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Cuteybunny

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First sexual meeting all done!
« on: 05 September 2008, 11:51:59 am »
Guys I just want to say I had my meeting yesterday shattered left at 3 in the morning but oh well - was very strange had to admit and I couldn't help but be shy hopefully I will come out of myself lol.

Do you normally feel sore after?? Sorry to ask lol I feel horrible down there I am not sure whether its how many times or positions etc!

Anyway it weren't a bad experience.
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Re: First sexual meeting all done!
« Reply #1 on: 05 September 2008, 02:30:06 pm »
You don't say how long the booking was for, or how long the sex took, but lube really is your friend. It's ok to add more during, especially if it's going on for a long time (just explain you're checking the condom's ok after all that action or do it when changing position).

If it's a length issue and your cervix is feeling bruised, then yes, some positions are much better than others in enabling you to control depth and speed.
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Re: First sexual meeting all done!
« Reply #2 on: 05 September 2008, 02:37:22 pm »
Right sorry forgot that bit I met him at 6pm and left at 3am lol I think it was the last time that killed me and I had to tell him not to rag my legs up god that hurt lol. He had lube so did I but to be honest never got round to it as he was obviously preoccupied by what was going on.

Will try that next time cos at this rate I won't be able to have bookings day after day as I will be in pain. I don't think it was the length felt fine maybe girth but that maybe due to my makeup i.e not being loose to be graphic lol.

Anyway cheers for getting back to me.
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Re: First sexual meeting all done!
« Reply #3 on: 05 September 2008, 03:00:27 pm »
Don't be afraid to use lube, even if you have to interrupt the action. It makes you safer (both by making the condom less likely to break and by reducing vaginal abrasions), and you'll enjoy it more. It's quite normal to need extra lube to keep up with a lot of PIV sex, even if I'm really turned on I often can't produce fluids fast enough. I'd say being a bit sore after an overnight is acceptable though, along with being knackered. A lot of us won't work the day after, which is one of the reasons you shouldn't sell yourself short on overnights.

It sounds like your client was a bit of a difficult one. They're not all like that, but it's good to get the experience.
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Re: First sexual meeting all done!
« Reply #4 on: 05 September 2008, 03:06:02 pm »
Ah. I nearly said something like 'just because he wants to bang away with your ankles around your ears doesn't mean you have to let him'.

This is one reason longer bookings aren't for everyone and I suspect it has got worse since the availability of Viagra etc.

Oh well, next time bring your own lube - there are lots to chose between and everyone has their favourites - and use it.

I take it everyone's seen the Manix lube ad http://manix.ytmnd.com/? (That link has a particularly good picture of it, but also has sound for no particularly good reason, so perhaps not for use in libraries etc.)

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Re: First sexual meeting all done!
« Reply #5 on: 05 September 2008, 04:28:58 pm »
Yeah I will defo try that well he did comment I was turned on but your right Anika theres only so much until your glands down there give up lol.

I am defo going to get some good lube since mine I wouldn't even call it lube its more of a sensation too sticky well I did say to him be careful its gona chaff he was fine with it but yes I am going to get proper stuff lol.
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Re: First sexual meeting all done!
« Reply #6 on: 05 September 2008, 05:29:10 pm »
The majority of my day-to-day bookings are two hour ones which I like, but I once saw a man who had obviously taken Viagra or something similar and it was NON-STOP with me on top the whole time - literally banging away for pretty much the full two hours. Apart from being so boring I ended up going through album track listings in my head, I was more exhausted than I would have thought possible and the next day I could hardly move my arms and legs - so you can imagine what the more delicate bits were like! I couldn't possibly have worked and that was just after two hours, so I do wish men would warn us if they have to take the bloody stuff!

I use a lube called Maximus at the moment which I like - it comes in a pump bottle so you can get at it with one hand, is nice and thick and doesn't go watery or tacky for ages - plus it tastes OK! You can get it at http://www.cheapercondoms.co.uk/ and their condoms aren't bad either. I know a lot of people like the silicon ones but I haven't tried them - any recommendations welcome!

Nine hours is a long booking by anybody's standards if there was pretty much constant sex and no sleeping involved - it's going to be hard on your body (I don't think I could do it nowadays, but then I'm twice your age lol). Don't worry if you feel a bit strange afterwards both mentally and physically - just be assured that these are definitely the exception rather than the norm and the likelihood is that you won't have to do it again, at least not for a while. And don't be scared to turn longer bookings down if you do decide you don't like them - they sound lucrative, but they're not if they stop you working for the rest of the week.
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Re: First sexual meeting all done!
« Reply #7 on: 05 September 2008, 06:08:55 pm »
My silicone lube recommendation is this: https://secure.vwe.net/cgi-bin/eros/000167.html?id=ULJBGGET

It's a shame hardly anyone stocks the tubes, silicone lube is prone to leaking and hard to wash out, so IMO good packaging is essential for outcalls. Everything else I've tried leaks, but if you're not that bothered, ID and Wet both do decent silicone lubes which are cheaper than Pjur. If you want silicone, don't go for the cheapest you can find. I tried one that was less than half the price of the others, and it was less than half as effective.
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Re: First sexual meeting all done!
« Reply #8 on: 05 September 2008, 06:13:21 pm »
Trust me I am knackered really tired and my hip joints god they really ache. I got him to give me a review as I need something to boost my profile although it is a little graphic lol.

At one point he said I bet you didn't want me to stop in my head I was thinking god yes do stop lol wake up all the people in the lodge lol.

Anyway I am glad I got my first proper one out of the way as I have something to go by and don't get me wrong the sex at the start was fine its just its delicate down there and constant hammering does kinda hurt for a long time. He reckoned he was sore bloody hell he was doing the work in that position lol.

Anyway too much info now lol.
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Re: First sexual meeting all done!
« Reply #9 on: 06 September 2008, 04:55:57 pm »
Quote from: Isabella on 05 September 2008, 06:13:21 pm
Anyway I am glad I got my first proper one out of the way as I have something to go by and don't get me wrong the sex at the start was fine its just its delicate down there and constant hammering does kinda hurt for a long time. He reckoned he was sore bloody hell he was doing the work in that position lol.

Anyway too much info now lol.

This is where you need to tell customers that you're not something that can be constantly banged away at. Don't assume that just because they're paying for your company they can bash away at you like a piece of meat.
If you're in a booking and you're finding it's too much, either the actual shagging or the legs behind the head, let the customer gently know that it's a little too much for you and if you can go slower. Make it sound like he's just a stallion and you're having a hard time keeping up with his stamina. That way you won't hurt his feelings.
This job is a demanding one, physically as well as mentally. Young as you are, you need to have to learn to pace yourself or you'll burn yourself out.
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Cuteybunny

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Re: First sexual meeting all done!
« Reply #10 on: 06 September 2008, 05:02:56 pm »
Yeah I will say something next time he has already asked me to sleep over this thursday but I declined as its my break but he was fine about it. I have had alot of enquiries for an hours booking so they maybe more easier than lots of hours.
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