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Re: First Booking Tomorrow Morning, Help!
« Reply #15 on: 29 September 2015, 04:44:53 pm »
He said he'd pay for the hour and see how the second one went, and if I would like him to stay, he would.

It's great that everything went well, but one thing you'll learn is that if someone makes a two hour booking, that's what they pay for at the start. You may well have declined another booking 90 minutes later, for example.

Similarly, if Mr Ending Up Spending Three Hours didn't pay for the extra time at the start of the extra time, sooner or later someone doing that will go 'Ooops, I have no more money' at the end.

Amongst the advantages of being independent is that it's much easier to talk to clients beforehand and know what it is they expect...

My flatmate is an agency girl and here's what she does. When they extend, which they often do she asks for the extended time money upfront. Say the client's first hour is over and they say they want 1 hour extra. This is when she asks them for money. Not after.

She often has guys extend a lot. She's pretty cool about it during incalls and if they run out of cash at some point she just lets them get dressed and go to the ATM:)

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« Reply #16 on: 29 September 2015, 08:00:08 pm »
He said he'd pay for the hour and see how the second one went, and if I would like him to stay, he would.

It's great that everything went well, but one thing you'll learn is that if someone makes a two hour booking, that's what they pay for at the start. You may well have declined another booking 90 minutes later, for example.

Similarly, if Mr Ending Up Spending Three Hours didn't pay for the extra time at the start of the extra time, sooner or later someone doing that will go 'Ooops, I have no more money' at the end.

Amongst the advantages of being independent is that it's much easier to talk to clients beforehand and know what it is they expect...

I made sure the 3 hour client paid the money at the start of every hour :) He said that this doesn't usually happen (??) and he'll request the correct hours the next time. He just ended up enjoying our time together so much that he wanted me to stay longer and I was fine with it I guess!

The two hour guy.. well, he originally booked 2 hours but said when he arrived that he'd stay for the hour, paid upfront, and if I still wanted him to stay and was comfortable for a second hour he would definitely stay, he just wanted to make things very easy and slow for me? He payed the second hour as soon as it started. Is it not really the done thing to accept clients requests for extra hours during a booking? For my schedule that day the extra hours were fine by me..??

I didn't get any calls today and I feel a bit more miffed about that than I probably should be! (Getting ready and waiting patiently only to have no calls.. Guess it happens a lot, haha ^_^) Probably cos of the big come down from a successful and busy day yesterday. I know it's not going to be like that every day, don't get me wrong!

Is it typical to get 0 bookings some days of the week if you're in an agency as a new girl? And if I continue.. An escort who's been working for over 2 years told me she only gets one booking a month through an agency!!? She works for other agencies too but that was a bit disheartening to hear on her behalf :( I know new girls are supposed to be "popular" and people keep saying it's only uphill from here but why am I so worried that I won't get any business further down the line.. Haha.. 


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Re: First Booking Tomorrow Morning, Help!
« Reply #17 on: 29 September 2015, 11:20:14 pm »
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Is it typical to get 0 bookings some days of the week if you're in an agency as a new girl? And if I continue.. An escort who's been working for over 2 years told me she only gets one booking a month through an agency!!? She works for other agencies too but that was a bit disheartening to hear on her behalf :( I know new girls are supposed to be "popular" and people keep saying it's only uphill from here but why am I so worried that I won't get any business further down the line.. Haha.. 

Generally new girls do better at agencies than the ones who have been around longer, same as you would indie. Are you sure this is the best agency for you? I haven't read this whole thread so I'm assuming there is a reason you aren't going indie.

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« Reply #18 on: 29 September 2015, 11:33:26 pm »
...is it typical to get 0 bookings some days of the week if you're in an agency as a new girl?

Swings and roundabouts Ari.
Good to have some slower days,  if you're full-tilt
each day you're likely to get burn-out.

'New meat' gets offered to agency clients till they become 'old meat'.


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Re: First Booking Tomorrow Morning, Help!
« Reply #19 on: 30 September 2015, 03:03:53 am »
Yep. It's good to take a break after a day like that. If i see alot of people in a few days I need a rest from my normal job.

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« Reply #20 on: 30 September 2015, 11:41:34 am »
Okay, glad that it's kind of normal then. Yeah, I figured I'd be pushed onto regular clients as a new girl and then things would reign back a lot.

I'm not sure if its the best agency - I like the boss, he's pretty laid back and helpful. He did tell me not to join any other agencies for now though after I got good feedback from the clients on my first day...

I'm just worried about getting enough work. Are 3-4 clients a week considered quite good? I was hoping I could have maybe 1 or 2 clients a day, up to 6 days a week. (Like 10 clients a week) My agency did say that they couldn't guarantee a workload like that?


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Re: First Booking Tomorrow Morning, Help!
« Reply #21 on: 30 September 2015, 03:12:31 pm »
No agent can guarantee how many bookings you will get, though some lie and say they can so at least they are being honest with you.

3-4 bookings a week would suit me fine when I'm not on tour, but if you want more join more agencies or work independently too.

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« Reply #22 on: 30 September 2015, 05:01:52 pm »
No agent can guarantee how many bookings you will get, though some lie and say they can so at least they are being honest with you.

3-4 bookings a week would suit me fine when I'm not on tour, but if you want more join more agencies or work independently too.

Ok! Thanks for your help! :)

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« Reply #23 on: 30 September 2015, 05:53:10 pm »
Have you thought about making a profile on Adultwork? Now you've seen a few clients you might feel comfortable being indie. You choose who you see in effect.

