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MissRoxy

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First time NEED ADVICE AND HELP
« on: 07 July 2013, 03:08:14 pm »
Hi, i applied to an agency a couple of weeks ago and they got back to me. We had many conversations and eventually i met up with them. They took some photos and sorted out the basics!
They were a married couple about 50's. They both seem very nice and very cautious on the girls safety!
 I start on Tuesday my FIRST CLIENT!
Im very very very scared! i have bought lots of sexy clothes from ann summers and massage oils and lots of condoms? I feel like im prepared! i think :-\ :-\
Can anyone help me with what i wear to go to my first outcall?
and what i do when i get there, i understand you get the formality's out the way like the money? but do i talk? how long for? do i lead the situation? or do they?
PLEASE REPLY PEOPLE!!
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Re: First time NEED ADVICE AND HELP
« Reply #1 on: 07 July 2013, 03:23:57 pm »
Hi :)

Clothes wise it often depends on where I am going and the time of day. To a hotel during the day I would normally wear business dress, with a sexy edge, then in the evening I may wear a shift dress. To homes it depends on the area, I'll check it out on Google Streetview etc. Then today, it is a Sunday and bloomin scorching, so I'll wear a smart summer dress that looks laid back, yet smart.

Outcalls, I normally talk for five minutes, gradually adding more intimacy by placing hands on arms when talking etc and if there is no movement their end, then I will up my ante. You have to read people, some want action the second you are there, some need 10-15 minutes to acquaint or get over their initial shyness.

It really is a case of going with the flow x
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Re: First time NEED ADVICE AND HELP
« Reply #2 on: 07 July 2013, 03:40:03 pm »
Hi, thanks for the help:)
shall i wear like sexy pants and stockings under my dress and take my dress off, or tell him you will slip into something more interesting and then get it on?
Is an hour long? Will i need to start with massages or just get straight into it?
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Re: First time NEED ADVICE AND HELP
« Reply #3 on: 07 July 2013, 03:42:15 pm »
When you get there first greet them, kiss on cheek whats your name, how r u, we have nice sunny day.. then i always ask them what would you like today, they normally say i would like 1hr and they start looking for their wallet i dont have to say anything. then you check the money, count it then check it with money checker pen (you can buy in rymans Ł7) then put away the money in your bag. then you ask again what do you like today, you want massage, or lots of oral or lots of sex and usually i ask them in the beginning if they want sex more times so im prepared time wise. then you will see what they want and they will tell you anyways. if hes nervous you can do massage and they relax during that then tell you what they want.

dont be scared he wont eat you trust me! :)
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Re: First time NEED ADVICE AND HELP
« Reply #4 on: 07 July 2013, 03:47:10 pm »
bbwInLondon has covered it all really, but I always wear full sexy undies and hold-ups (stockings move to much when traveling and do my head in) as I tend to find that most clients are 50+ and at that age they love stockings/hold-ups. A lot of ladies change when they arrive, but i can not be bothered and it also means lugging things about with me.

The shortest I do for a local outcall is an hour, accounts for 70% aprox of booking, the rest mainly being two hours. The time really flies.
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Re: First time NEED ADVICE AND HELP
« Reply #5 on: 07 July 2013, 05:16:13 pm »
Hi, I think ive got it covered thanks everyone! Any advice if Its a 2 hour how should I treat it differently?:)
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« Reply #6 on: 07 July 2013, 06:47:20 pm »
the first part is the same with every booking all those i mentioned earlier plus i forgot the 'call the buddy' part in the minute you put the money in your bag.

in the minute when you receive the money look at your watch and the 2hrs start. some girls start the time when they enter the room, depends on you. 2hrs you have plenty of time you can talk a lot, play, sex, chill, sex again, talk or anything but only after you received the money! that is in the first 5 minutes.

usually when its advance booking men prepare as well, much more than for short notice bookings, they buy wine, champagne as well. dont worry he will definitely be more of a nervbag than you as he fantasized about you all day and he will also worry if its gonna go up in the right moment at all! some men are so nervous when they meet you they forget the money part! its not their intention but often they are so forgetful and nervous. i find it cute. so just say to him 'get the business out of the way' firmly and they say 'oh sorry sorry of course'.
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« Reply #7 on: 07 July 2013, 07:03:03 pm »
Right thanks bbwLondon! Helped loads!
My first is on Tuesday I'll let you know how it goes xx
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Re: First time NEED ADVICE AND HELP
« Reply #8 on: 07 July 2013, 07:46:23 pm »
Just a quick piece of advice - A lot of Massage Oils will ruin Condoms and make them split so please do be careful around that.....don't get the two mixed up....

Other than that you have received great advice already....

Good Luck and I hope it goes well for you .....
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