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redjx

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Client wants me to beat him
« on: 24 November 2015, 10:35:30 pm »
Okay so this is my third post in two days, but I'd rather ask about everyhing I'm unsure of. So he asked if I do overnight bookings & how much, he agreed to the price & then straight away asked if I'd be willing to tie him up & beat him till he bleeds & use his toys on him. Now, I'm a total sub myself & I'm useless at being the dominant one & I feel as though I'd really disappoint him which I obviously wouldn't want. I don't even know how to decline wihout sounded like a complete newbie moron!
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amy

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Re: Client wants me to beat him
« Reply #1 on: 25 November 2015, 12:02:41 am »
Well you decline by politely saying 'I'm sorry, but that's not a service I offer and I'd suggest you find somebody more suited to you', just as you would with anybody asking for things you don't do?

Given that you're new and he's asking about overnights despite not having a clue what you actually offer, he's more than likely a timewaster anyway :).
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BibiofLeeds

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Re: Client wants me to beat him
« Reply #2 on: 25 November 2015, 06:10:13 pm »
Yep if this guy was genuinely into the more extreme things such as this he would be looking for a proper domme not a newbie who does not advertise such things.Equally most genuine experienced clients tend to ask for overnights with ladies known to them so he is most likely a fantacist.If you are not into such things would you really want to go ahead and beat someone until they bleed?You not have to take every booking you get just say 'I don't offer that' or 'Sorry not my thing'and end of conversation.
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Nia Hope

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Re: Client wants me to beat him
« Reply #3 on: 25 November 2015, 09:19:47 pm »
Quote from: BibiofLeeds on 25 November 2015, 06:10:13 pm
Yep if this guy was genuinely into the more extreme things such as this he would be looking for a proper domme not a newbie who does not advertise such things.Equally most genuine experienced clients tend to ask for overnights with ladies known to them so he is most likely a fantacist.If you are not into such things would you really want to go ahead and beat someone until they bleed?You not have to take every booking you get just say 'I don't offer that' or 'Sorry not my thing'and end of conversation.
I agree, I'm a Domme and it's rare I get a request to all out beat a client, I wish I got more. For him to ask you to do this extreme service is clearly a timewaster/fantasist email x
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SoulSurvivor

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Re: Client wants me to beat him
« Reply #4 on: 28 November 2015, 12:47:04 am »
Yep sounds like a timewaster. I'm an ex Domme and these guys who want to be beaten to the point of bleeding are usually rare. There are some CP caning slaves out there who like that. Otherwise he's just a timewaster who has probably been declined by Dommes who see through him and seeking someone new who appears easier to try and time waste with. I suggest avoiding severe BDSM unless you know what you're doing anyway.
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