Hello

I wont bore you with the details of how I started but I am enjoying what I do. I have been doing it for about 2 months now and proving to be a lucrative business. I still hold down a normal job to keep the tax man happy.

Basically I have joined this forum as I find this life kinda lonely. I do have quiet a few friends but NONE close enough to tell them what I do. I hope I get to know a few people on here and you can offer me advice and guidance. I just have no one to talk to about this. I have NO idea whether how I act and what I do is correct and if any weird experiances are normal. I tend to get good gut feelings and so far (touching wood) I havent been screwed over.

I would like this place to be somewhere I can talk about experiances and maybe share what happens with other people during a meet. I dont know if im doing it correctly. As sometimes we (me and the client) sit and chat for 30mins then we move on to the bedroom and other times its straight down too it im not bothered either way you know?

My escorting service is GFE but i dont know the basics i.e. am i supposed to make noise are people expecting more from me do i do all the work I DONT KNOW.


I hope you guys can help?? Sorry to ramble just well been thinking about getting it off my chest.

A little about me... 27 and based in Buckinghamshire

Speak soon and take care out there

BTW FANTASTIC advice about Hep jabs and other GUM clinic advice. Makes me feel soooo much better xxx

Thanks hun for replying, I just have basic questions...

How many is too many?? I mean booking wise. How do you let people know your having your period cause i dont want to announce it too the world but also dont wanna come across to popular plus it means my mouth is still in action you know!! How ofter should i get checked. with regards to this I always provide protection and 100% people have to have it.

I dont want to offend on here but i dont get how people can offer what i would perceive as 'weird' services.  DO I have to offer this??

2 yrs WOW. did you always know you would do this?? I have always felt that I would you know. Then I went away on holiday and it all got nasty so i had to fight on my own in a different country and realised (no im not too big headed) that i got on with A LOT of people out there and people wanted to talk and help me which made me think Im attractive and amiable enough to get into this way of life. Im strong emotionally always have fought for myself. I can see and have felt how it can screw with you. Can you switch yourself off as well as sometimes i feel that im better than having someone that i wouldnt ever dream of dating making me come. Is this normal or should i just be Elle and not me if you understand??

Do you or have you ever worked for an agency?

How do i get a buddy?? I see if i can post there.

Thanks so much for running this site.

Please everyone take care out there.

Hugs and smiles Elle xx

Thanks hun.

Only one person (apart from the clients naturally) knows what i do. He understands and we met after I explained what I did/do. He helps me take piccies and such like but i dont want to tell him everything. I dont want to come across as a bad person as this life has a perception which i dont wish everyone to be narrow minded and opinionated about you know.

I will try the other websites.

Can i say a thank you for making me feel so welcome. Its a scarey world out there and i am pleased ive found a place i can share and feel welcomed..... hugs

Thanks hunnies.

I dont mean to offend about weird things but the more i get into this more more i personally seem to get. I still havent got the courage for watersports or sutff but domination im thinking about but wondering if i could without laughing. I guess i would just turn into elle and become someone different?? I dont know its a route ill look into. One assumes these are easier if they are in your own house. Plus i wouldnt know what to do. do i have to get guys to eat bugs and weird stuff or do they crawl around on their hands and knees?? I know its all hollywood to me! I guess if its something im interested in i'll see what research i can do.

Ive never heard about using a sponge or diaphram. Im a teenie person and would be worried someone would errr poke it!! Some guys are pretty big out there!!

Im thinking of declaring the earnings. One of the guys i have seen and appears to want to be a regular is interested in becoming my accountant but to be honest im a little weary of it. But then what accountant can i go too? When i move house i will probably get one but its hard to explain to someone and then you also have their opinions to think about. I dont know im too confussed!!

Thanks again x

Have a look at various 'SM for beginners' books: there's one called something like 'The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners'.

Some women are open about being, well, women. Others are convinced you have to pretend to not ever have to pee, poo or have periods. I've had partners use a diaphragm for mess avoidance, and yes, I can tell it's there. You could say it's part of your contraception, but apparently some clients don't like to think you're ever fertile as well.

As far as making noise is concerned, I can't fake it remotely convincingly. I also have visible evidence of one sort of arousal... or its absence. So I make 'not faking but guiding' a feature. Works better for regular clients too - do you want someone convinced that X makes you really horny, baby, and so doing it again and again when it actually doesn't do anything for you at all or, worse, is an active turn off?

I think i will go into it when i move house as im currently in an open area and i think the horrid neighbours opposite would have something to say. I know they would def comment on something. What i do in my house doesnt mean I need to share with everyone but i know they will.

Don't work from home until you've read the thread here: http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=14.0