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sophleeds24

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First overnight booking... HELP!
« on: 27 March 2010, 04:41:22 pm »
Eep, I just got a call for my first overnight booking tonight!!! I'm bloody terrified. And excited...

I've never had an overnight booking before, have you got any hints/tips please?

Meep!

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« Reply #1 on: 27 March 2010, 07:31:17 pm »
Nevermind... Upon calling the hotel, turns out noone is in the room and noone under that name is staying.
So so angry!
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« Reply #2 on: 27 March 2010, 07:52:54 pm »
Hey, be grateful to yourself! Glad you've done your checks and don't have to waste your time and money. Well done. And forget the pr!ck - his loss, and he's definitely not worth you getting anger wrinkles.
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« Reply #3 on: 27 March 2010, 10:27:15 pm »
I spose my main overnight advice is the increased risk of the 'big money' fantasists to watch out for so yeah, as Jewel said, don't exert any forehead muscles thinking about it!

For other advice there are some old threads (if the search function is working?) with good stuff in. Mainly, don't worry about it but be prepared to have a LOT of sex. Obviously, it might turn out that you strip to your lingerie and he falls fast asleep due to the excitement of it all, but the opposite is just as likely - pack extra lube and condoms!

I think both considerate clients and escorts worry about entertaining each other during long bookings but frankly, if there's too much of a lull in the conversation, just have sex. They'll be happy and tbh, sometimes I prefer the practical side of the job as it's just so much more straightforward! 

Ultimately it depends on your personal preferences and style. :) Oh, and hide your fee in a secret pocket in your bag and don't let your bag out of your sight!
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« Reply #4 on: 27 March 2010, 10:52:34 pm »
Quote from: EmilyJones on 27 March 2010, 10:27:15 pm
Mainly, don't worry about it but be prepared to have a LOT of sex.

Emily, you're 1 of my favorites here...but for some reason Im having to disagree again  :(

Everyone is different, and the fear of having 12 hours of non-stop sex is a bit unrealistic. Personally, I think having sex twice is sufficient for most guys. 1 at night, and another in the morning. However, to me...that is alot! Especially because Im not a morning person, it takes sheer strength (and hundred dollar bills) to get me in the mood to do things early in the morning (although, at one point in life I used to wake my X up by sucking on his cock...memories  :)

As for the OP, good that you made the check. I'll add...if they dont OFFER to give you hotel details, thats a red flag. You shouldnt have to ask for them. They should already be giving them to you.

Another tip: Bring your ear plugs!  :D  Just kidding  ;)

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« Reply #5 on: 28 March 2010, 02:07:29 pm »
In all reality, 2-3 times during the course is a normal rate of sexual activity to expect, unless the sneaky git has taken Viagra, then expect possibly a 4th time. Depending on if dinner is involved in the date, will determine if I have a quick one before we go out. I like to tease during the dinner, with little tickles under the table, a quick visit to the bathroom for a bit of play, buy the time we get back to the hotel room he will be ready to explode. Then I will tease even further, with a nice strip tease, and some toys thrown in for both of our pleasure. Ride him on the floor, that is so hot, make sure you are on top! Rug burns are a bitch on your ass. Keep stockings and shoes on. If there is a sofa in the room, bend over and offer doggy style. This will be the holy grail for some men. Usually with the combination of alcohol, food, and sex, he will pass out to lala land. Now he may awaken in the middle of the night for a cuddle, or he may not. But the morning is important, don't wait to be asked to attend to the morning glory. Wake him!  
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« Reply #6 on: 28 March 2010, 06:57:27 pm »
Reading Joey and Violette's posts and rethinking mine, you guys are actually quite right. I should've rephrased or just kept my trap shut as I am definitely not a fan of overnights and I think it showed!

Anyway. What I mean to say is that by a 'lot of sex' I meant anything more than 3 times. Trust me, when you're being poked in the leg by an impatient penis at 3am while you're trying to sleep, it seems like an awful lot. :P Like Violette's post suggests, imagination and effort are important on overnights to avoid excess jaw/arm ache and boredom!

Needless to say, I do not (you can check my webbie!) offer overnights or dinner/lunch dates unless for a dearly beloved regular who would get big discounts. I really couldn't charge anyone else for the traumatic experience of spending that long in my company.

