Hi Girls,

This is my first ever post so please bear with me.
I had my first ever client yesterday. He booked 2 hours through the agency and when I got there he wanted to go for a drink.
He wanted me to get in his car and I was worried so I rang the agency who said they're his best regular but my driver should take us and he did.
He was absolutely lovely. I felt very much respected and not at all degraded. Even the sex wasn't terrible and although he was almost 30 years older than me I actually didn't feel awkward or repulsed by sleeping with him.
I got home, had a bath, went to sleep, and have woken up feeling fine.
I almost feel like it didn't even happen. Like I shouldn't even count that as a man I slept with.
Is this all going to hit me suddenly? I have no guilt at all, I don't feel cheap or used.

Also does anyone have any tips for what they tell friends/family/men they're dating to cover up where they're going on an evening?
I'm escorting part time alongside my other job.

Thanks girls xx

I think it really depends how you feel. It's interesting for me because I become incredibly attached in my personal life to anyone I sleep with, even if I don't like them that much, sex is the definition of being close to someone for me and I instantly feel this connection to them and become upset if they just blow me off and feel guilty if I have a one night stand.  In my personal life my number is lower than 2 digits.

And so when I thought about escorting, I was always like "how can I possibly do that? I am like the neediest chick ever when it comes to sex." But I can honestly say I have never become attached to a client nor have I ever had any bad or guilty feelings about sleeping with them... from the beginning it's just always felt business-like. I do not count them as someone I've had sex with, if I was ever to be asked the dreaded question of "how many people have you slept with?" I would not add clients to my list. I think it's because the relationship is so set and clear from the beginning and it's purely sexual and I'm really just pleasing them, my focus is on trying to determine what it is they are looking for in the experience, not trying to connect with them on an emotional level.

So congrats, it sounds like you have the personality to be an escort. I've known some girls who had to get drunk to have sex with their first client or were sobbing and whatnot afterwards.

Obviously though not everyone will be as wonderful and respectful as this client was, like any customer service job not all your clients are going to be happy, wonderful, respectful human beings.

Well done!

I have seen only nine clients as I have recently started too and feel the same as you - no connection whatsoever; it is work. I always feel empowered when with a client and can't believe I am earning so much money from a single transaction whilst making their dreams come true for an hour. I love it!

My bf is delighted things are going well for me but as I don't see him very often I can't wait to go on holiday with him in a few weeks and make love!