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barbie88

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Re: Herpes outbreak everytime I have sex
« Reply #15 on: 13 July 2014, 10:40:03 pm »
Hey Hun

I,m really sorry to hear this but I totally agree with what hadley has said its really boo this has happen and herpes is not life threatening and will be controlled with medication but you should,nt be working at all and when you have a partner you have to tell them even though your sores might not be present you can still pass it on you should just do massage or Dom work , web cam or stripping. Also you have open wounds when you have herpes so you don,t want to be doing a service as you can cause harm to your self also your prone more to catch stuff . I have never had a cold sore or chicken pox according to the internet chicken pox, shingles, cold sores and herpes are apart of the same group . I remember my friend told me last year she actually left a really busy escort agency because one of the working girls was working with cold sores all over her lips . There,s loads of girls out there who prob would still work knowing they have some thing and the same goes for clients this is why I choose not to do owo but that,s going off topic . I really think you should look into other options for work. Me personally If I ever caught any think I would retire with out a second thought but I do wish you well.
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amy

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Re: Herpes outbreak everytime I have sex
« Reply #16 on: 13 July 2014, 10:43:14 pm »
Barbie, did you read Ian's post above?

If you want to post about what you would or wouldn't do about something, that's fine. Telling other people what they should or shouldn't do is not - we don't do that here :).

anushka

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Re: Herpes outbreak everytime I have sex
« Reply #17 on: 17 July 2014, 11:01:10 pm »
Dear Barbie and Hadley

I read the post few times and it actually doesn't say she's got a genital herpes she may was just talking about the coldsore on her lips.
As we all know most of the adults have got the virus but can live all their lives without having an outbreak so you two girls may be carrying this virus around as well. Have you thought  about what you gonna do if you WILL HAVE AN OUTBREAK one day because surely you wouldn't be working with that condition. Or would you?

Feltipen

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Re: Herpes outbreak everytime I have sex
« Reply #18 on: 18 July 2014, 12:45:50 am »
Since we're quoting from NHS;

"At least 8 out of 10 people who carry the virus are unaware they have been infected because there are often few or no initial symptoms. However, certain triggers can activate the virus, causing an outbreak of genital herpes."

(for those who think they're squeaky clean, you're probably not so perhaps you should take your own advice if you're that adamant you're right)

and

"However, it is important to prevent the spread of genital herpes by avoiding sex until symptoms have cleared up and continuing to use a condom afterwards."

Nowhere states you can't have sex. You just need to avoid it whilst you're having an outbreak, as you would if you had a cold sore.

For the OP, as others have mentioned, the cold sore creams and tablets might be a good idea and maybe a few days off to de-stress.