hopes of" . This is the tease industry and that's how they make their money. So it makes sense to me they want "proffesional teasers" not professional "give it away all". Also they don't want a girl saying" "I'm going on my lunch break" and leaving with a client in his car (it happens a lot in stripclubs).  Besides being dangerous (and too risky for the club if something bad happens) it will stop the client from spending the rest of his $$$  within the premises.  Also (and i agree with the above poster)  inexperienced  girls are easier to control. So it makes sense to me why they don't want girls with sex industry experience and I don't see it as a "warning bell".  It's plain logic.

You really-really want to get a job in a strip club (specially a reputed one) ? Fine, but you'll have to lie about your escort gig (besides: your past it's none of their friggin' business) As far as they're concerned you used to be a secretary. Period. You're dealing with some seedy strip club owner not with the HR manager of some big corporation who's going to ask for references. You don't want to give strangers  and "sketchy types"  any power by disclosing personal (and very) sensitive information that can be (and will be) used against you.
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