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celebate

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Finding escorting flatmates
« on: 02 September 2008, 03:22:35 am »
I'm looking for a flatmate just now who escorts but have no idea where to start!

I don't want to live by myself but do want to be able to take incalls, does anyone have any suggestions on how to go about my search?

I don't know any other escorts so that's not an option.


Thanks.

Nell2

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Re: Finding escorting flatmates
« Reply #1 on: 02 September 2008, 02:10:08 pm »
Hi there

You can post here like I did but not very easy to find someone to share with!!!

Also you would need to consider how to work it if you are both working from the same flat.  I know of other escorts that do share and they have their own individual days they work from.

Personally I was looking to share an incall place but have decided to go down the route of getting my own small studio or 1 bed as I would prefer to be flexible and see clients anytime without restrictions of working certain days/evenings.

Dont know if you are on adultwork but you could also post there in the other services section. 

It is difficult if you dont know any other escorts so really the only places to start the search are forums like this .

Hope this helps
Alexandra xx

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Re: Finding escorting flatmates
« Reply #2 on: 02 September 2008, 03:05:22 pm »
Be careful about chosing friends/flatmates in this business, as there are some real beyaatches out there.  I'd stick to a cheap bedsit if I were you. 

amy

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Re: Finding escorting flatmates
« Reply #3 on: 03 September 2008, 12:14:18 am »
Be careful about chosing friends/flatmates in this business, as there are some real beyaatches out there.  I'd stick to a cheap bedsit if I were you. 

What she said! Plus, I hate to be boring but if its important to you to stay within the law you would be far better with your own place - two of you sharing is illegal even when you are not there at the same time. As Alexandra said, you will have to schedule your bookings around each other which will drive you mad as someone is guaranteed to lose out -  your clients will not want to be running into each other in the corridor/bathroom, no matter how well-organised you are.

I would have a look for a cheap studio or bedsit - if you get really stuck you can also get some very cheap deals on hotel rooms. Apparently some places will even let you book a room just for the day if you are out by a certain time (so they can get the room ready for someone else that night), especially ones near the airports. I've never tried this so I don't know the details but it might be worth looking into, depending on how you want to structure your bookings (doing incalls one or two days a week and outcalls the rest of the time, for example).

celebate

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Re: Finding escorting flatmates
« Reply #4 on: 03 September 2008, 01:33:39 am »
It's not that I just want somewhere for incalls - I need to move to go back to uni anyway.

I'm not the kind of person who likes to be alone too much so really don't want to get a place with just me but when I started escorting while sharing last term it was very hard. Housemates fine i very strange just going off for an hour or whatnot and coming back all the time as well as being at random times of the day.

Rather the predicament.

I don't see too much of a problem coming with organising bookings between us, especially as I'll be at uni 3 full days a week and studying etc too.

Just very annoying!

I'll try posting on various forums and hopefully find someone who isn't a bitch! lol

Thanks

sylvia

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Re: Finding escorting flatmates
« Reply #5 on: 03 September 2008, 10:55:26 pm »
Hi there, i had the same problem, i lived with people before and couldnt avoid the questions about where i was going etc.
now i live more in a place where everyone gets on with their own thing but still cant invite clients
so i rent a room in a massage parlour where its clean and good for invites
maybe that's an option for you?
obviously you pay some rent per hour and some clients don't like the idea but since i do that my bookings went up cause most people cant invite you in there house so its definately a winning situation
maye you want to call around and i can guess that a parlour is happy to make some money out of your booking
u can bump up the price as well a bit for an incall
goodluck
x sylvia