I recently started seeing a guy I  who doesn't know what I do for a living. We haven't had any discussions yet about our relationship or where its going. We haven't said that we'll be exclusive to each other or anything.  He's also from a country in Europe, so he might not even stay long in England. However I have started to develop feeling for him and feel really guilty. I know I should break it off with him, but I can't. I know if I tell him he would probably want to break up with me. I always practice safe sex and get checked regularly and also practice safe sex with him. I don't know what to do. Having a boyfriend makes it harder to enjoy my work. Before I used to love it, but right now quitting is not an option.
Sasha x

Thanks LouLou37. He added me as a friend on facebook so I am a bit worried about what he might do if he finds out-like declare it to my friends and family.

Hi there...

MMmmm the facebooking thing first... I would talk to him and say listen would you mind if I take you off facebook... I like to keep us special and communicating on the phone and of course face to face... maybe a wee white lie of having a bad experience or something.  A couple of people know what I do.. but I was honest and said I prefer you not to be on my facebook... to me sometimes things go wrong and you don't know what people are going to do when the chips are down.  As far as the time and telling thing... Mmmm I think it has a fine line.... you will know I guess... I dated someone who had a religion that even frowned on sex... so can you imagine... I did not say anything.... but I did talk to him referring to a friend that just told me she was an escort and checked out his expressions and what he had to say.... he was pretty relaxed but I know for a fact he would not of handled it from other conversations he had discussed.  For me it was too much of a risk for him to know and share with certain people.   

The condom thing is good though.  For me to take away someones safety without giving them an informed choice would really be harsh.

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Thanks for all the suggestions. I think I will bring out the topic of escorts and see his reaction.I don't want to remove him from facebook, but will if we break up and he finds out..I still don't know where the relationship is going, he is working abroad at the moment and I will see him soon, but he has said a few things to indicate he might be getting a bit more serious.
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