It would give you more opportunity. I work for 2-3 days at a time and i have alot of clients and regulars now i'm not saying we're all the same but it could work out better? When i first entertained the thought of being an escort I felt an agency would be best, but i was indie from the start.

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Re: First Booking Tomorrow Morning, Help!
« Reply #24 on: 30 September 2015, 09:17:17 pm »
Okay, glad that it's kind of normal then. Yeah, I figured I'd be pushed onto regular clients as a new girl and then things would reign back a lot.

I'm not sure if its the best agency - I like the boss, he's pretty laid back and helpful. He did tell me not to join any other agencies for now though after I got good feedback from the clients on my first day...

I'm just worried about getting enough work. Are 3-4 clients a week considered quite good? I was hoping I could have maybe 1 or 2 clients a day, up to 6 days a week. (Like 10 clients a week) My agency did say that they couldn't guarantee a workload like that?

Hi Miss_Ari, the agency has no place to tell you not to work with anyone else. Beware of manipulative bosses  ::)You can try AW and top up your earnings on quieter days. It's worth reading the threads about AW here.

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« Reply #25 on: 01 October 2015, 12:31:08 pm »
I am tempted to start AW too but I wasn't sure you could be independent AND belong to an agency at the same time?

My pricing is ?300 agency and it seems like most girls are pricing at ?100-?180 on AW. I can't be cheaper in one place and more expensive in another

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« Reply #26 on: 01 October 2015, 02:27:11 pm »
I am tempted to start AW too but I wasn't sure you could be independent AND belong to an agency at the same time?

You can :)

My pricing is ?300 agency and it seems like most girls are pricing at ?100-?180 on AW. I can't be cheaper in one place and more expensive in another

You can :)

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« Reply #27 on: 02 October 2015, 01:09:51 pm »
Oh seriously?? I'll have to consider that for the future if I'm not as busy as I'd like then!

On a different note, just had my 4th client last night and I felt absolutely TERRIBLE afterwards. It felt like the longest booking ever even though he was only there for 45 minutes. Very demanding physically,  respect out the window, didn't talk to me at all beforehand and constant extremely degrading dirty talk (b-i-t-c, s-l-u-, w-h-o-r-) and a lot of forced face fking with forceful deep throat (i'm only just learning to do that and was almost sick) and made me cry out in pain for a long time forcing 4 fingers down me for over ten minutes, (perhaps he was trying to fist me?) and possibly the worst kisser I've ever experienced. Definitely a client that feels he can do whatever the hell he wants with you as he's paid. I expected some men to be like this but actually experiencing it made me feel so sad and depressed and made me question whether I could do this job if 80% of clients were going to be like this and treat you like absolute crap, and two holes just because they've paid.

I should have made him sit down at the beginning of the booking and go through what I do and don't do. I was too scared to tell him to stop as I didn't want to cause any conflict during the booking or get a bad review. I mentioned to the agency afterwards that I felt this client was too rough and they said they'll bare that in mind the next time he calls. I don't really want to see this client again. I think that's fair of me? Should I let the agency know I don't want to see him again?

What I'm now scared of is if most of the clients are going to be like this. The first clients I had seem like a dream away now if this is the reality of escorting.
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« Reply #28 on: 02 October 2015, 01:26:33 pm »
Oh seriously?? I'll have to consider that for the future if I'm not as busy as I'd like then!

On a different note, just had my 4th client last night and I felt absolutely TERRIBLE afterwards. It felt like the longest booking ever even though he was only there for 45 minutes. Very demanding physically,  respect out the window, didn't talk to me at all beforehand and constant extremely degrading dirty talk (b-i-t-c, s-l-u-, w-h-o-r-) and a lot of forced face fking with forceful deep throat (i'm only just learning to do that and was almost sick) and made me cry out in pain for a long time forcing 4 fingers down me for over ten minutes, (perhaps he was trying to fist me?) and possibly the worst kisser I've ever experienced. Definitely a client that feels he can do whatever the hell he wants with you as he's paid. I expected some men to be like this but actually experiencing it made me feel so sad and depressed and made me question whether I could do this job if 80% of clients were going to be like this and treat you like absolute crap, and two holes just because they've paid.

I should have made him sit down at the beginning of the booking and go through what I do and don't do. I was too scared to tell him to stop as I didn't want to cause any conflict during the booking or get a bad review. I mentioned to the agency afterwards that I felt this client was too rough and they said they'll bare that in mind the next time he calls. I don't really want to see this client again.I think that's fair of me? Should I let the agency know I don't want to see him again?

What I'm now scared of is if most of the clients are going to be like this. The first clients I had seem like a dream away now if this is the reality of escorting.

Absofu**inglutely! That's horrendous how he treated you! What a vile scum bag! Your body you call the shots. Agency should be banning him & if they aren't then they are putting their ladies at risk, disgusting. Sod bad reviews, you can file a molestation complaint against that jackass. Hope you are OK!

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Re: First Booking Tomorrow Morning, Help!
« Reply #29 on: 02 October 2015, 01:27:54 pm »
Sorry to hear this Ari..might find it handy to pick up some
control techniques to prevent this kind of sexual assault.
It's a distressing learning curve...I think many of us have been there.

One of the pressures can be 'reviews'.
Especially if an agency or escort is 'review hungry'.
So do you endure  an abusive, violent experience for a good review?
or do you maintain control so you're in good mental and physical
nick to enjoy the nice clients?

There's no guarantee clients will leave positive reviews no
matter how much you 'please them'.





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