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Title: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Lucymay on 07 November 2008, 12:24:03 pm
I do cum in mouth but i dont enjoy it if am truthful (well not with any tom, dick and harry) anyone got any tips to make it easier?
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: amy on 07 November 2008, 12:40:23 pm
I do cum in mouth but i dont enjoy it if am truthful (well not with any tom, dick and harry) anyone got any tips to make it easier?

If I'm being really honest I would have to say that if you don't like it, you probably shouldn't be doing it but I know there is always the odd one with that terrible sour taste (heavy smokers are worst, I find) and angle can make a difference too. If your gag reflex is sensitive try to 'aim' into your cheek rather than the back of your throat (unless you also swallow; I don't). I find it easier to control when he is lying down but a lot of men seem to prefer standing up. Pineapple juice is supposed to help, taste wise :D.

Honestly - if you don't enjoy it, take it off the list - I can't think of anything worse to do if I wasn't comfortable with it and I'm sure most other ladies would agree.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Lucymay on 07 November 2008, 03:42:40 pm
sorry forgot to say i do swallow but some men just taste awful and its maybe me nearly gag.  maybe i need to now offer swallow, do you find it will make a big difference to bookings?
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: cecilia.chic on 07 November 2008, 05:16:36 pm
Your reply was posted at the perfect time for me, Amy.  I've just finished reading a book, written by a former escort, who said that if you allow a client to CIM then "a real woman would swallow".  ???  It was an otherwise ok introduction to escorting, but that line stood out because it made no sense in the context and seemed quite haughty. 

I'm curious as to your reaction and if I have any sense of your personality from reading your posts, I don't think you'll mind sharing.  ;D

Also, can someone please tell me how to quote properly?  I have tried various methods of selecting text and clicking on "quote", but each time I get the whole message in my reply rather than the words I've selected.  Tutorial, please.  :)

Cece
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: amy on 07 November 2008, 08:00:03 pm
Your reply was posted at the perfect time for me, Amy.  I've just finished reading a book, written by a former escort, who said that if you allow a client to CIM then "a real woman would swallow".  ???  It was an otherwise ok introduction to escorting, but that line stood out because it made no sense in the context and seemed quite haughty. 

I'm curious as to your reaction and if I have any sense of your personality from reading your posts, I don't think you'll mind sharing.  ;D

Also, can someone please tell me how to quote properly?  I have tried various methods of selecting text and clicking on "quote", but each time I get the whole message in my reply rather than the words I've selected.  Tutorial, please.  :)

Cece

Hi Cece!

My reaction is that whoever wrote that is a cretin - being a 'real woman' (as opposed to what? a pretend one?) is nothing to do with doing what someone else thinks you should and everything to do with setting your boundaries at a point which you are comfortable with and sticking to them. I don't swallow because I don't like it, although I am fine with CIM itself (I think it's the texture).

As for making any difference to bookings, in all honesty most men are so blasted in the seconds after they have come that they couldn't give a rat's arse if you gargled with it. Obviously it would be poor form to jump up making retching noises and run for the sink ;D, but a quick, discreet spit into a tissue is barely noticeable (and even less so if you keep one folded in the top of your stocking, like I never remember to do). I will admit that if I suspect a client is going to be one of the truly foul-tasting ones (and it can really take you by surprise, but a strong smell of fags makes it a fair assumption) I always try to go for a shag instead if at all possible.

To do quotes I use the quote button and just delete the bits I don't want - if there is another way it's beyond me, I'm afraid and I have no idea how to do multiple ones ???
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Nell2 on 07 November 2008, 08:55:20 pm
Thanks for the info Amy about smokers and strong smelling cum...........

I have one particular client whose cum does taste really strong and yes he is a heavy smoker.

It helps to know these things for future use!

Alexandra
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 08 November 2008, 01:52:31 am
I have one particular client whose cum does taste really strong and yes he is a heavy smoker.

wouldnt this correlate to testicular cancer? just curious
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: cassie on 08 November 2008, 03:10:05 am
The taste of cum is mainly related to what the person eats and if he smokes. The 'best' tasting or least bad is that of a tea total vegetarian, the worst is that of a smoking carnivor, followed by red meat eaters. This was a proper scientific study, but I can't remember where I read it and practical experience had confirmed this for me. As for illnesses, I would imagine they have an impact, but I haven't read anything about that.