As usual - thank you for the tips and tricks, Violette! *takes sneaky notes* You inspire me to work harder rather than just sigh dramatically and move my retirement date nearer.
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« Reply #7 on: 28 March 2010, 07:24:05 pm »
Quote from: Violette on 28 March 2010, 02:07:29 pm
Then I will tease even further, with a nice strip tease, and some toys thrown in for both of our pleasure. Ride him on the floor, that is so hot, make sure you are on top! Rug burns are a bitch on your ass. Keep stockings and shoes on. If there is a sofa in the room, bend over and offer doggy style. This will be the holy grail for some men. Usually with the combination of alcohol, food, and sex, he will pass out to lala land. Now he may awaken in the middle of the night for a cuddle, or he may not. But the morning is important, don't wait to be asked to attend to the morning glory. Wake him!  

(furiously scribbling notes) YOU ARE MY GOD. (DESS)  I don't know whether to die laughing or book an appointment with you!
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Re: First overnight booking... HELP!
« Reply #8 on: 29 March 2010, 01:31:29 am »
I love dinner dates and overnights and wish I got more.

To add to Violette's excellent suggestions, though not as exciting. I sometimes take a couple of different outfits (lingerie, slinky babydolls) with me and surprise him with a change of outfit through the evening (dissapear naked into the bathroom and appear in something new for him to peel off).
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« Reply #9 on: 29 March 2010, 05:17:12 am »
Yes, Cassie, that is excellent! I forgot to mention that. When I pack for an overnight it looks like I am going away for a long week. I have been known to go into the bathroom a peppy cheerleader, and come out a wickedly sexy police officer complete with heart shaped handcuffs, and baton. Over nights can be hard work, but they can also be fun. Think of it with your own private Panto production. I will even have themed productions, it is like having sex in three acts. :D  Realistically, 12 0r 14 hours is a LONG time to invest, so the last thing you want is to get bored and start counting the minutes. Some guys won't know what hit them, and others will love it. I even had some repeat customers who will call and suggest ideas and will even bring props to the next overnight. But most guys, just want a nice shag, a good meal, and a bit of company.
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« Reply #10 on: 29 March 2010, 08:54:06 pm »
Yes, I agree, most guys looking for overnights are not really after a sexathon, more a nice relaxing time in pleasant company and a guaranteed shag at the end of it.
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« Reply #11 on: 30 March 2010, 07:46:34 am »
Quote from: cassie on 29 March 2010, 08:54:06 pm
Yes, I agree, most guys looking for overnights are not really after a sexathon, more a nice relaxing time in pleasant company and a guaranteed shag at the end of it.

My experiences differ greatly so probably, to sum up for any newbies who might see this thread, it's safe to say it can go either way?

Hence, it's probably best to only do overnights with relatively trusted regulars, if possible, and like violette and cassie, maintain the upper hand in a seductive manner! :)
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« Reply #12 on: 30 March 2010, 04:09:32 pm »
Quote from: Violette on 29 March 2010, 05:17:12 am
Yes, Cassie, that is excellent! I forgot to mention that. When I pack for an overnight it looks like I am going away for a long week. I have been known to go into the bathroom a peppy cheerleader, and come out a wickedly sexy police officer complete with heart shaped handcuffs, and baton. Over nights can be hard work, but they can also be fun. Think of it with your own private Panto production. I will even have themed productions, it is like having sex in three acts. :D  Realistically, 12 0r 14 hours is a LONG time to invest, so the last thing you want is to get bored and start counting the minutes. Some guys won't know what hit them, and others will love it. I even had some repeat customers who will call and suggest ideas and will even bring props to the next overnight. But most guys, just want a nice shag, a good meal, and a bit of company.

Seriously Violette, they should have made a TV series about YOU, not Brooke Magnanti (or whatever her name is)
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« Reply #13 on: 30 March 2010, 05:55:18 pm »
Oh Benny you are too sweet for words. I am ok being in the background of this game. I seriously think it would cause more harm than good, plus she doesn't have children! I do!
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« Reply #14 on: 31 March 2010, 11:58:39 pm »
Quote from: Violette on 30 March 2010, 05:55:18 pm
Oh Benny you are too sweet for words. I am ok being in the background of this game. I seriously think it would cause more harm than good, plus she doesn't have children! I do!
Hes not just being sweet, hes quite right. At the very least you ought to publish your own handbook once you retire and PM me the title.  ;D
(I should think I will retire long before  you but will keep checking my messages in case. I mean Im probably older than you, Oh I will stop digging before my hole gets too deep lol.)
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