just been asked for this but hadn't heard of it before.  had a quick look on here and only reference was to a scammer.  Anyone know anything about it? (could be fun - lol) x

While it does happen I think the majority of people who say they just want to give you money are going to be timewasters of some sort. Even if they get off on the idea, it doesn't mean they're going to do it. Personally I wouldn't go far into any discussion with a prospective financial sub until he'd sent me some money.

Yep, mostly timewasters.  I always tell them to prove it by sending me an amazon voucher, just for the fun of it.  No takers yet.   

Jas x

I think there's someone doing this on AW - there's always a new reverse booking, it seems, saying "no meet required! Just make me pay!" or similar. He says he wants financial domination but for all we know, he just likes getting 2,467 bids on his reverse bookings. He's definitely getting a lot of free attention whether or not he's actually getting off on the financial bit. I might be the odd whore out here but I'd definitely rather meet a genuine client for a regular appointment and receive nice real money than fight with every other prossie in London over a hundred imaginary pounds!

will try for a voucher (actually that's another question - how does that work?)

You point them at http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/gc, they give Amazon your email address plus some money and you get an 'XXX sent you an Amazon.co.uk Gift Certificate!' email from Amazon with a code number. You can then use that to pay for stuff from Amazon.

You don't need to know anything about them, all they need to know about you is your email address, Amazon don't get sniffy about why they've sent it, and once you have it, I don't think there's any way they can get it back. So all in all, better than Paypal, if you buy stuff from Amazon.

There are people who advertise financial domination as a service, but like so much else, I wonder how many clients they actually get for it. The wishlists seem to stay the same (just how many copies of a particular CD\DVD\book does anyone want?)

Hello 

Newbie here (first post WOOT!) so sorry if I stuff it up lol.

I'm in Australia and I have three clients I do financial dom with and they're all from the UK (London I think). I saw them as clients when they were in Sydney and then they went home and wanted to keep talking to me.

I kept ignoring their emails, calls and texts because they weren't in Sydney so thought there was no point and then all three offered to pay me money to text, talk or email with them.

I gave them my business bank account details and then money started appearing in my bank account. I'd then get a text from them saying they had deposited money so now could they talk to me. I kept ignoring them so they put more money in until I agreed to talk to them.

I find the longer I ignore them, the more they keep depositing and then eventually when I'm bored I'll send them a list of porn directions on how I want them to jerk off that night and they send me text messages as they do it to clarify anything they can't seem to understand or get in the right position for. I send back I'm not interested in excuses or hearing how they can't do what I tell them to do and only contact me with results. A few hours later I get an email saying missions accomplished.

A week later more money appears and the emails requesting instructions begin again.

I feel a bit guilty every now and then, but I get over it

The emails I send take me quite a while to write. Having to try and think up new ways to get them to jerk off or new little missions to do can be a stretch. It's especially hard if you only spent 1 hour with them in person and you have to try and remember their likes and dislikes because you have to tailor each email to their likes and dislikes. You can of course "borrow" ideas from literotica sites 

I've never had anyone in Australia ask me for it as a private/independent worker and I've been a sex worker here for 15 years. However, when I worked in a dungeon here, I use to make 1/2 of my weekly income out of financial slaves and all I had to do was send them a pic or talk to them on the phone for 5 minutes every now and then. Again all of these guys were overseas (Israel and UK mainly).

I know some girls in the US who do it and make a PACKET but they market as ProDoms. If I was going to do it as a GFE private worker, I'd market it in a more subtle tender way like "for my lovers who I miss and who miss me, let's stay in touch... BARGAIN RATE OF $$$$$" lol.

Goooood luck and you never know if you don't give it a go (but I would be SUPER careful re: time wasters like the other ladies have already discussed).

Lucy
 

Re: Amazon

I have seen some ladies actually have a link on their wishlists which if you click points directly to their own Amazon wishlist with items they desire so the punter can just purchase them for her - I have no idea how you set that up though, maybe someone here can enlighten

there's a feature button once you have set up your Amazon wishlist which gives an 'add to Wish list' tab in your browser window, then if you are looking at shoes/clothes/sex toys...whatever... you can click to easily add this to your Amazon list.

sorry I don't know how to describe this in a way that makes sense  the feature is called 'universal wish list'.

I am a professional Dominatrix, and have gone through the ring-rolls of a full year of training in Australia, before coming out to UK.

I can say from experience that around 90% of financial dom submissives are various degrees of time-wasting or insufficient funds to afford the costs of an escort or dominatrix's time, and only about 10% serious and with the money to back it up.

One of my colleagues is known for doing financial domination, and virtually runs on major fetish financial domination and blackmail, predominantly lawyers who have sought her out. She is fierce, and has them agree to "no code red" clauses (no back-out / safeword), gets specific information they offer her, and has them confirm it on an answer machine or in writing, using that to up the ante. However believe it or not, she still does this very ethically, but is good at her game. And the point of the game is to make it seem real. To make out that she really would walk into their law office with a full black leather catsuit on carrying a riding crop, and expose them.

I personally steer clear of financial domination as timewasters are abound, and I would rather just get on and do a great session of BDSM and corporal punishment, rather than waste my time on the phone or email with someone who is unlikely to really go through with it.

Also, part of the dynamic of financial domination and blackmail is that the sub often at some point turns around and plays back, blackmailing the Dom / escort. Trying to find out where THEY live, etc.

So to the inexperienced, I would say think through this first and consider whether it is worthwhile really?!

xx