I don't like the taste of cum very much and find by swallowing I avoid most of the taste. The taste buds are on the tip and at the centre of the tongue, the further back you go the less you can taste. So I aim to catch the cum at the back of my tongue and as far back in the throat as I can without gagging and swallow straight away. If you deep throat and can control the gag reflex this isn't too difficult.

it works for me.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Richard on 10 November 2008, 04:01:58 pm
The taste of cum is mainly related to what the person eats and if he smokes. The 'best' tasting or least bad is that of a teetotal vegetarian, the worst is that of a smoking carnivor, followed by red meat eaters. (...)

I don't like the taste of cum very much and find by swallowing I avoid most of the taste. The taste buds are on the tip and at the centre of the tongue, the further back you go the less you can taste. So I aim to catch the cum at the back of my tongue and as far back in the throat as I can without gagging and swallow straight away. If you deep throat and can control the gag reflex this isn't too difficult.

I do like the taste, but this is right. It's one reason why I don't do smokers.

Look at which bits of the tongue have which sort of taste receptors.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 10 November 2008, 08:35:07 pm
I do like the taste, but this is right. It's one reason why I don't do smokers.

Look at which bits of the tongue have which sort of taste receptors.

well, I've known some smokers to have regular tasting cum...I think it depends on which KIND of cigarettes one smokes (no I dont smoke, but have known some who do)

However, I have never had to do something of that nature during a booking. why? I dont know
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: manisha on 13 November 2008, 01:06:34 am
why would you want to swallow anyway? I dont get that bit once a man has cum why should he care wether you spit or swallow?
As an escort why would you swallow, i mean what about sti's?
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Anika Mae on 13 November 2008, 01:32:01 am
I've heard that swallowing is a little safer than spitting, because (most?) STIs won't survive for long in your digestive system, and assuming you're not keeping it in your mouth to show them, swallowing allows you to get the stuff away from those delicate membranes faster than spitting.

In reality I expect there's not much in it, but if you let them come in your mouth you're exposing yourself to whatever's in their semen whether you swallow it or not.

In my personal life I like to swallow and never saw the point of spitting it out anyway, but that's just personal preference.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: cassie on 13 November 2008, 01:58:46 am
Personally I find spitting is more messy, the semen is in your mouth for longer and you end up tasting it more. It also seems to turn some men on more when they find out you swallow, not quite sure why.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: manisha on 13 November 2008, 10:05:20 am
I dont really do cim, have done just litterally a handful of times for regulars and spit out straight away like withing seconds, so i dont actually taste anything and brush my teeth straight after. Wow i didnt know that you are still at risk of sti's even if you spit, thanks for the Anika! xxxx
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Welsh Lass on 13 November 2008, 11:31:24 am
try not to clean your teeth right before or after.
Use mouthwash if you feel the need.
If you have bleeding gums or anything like that (you don't have to have wretched teeth for bleeding gums) you might not want to go cleaning them right before or afterwards causing them to bleed.
I know the risk is super tiny, really tiny, really, really tiny! Ha! But go for mouthwash, it's better to gargle that around your mouth anyhow, totally clears up any aftertaste, get a nice tasting one, Listerine tastes fab - I keep a bottle in my car and am often to be found on the way home swigging from it copiously and I even swallow that too! Ha!
I asked my dentist when I had my last checkup, was it ok to actually swallow the stuff - oh, the mouthwash that is! And he said as long as your not downing pints of the stuff, you should be okay!
I can't tell the difference between smokers and non smokers. I don't mind the whole swallowing thing at all though, I kind of quite like it.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: manisha on 13 November 2008, 03:36:10 pm
Thanks for that. Swallowing just seems abit too personal for me if you know what i mean xx
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: foxy on 14 November 2008, 02:54:14 pm
CIM in my opinion is just plain dangerous, I've been guilty of i when I first started out but after much research i've changed my policy to Oral with (for punters who've seen me before the policy change its still oral without but i do not and will not do CIM..
you can contract something from a  man's sperm, it would be even worse if God forbid there's blood in his sperm.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: cassie on 14 November 2008, 03:55:49 pm
If you do OWO then CIM doesn't really raise the risk of STIs as it is not the sperm, but the seminal fluid, which carries the viruses and bacteria and that is produced long before the point of orgasm, so it wouldn't matter if you swallow or not - best protection is of  course to use a condom.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: brandy@saafe on 14 November 2008, 05:09:54 pm
CIM in my opinion is just plain dangerous, I've been guilty of i when I first started out but after much research i've changed my policy to Oral with (for punters who've seen me before the policy change its still oral without but i do not and will not do CIM..
you can contract something from a  man's sperm, it would be even worse if God forbid there's blood in his sperm.

