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Author Topic: Appropriate reaction to clients that are bad at pleasuring causing pain???  (Read 4703 times)

Pierced Princess

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Hi all this is my first post so please be gentle   :-\  Reading this takes me back to a rather large client who was one minute kneeling beside me and I was giving him a blow job the next he suddenly plonked himself on my chest .. the pain was excruciating and to make things worse  I could see him grinning... Its the closest I have come to biting a cock.  Needless to say I never saw him again.

I do think certain things encourage violence and AW allowing blogs such as one on today "brutally fisted in the arse then snorted cum like cocaine" and then goes on to tell us how much the escort likes it dosent help us girls, what does anyone else think? Or is it just me. Maybe things are so relaxed now on there its okay, but  I am sure there must be some rules about blogs but AW seem to turn a blind eye.

Thanks for all your advice girls it in invaluable.x

If you report it they'll have a look at it and may take it down... anything violence related is a breach of terms.

xx

Pearl

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Generally I ask them to be gentle, sometime I have to hold their head/fingers or change position.
And then... there is always who sucks my nipples to the extent of causing bruises...  :FF

jessica07

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Hi Pierced Princess thanks for your reply.  I have actually reported them twice now and nothing has been done by AW the blogs still continue, which yes I am outraged about as it is classed in my eyes as violence and encouraging some clients to think thats "normal" and it isnt.

Jessica xx

lailah terri

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I had a guy bite my lip once, really hard cannibal stylee  :-[ it hurt so bad! I yelped and he was quite apologetic.

Urgh I've has so many guys slap my clit, wtf?? Who told them this was okay? I blame porn!
"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
? Marilyn Monroe

meetingdiversity

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Everyone has their ways in how they feel the female anatomy works. Most men are good at it really. But i do get a fair amount of men that are really quite rough / clumsy / too eratic with their movements down there that it hurts me and dry me out. I will suggest moving positions or sexual activity or techniques as to stay sexy but usually if men are this unaware of the female parts they just eventually go back to what they were doing during the session and of course i don't want the entire session to be painful. How can i go about it to ensure they are aware it's incorrect and to try it another way?

I guess the best culprit is not realizing that the clit is very sensitive and not to hammer it like you would the vagina.

Suggestions?


I say to them if they use force inside me, it is a bit like imagine I was pulling all your skin back wanking hard like that. Well it's similar. That is when they realize being gentle with me. And just say if my clit gets too sensitive how it is. No point being in discomfort caused by others and staying quiet. I have gone beyond holding back. If some thing needs to be said in a polite friendly way it will. If they don't like it tuff. After all my comfort is the number one priority here. Just like I give them comfort.