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jdweiss

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First Job Tomorrow!!
« on: 27 November 2007, 02:31:30 am »
Hey Ladies!

I am a 20 year old student just starting out as an escort...literally tomorrow evening! i am a bit nervous!! i've spoken to the guy on the phone and i think he's even more nervous so thats probably a good thing!
i have had quite a lot of calls, and several asking me to go to their homes...i think i am probably quite wary of this. just incase they lock me in or somebody else turns up...(maybe i watch too many thrillers!)

My best friend knows that i meet men for dates and get paid...but i havent exactly told her all the details...do you think this matters? she knows where i am going etc

basically i just want some words of wisdom and moral supportl,

thanks,

love Jessica
 :) xx
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Richard

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Re: First Job Tomorrow!!
« Reply #1 on: 27 November 2007, 11:39:07 am »
Where is this going to happen? Outcalls to people's houses can be fine - see elsewhere here for various advice.

You have someone to call prior to the appointment, at the start, and on leaving at the end. Hooray - use that. She doesn't need to know all of the details (but if you've told her you're dating for cash, she's probably already worked it out).

Where are you advertising? One major website has what I can only call predators looking specifically for people new to this.

Good luck.
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jdweiss

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Re: First Job Tomorrow!!
« Reply #2 on: 27 November 2007, 01:59:45 pm »
its happening at a hotel tonight. im advertising on quite a big site but have had a lot of calls, and havent made it known that im new to this so it should be ok! how exciting xx
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Elle

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Re: First Job Tomorrow!!
« Reply #3 on: 27 November 2007, 09:31:14 pm »
good luck i hope it all went ok. Oh how i remember my first time, the guy was so nervous we didnt do anything much so i got lead into it quiet well me thinks xx
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Re: First Job Tomorrow!!
« Reply #4 on: 28 November 2007, 07:46:36 pm »
Hi and I hope it all went well.....

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leanne

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Re: First Job Tomorrow!!
« Reply #5 on: 29 November 2007, 12:52:41 pm »
Quote from: Richard on 27 November 2007, 11:39:07 am
One major website has what I can only call predators looking specifically for people new to this.


Hi hun i hav just been reading this thread and i am a bit worried as i am advertising online and i am new to the escorting business! i know u prob cant say online but am slightly worried about it! plz could u give ma some advice? thanx hun! leanne! XxX
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Anika Mae

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Re: First Job Tomorrow!!
« Reply #6 on: 30 November 2007, 12:22:13 pm »
It's something that can happen wherever you advertise. They keep an eye on things and target newly listed girls. You can get a buddy via Penny's system to see if your calls sound dodgy, but the main thing is to be confident. Predators will think you're unsure and naive and try to exploit that. Decide beforehand what you are and aren't willing to do, don't let anyone tell you that other girls do something different, and be prepared to leave if your limits aren't respected.
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Re: First Job Tomorrow!!
« Reply #7 on: 30 November 2007, 12:56:01 pm »
Quote from: Anika Mae on 30 November 2007, 12:22:13 pm
It's something that can happen wherever you advertise.

This is true, but I think it's only AW that lets its users find new advertisers so easily (they can sign up for emails whenever someone starts advertising in their area) and having seen the incoming email to someone who is starting there, some of them clearly are trying to pull tricks that experienced workers wouldn't allow.

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the main thing is to be confident. Predators will think you're unsure and naive and try to exploit that. Decide beforehand what you are and aren't willing to do, don't let anyone tell you that other girls do something different, and be prepared to leave if your limits aren't respected.

Yes, yes, yes.

New people also need to think about the boundaries that aren't just like 'will you do OWO or not', but are about who you'll see, when, and where.
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Anika Mae

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Re: First Job Tomorrow!!
« Reply #8 on: 30 November 2007, 01:08:48 pm »
Oh, and as well as sticking to your services, GET PAID. No cheques or bankers drafts, no auditions, no envelopes full of newspaper. You want real cash, and you want it before you do anything you wouldn't do for free. Many scammers lack subtly and will offer you the world, so if it sounds too good that's a good clue that you should be on your guard.
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