But you still do oral without with your regular punters. In that case it's just as dangerous doing that as it is doing CIM. Just as it is doing reverse oral, then allowing him to kiss you.
Just because you no longer provide CIM it doesn't mean you're safer than those that do. All these services carry a degree of risk. If you don't allow oral without at all (which you do), don't do reverse oral, or don't allow kissing, then brilliant. Otherwise what you do carries a certain degree of risk as I said, just as CIM does. That same research should tell you that.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: LondonEvie on 15 November 2008, 06:16:35 pm


Cassie is spot on - The sperm itself does not carry bacteria or viruses related to std's. Viral and bacterial infections are transmitted via seminal fluid which includes pre-come, so you come into contact with it if you perform owo regardless of whether you offer cim or not. While the rate of infection by oral sex is significantly lower than sexual intercourse without protection (which duh, you should never ever do) it is not entirely without risk- and the figures and statistics are still dubious as point of origin is difficult to establish apart from herpes and gonorrhea. There's no such thing as safe sex really, it's just safeR sex.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 15 November 2008, 06:24:38 pm
yep...so if we do oral without, we might as well do CIM (if you choose to do that).


you can contract something from a  man's sperm, it would be even worse if God forbid there's blood in his sperm.

thats funny...so if you can contract something from semen, would it even matter if there was blood or not? technically, semen is blood. blood is not worse than semen. Its the same thing.

In addition, why would there be blood in semen  ???
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: brandy@saafe on 15 November 2008, 08:36:20 pm

In addition, why would there be blood in semen  ???

Most of the time it's no cause for alarm. Some guys have a tendency to cum very forcefully and therefore burst a bloodvessel or two. But a couple of STIs do manifest themselves in this way, such as chlamydia or gonorrhea. Or god forbid, prostate cancer. So if a guy does bleed it's always best to get himself checked out.

But as Cassie states, the most dangerous part of the semen is actually the pre-cum. You can't state that you categorically do not offer CIM, yet still offer OWO to regular customers. It makes little sense as the risks are still there.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: cecilia.chic on 17 November 2008, 02:16:47 am
Since we're on the subject...

What are the[unofficial] stats for the prevalence of STIs among escorts?  I'm less concerned about the ones that will go away after a round of antibiotics than I am about something like herpes, which you're stuck with for life. 

And... why are we doing OWO if there is a significant(?) risk of STIs?  I've heard arguments for both sides of the coin - that OWO is not that risky and that it's extremely risky. 

Honestly, I don't know who to believe - the health professionals who tell me to cover up for everything or other escorts who tell me that they've worked for years with nary a problem (except one who owned up to having caught crabs a few years back :o).  The more I work the more comfortable I am with OWO and CIM - a month ago I thought I'd never do either but now I do both and will continue to do so.

I'd love it if you can cite the research you've done (those of you who have mentioned it) so others can follow up if they want more info. :)

Later,
cece


Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: LondonEvie on 17 November 2008, 02:24:35 am
Since we're on the subject...

What are the[unofficial] stats for the prevalence of STIs among escorts? 

I'd love it if you can cite the research you've done (those of you who have mentioned it) so others can follow up if they want more info. :)




I asked this at my GUM visit, and was informed that the STD prevalence among professional escorts is very low- mostly related to the fact that once making a decision to go 'pro' we tend to arm ourselves with information. The highest prevalence according to her was among young women who go out getting bladdered and the amateur escorts who offer BB or who don't even advertise but instead do it for dinner/bills paid etc.

I'm going to be coming back to this point tomorrow or so armed with my research- so will formulate a better response then xx
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Anika Mae on 17 November 2008, 03:27:51 am
And... why are we doing OWO if there is a significant(?) risk of STIs?  I've heard arguments for both sides of the coin - that OWO is not that risky and that it's extremely risky.

I haven't been convinced that it's extremely risky, and that's coming from someone who doesn't do it. You do need to avoid doing it when you have open wounds in your mouth though, which means not brushing your teeth before or after and abstaining if you have an ulcer or something.

