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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #15 on: 13 November 2011, 08:46:57 pm »
Higher your age up till at least 20, it should help get you serious bookings. I think many clients won't book a girl your age.
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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #16 on: 13 November 2011, 09:24:19 pm »
What they said. If he can afford two hours of your time, he can afford one hour and a hotel, having more and more comfortable sex with someone who is happier with what's happening.

But if it's a choice between this and eating, you need someone you trust in another car keeping an eye on things and he needs to pay for their time.
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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #17 on: 13 November 2011, 10:24:30 pm »
Personally I wouldn't meet a client in a car - ESPECIALLY one I'd never seen before and ESPECIALLY if I was completely new...I have a feeling this guy is taking advantage of your newness to the biz.

You could tell someone all the details, but what if he's using a fake plate and address? What happens if you tell a buddy where you're meeting, and he decides to drive you 200 miles away? What if the worst happens???

I know I didn't address your nerves, but *I* would NEVER get into a car with a stranger. Please rethink.

Hi there,

I just read your message and its very worrying. I think you need to seriously take on board the comments made by the lady above.

You know nothing at all about this man and he is a complete stranger to you. I personally wouldnt even get into a car with a "regular" customer unless I have physically been to his actual home (and that would be after doing some security checks with Directories Enquiries). Can you not ask this chap to book a cheap Travel Lodge Hotel and when he's booked into the room, you do your security checks and call him to make sure he's in the room and then you go over to him but leave the details of where your going with a friend. And also ask the person to call you when the two hours are up? Its got to be at least worth asking him.

I think you really need to reconsider this meeting and failing that, you need to ask somebody to walk with you and watch you get into his car. And that person should take down the details of his car including the make, model, colour and registration and you should leave his phone number with that person as well. And if you do go, ask him to meet you somewhere thats well lit with street lights and preferably on a main road with cameras. Make sure you have your mobile phone with you and its fully charged and money to travel home.

I think you should do what the lady above said and go with your "gut instinct" and if it doesn't feel right, then don't go, and don't worry about the money because tomorrow is another day. The money is not important...YOU ARE.

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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #18 on: 14 November 2011, 08:59:43 am »
 Just say no  -  if it dont feel right then dont do it ,   your putting yourself at risk  your new your vunerable  ive been  doing this for 12 years  and i wouldnt do it  no matter how much was being paid and regardless if i knew them or not


Your new and you dont have any of the instincts that more experienced escorts get from doing this work day in day out   honestly  i can smell timewasters down the phone even if they text me or email me  ;D
they all go to the same charm school and come out with the same bullshit

but even on the off chance that  he  is not a timewaster  you really dont want to be doing this when you have just started out even if you have got security         
 

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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #19 on: 16 November 2011, 10:08:30 am »
Hope Chantel's OK, she's not been back since the evening she started this thread...

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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #20 on: 16 November 2011, 10:12:25 am »
Hope Chantel's OK, she's not been back since the evening she started this thread...

OMG :-(  Let's hope she never went...sounded well dodge to me. Hope she's ok.

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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #21 on: 16 November 2011, 10:13:42 am »
I wouldn't do a car meet. I just don't think they are safe.
  I don't trust my clients or myself with my clients enough for that.

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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #22 on: 16 November 2011, 11:33:36 am »
Hope Chantel's OK, she's not been back since the evening she started this thread...

I really hope she's ok.   When I started doing this 4 years ago, I started in the car.  When I think back.... the risks I took but only because I was so naive and trusting and thought nothing would happen to me.  Thankfully nothing did but just as I was waiting on tenancy for a flat, about 3-4 days ahead a guy (who was really rough looking but heart of gold) just said you are a lovely lass but you are going to wind up dead or badly hurt... stop.  That was my last time.  Obviously now I know better but a girl of 18 needs our love, support and advice, and I so hope that she's listened to all you great girls and simply is tucked up in bed with the flu.

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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #23 on: 16 November 2011, 11:55:56 am »
I think, if the timestamps are accurate, that her last activity here on the forum was just late enough that she would have seen the first few replies to her thread, so hopefully yes she just decided that it all seemed like too much hassle and that she'd rather chill out over the weekend and leave the sex biz to us wizened old crones! :)
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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #24 on: 18 November 2011, 05:58:39 pm »
I hope the girl is ok and did not go ahead with that dodgy 2 hr sex in the car booking .
« Last Edit: 18 November 2011, 06:08:05 pm by MISS RUBY »

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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #25 on: 18 November 2011, 10:36:18 pm »
Anyone heard if OP is ok?
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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #26 on: 19 November 2011, 01:36:09 pm »
I searched adultwork for the OP's profile to try and see if there was any activity but I can't find it. Worried.
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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #27 on: 19 November 2011, 01:49:31 pm »
I searched adultwork for the OP's profile to try and see if there was any activity but I can't find it. Worried.

I wouldn't use that as too much of a yardstick - I did that when the thread started and there was nothing on there that matched the info here then, either.

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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #28 on: 19 November 2011, 04:04:24 pm »
That would also explain why she didn't reply to my PM offering a bit of advice and support (which I sent as I live near her).

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Re: First time, seriously nervous... any help?
« Reply #29 on: 19 November 2011, 04:47:58 pm »
I hope it's just a case of her deciding whoring wasn't for her, and deleted her AW account and un-bookmarked SAAFE. Either that, or the agencies she signed up with have kept her so busy that she's happily counting her dosh and paying her debts!