The risks are mostly of catching things that will go away with antibiotics (be sure to have regular throat swabs). You can get herpes and HPV in your throat though, and HPV has a small chance of causing cancer.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: cecilia.chic on 17 November 2008, 11:57:58 am
The risks are mostly of catching things that will go away with antibiotics (be sure to have regular throat swabs). You can get herpes and HPV in your throat though, and HPV has a small chance of causing cancer.
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That's what I thought.  I keep on top of testing - once every 6 to 8 weeks at the mo.

Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: medea on 17 November 2008, 07:59:54 pm
hi all

i just read the posts,
i personally don't offer it at the moment, and i myself don't know whether or not it is to be considered risky or not,

so far i know the medical profession is not sure whether it be have any risk or much risk, however i think as long as there is no wounds in the gum,
so i would discourage to brush your teeth before due that causes some bleeding, wounds on the gum
also so far i have heard swallowing the cum, is relatively safe due the acid of your stomach kills all the virus and bacteria, i think once i read it was even recommended when doing oral and the men cums in your mouth to straight and quickly swallow it, to reduce the risk, and exposure to the gum and to kill the bacterias as soon as possible with the acid in your digesting system (thats what i recall)

anyhow i have done some research in the past and i couldnt get to a conclusion due one article said it is safe, or very low risk and another said it is serious risk

i do like the taste of cum and would love to offer it, however i am to insecure whether or not it has or what danger it has

Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: lexienight on 17 November 2008, 10:38:51 pm
I offer owo but i dont offer cim.  its not the taste or the risks (i looked in to those before i decided to do owo)  its the sensation and the texture.  makes me gag thinking about it so i will stick with owo.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Anika Mae on 22 November 2008, 01:44:52 pm
Hello ladies. I saw this and thought of you. :)

(http://www.cookingwithcum.com/images/natural_harvest_front_cover.jpg) (http://www.cookingwithcum.com/)
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: medea on 22 November 2008, 01:58:07 pm
:)

lol

hmmmm interesting...
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Post by: lexienight on 22 November 2008, 02:34:00 pm
All round to Anika Mae's for sunday lunch then....
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Post by: brandy@saafe on 22 November 2008, 02:59:32 pm
Omg. It's real too. I just clicked on the picture and it leads to a cook-book based on recipes using semen. Ohhhh-kayyyy! ???
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Anika Mae on 22 November 2008, 03:06:20 pm
It's only print-on-demand, if that makes you feel better.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: brandy@saafe on 22 November 2008, 05:04:27 pm
It's only print-on-demand, if that makes you feel better.

I can't say that it does,lol.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Richard on 22 November 2008, 08:52:55 pm
I saw this mentioned on someone's blog yesterday and, erm, ordered a copy.
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: LondonEvie on 22 November 2008, 09:38:56 pm
I saw this mentioned on someone's blog yesterday and, erm, ordered a copy.

At least as a man you are less likely to run out of umm... key ingredients?
I can't see myself going to the neighbors, 'excuse me I'm baking a cake and have run out of an ingredient, Is your husband around? I need to borrow 1/4 cup of spunk for the frosting'

Actually I would love to see that scene play out.  ;D
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Anika Mae on 22 November 2008, 11:27:18 pm
*knock knock*
"Oh, hello Mrs. Appleby. What can I do for you?"
"Well Billy, I was just baking a pie but here I'm missing two of my ingredients."
"M'am, you bake the best pies in town! What do you need?"
"I need two bananas and half a cup of semen. Do you think you might have those, Billy?"
*bow-chicka-bow-bow-wow*
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: cassie on 22 November 2008, 11:50:24 pm
hmmm make it tasty, I like.

... hang on a minute, doesn't heat destroy protein?

So cooking the semen would destroy the beneficial properties of it, so what's the point?  ???




only messing - what a gem, love it Anika!
 ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 23 November 2008, 01:37:19 am
Oh my gosh how did I miss this one! HA! I read the article coments for that book and I dont know whether to be aroused or laugh or be disgusted or what! check out this comment...

PS: I just made all the kids a honey cum-slurpie with some rancid leftover sperm that my wife had forgotten to put in the fridge. They made a bit of a face because of the musty odor, but my father in-law, that old spanker, came to the rescue and quickly topped off the slurpies with some fresh strings of cock slime and now they all love it!

ewww...I couldnt imagine anything like that. Even if I had a boyfriend who I'd swallow him up...I wouldnt want him to cum in my food! and read this comment too...

am now using my time sitting at red lights to prep dinner by jerking myself off into a small container. I rub one out every time I go in and take a leak at work. I actually shot off a load waiting in the check out line at Wal-Mart, and I don't think I was the only one doing it in the line! When doing the laundry, I lay my member on the dryer,and the vibration just milks a little snack right out of me. I put a new bag in my vacuum cleaner, and I now suck the man juice right out!
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: Anika Mae on 23 November 2008, 01:53:53 am
... hang on a minute, doesn't heat destroy protein?

So cooking the semen would destroy the beneficial properties of it, so what's the point?  ???

No, it just denatures it. Watch out, I'm a biologist!
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 23 November 2008, 02:08:20 am
heat causes it to clump together...similar to the way an egg yolk does when its boiled....either way, its gross  :P
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: LondonEvie on 23 November 2008, 02:56:57 am
... hang on a minute, doesn't heat destroy protein?

So cooking the semen would destroy the beneficial properties of it, so what's the point?  ???

No, it just denatures it. Watch out, I'm a biologist!

  The word denatured always makes me want a fried egg  :)
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: cassie on 23 November 2008, 03:14:22 am
Mhmm could just eat some egg and chips - soft yokes of course.

Anika - I stand corrected, lol, I should have known better. Still think denatured protein is not as beneficial as 'fresh'.

I've read a couple of the reviews on this book now and was in general amused, though the repeated mention of kids was starting to unsettle me and this bit stopped me in my tracks:

Also makes for easy transition from breast milk to solid food for babies. Plus they're still used to the nipple so they do most of the work.

now there is bad taste and there is disgusting ...
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 23 November 2008, 03:30:54 am
I still cant get over the idea of cooking with cum...unbelievable!

Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: cecilia.chic on 23 November 2008, 03:38:08 am
Cum is not only a culinary favourite...it's essential in any woman's anti-aging arsensal!!!

Years ago, I worked at a makeup counter and a woman (with really nice skin incidentally) told me she had been spreading her husband's cum on her face for years.  She kept it in the fridge and lathered up before lights out!

I like a good facial as much as anyone but I generally tissue it off before it gets that dried egg yolk feeling to it.  ;D
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 23 November 2008, 03:55:31 am
Cum is not only a culinary favourite...it's essential in any woman's anti-aging arsensal!!!

Years ago, I worked at a makeup counter and a woman (with really nice skin incidentally) told me she had been spreading her husband's cum on her face for years.  She kept it in the fridge and lathered up before lights out!

I like a good facial

thats not true...cum is not a miracle secret to great skin. Its in genes and products. Dont let that fool you. cum is cum is cum!  :D
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Post by: cecilia.chic on 23 November 2008, 04:04:37 am
I know that, silly!  I just told the story to make you laugh.  I thought she was absolutely nuts!
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Post by: brandy@saafe on 23 November 2008, 09:47:09 am
*knock knock*
"Oh, hello Mrs. Appleby. What can I do for you?"
"Well Billy, I was just baking a pie but here I'm missing two of my ingredients."
"M'am, you bake the best pies in town! What do you need?"
"I need two bananas and half a cup of semen. Do you think you might have those, Billy?"
*bow-chicka-bow-bow-wow*

Pmsl..... :D
Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: brandy@saafe on 23 November 2008, 09:49:01 am

I like a good facial as much as anyone but I generally tissue it off before it gets that dried egg yolk feeling to it.  ;D

Yeah, that crusty feeling,lol.
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Post by: cassie on 23 November 2008, 01:20:10 pm
Can also be a shock if you pad half asleep and in semidarkness to the bathroom the next day and briefly forgetting what happend last night, discover in the mirror that half your face id flaking off.  :o :o


Title: Re: For those who offer cum in mouth....
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 16 January 2010, 08:08:23 pm
Can also be a shock if you pad half asleep and in semidarkness to the bathroom the next day and briefly forgetting what happend last night, discover in the mirror that half your face id flaking off.  :o :o

LOL, that would be hilarious. But you know...it doesn't even take that long. In a dry, hot room...your face could be flaking immediately so always wash with soap and water before you walk out into the hotel lobby! Don't want people knowing what happend...

This thread was like one of my all time favorites...