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chlo89

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Filming?
« on: 17 December 2016, 01:34:51 am »
Hey guys  :)

I've been escorting for just under a year now.  I was wondering what you all thought about this..

I used to allow clients to film me, at an extra cost of course! I didn't realise some had actually downloaded the vids from AW, I had no idea that was an option so obviously that's pretty unsafe, so they could send that to ANYONE, people would know me round here because I have specific piercings especially.

I'm wondering what I could do to cover them and part of my face up (piercings -lip and top of face more than anything)? I was thinking of allowing clients to film again, for an extra price.

I wouldn't want to freak a client out with a gimp mask on lol!

One other question.. I used to do water sports before I started escorting with random men (receiving) but it wasn't my thing, I tried to give it but my bladder is SO unbelievably shy  :FF, but I'd LOVE to be able to give water sports, any ideas how I can over come this 'fear' of peeing in front of a random person lol!

Thanks guys!

What do you all think?

Hope you're all having a good night

Stay safe

Chlo (escort name obv) x

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« Reply #1 on: 17 December 2016, 12:35:58 pm »
Hey guys  :)

I've been escorting for just under a year now.  I was wondering what you all thought about this..

I used to allow clients to film me, at an extra cost of course! I didn't realise some had actually downloaded the vids from AW, I had no idea that was an option so obviously that's pretty unsafe, so they could send that to ANYONE, people would know me round here because I have specific piercings especially.

I'm wondering what I could do to cover them and part of my face up (piercings -lip and top of face more than anything)? I was thinking of allowing clients to film again, for an extra price.

I wouldn't want to freak a client out with a gimp mask on lol!

One other question.. I used to do water sports before I started escorting with random men (receiving) but it wasn't my thing, I tried to give it but my bladder is SO unbelievably shy  :FF, but I'd LOVE to be able to give water sports, any ideas how I can over come this 'fear' of peeing in front of a random person lol!

Thanks guys!

What do you all think?

Hope you're all having a good night

Stay safe

Chlo (escort name obv) x
What about wearing a sexy mask type thing?? I can't believe you can download videos from AW, disgusting & shame on AW for making it easy, must be a man running that site.
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« Reply #2 on: 17 December 2016, 03:23:30 pm »
I think you'll probably be able to find masquerade ball type masks somewhere!

With the watersports it is totally psychological. Sometimes I have to just run the tap and listen to the sound to help me pee.

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« Reply #3 on: 17 December 2016, 03:46:17 pm »
I think you'll probably be able to find masquerade ball type masks somewhere!

With the watersports it is totally psychological. Sometimes I have to just run the tap and listen to the sound to help me pee.
Maqsuerade mask yes, I couldn't remember the name of it.

Whilst we're talking of filming (well yes this is what the thread is about duh) if a client films you & then put's it on the net without your permission then I take it that this is classed as the Criminal Act of Revenge Porn? Well maybe tell the clients that want this service that you'll go to the Police if they do this to you or even better, so as not to make them feel uncomfortable, hint at doing this or pretend you once did this to a client & that he was married but he crossed a MAJOR boundary when he uploaded a vid of you without your consent & then any future potential Revenge Porn style clients will know not to dare do this, make sure you get a copy of the film too so there is no way that you wouldn't know who uploaded it (incase he thinks you're doing it with all clients & so couldn't possibly know who the culprit was), and downloading them from AW & using them on internet is revenge porn too I'd think.
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« Reply #4 on: 17 December 2016, 03:48:30 pm »
Just re-read your original post & saw that you didn't even mention uploading vids to internet so sorry that I rambled on about it, I sometimes read far too fast & think I read things that I didn't so apologies in advance & I understand my post may be removed, edited etc. Sorry.
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« Reply #5 on: 17 December 2016, 05:52:51 pm »
there been so much snap chatting going on and secret filming its a real invasion i now insist of phones being switched of or  put away in draw rumbled a few  :FF

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« Reply #6 on: 17 December 2016, 07:16:38 pm »
When ive peed on a guy ive gone to the toilet to start the pee. Then stopped and finished off on punter in bath or wherever he is.  I find it easier once ive started pissing than hunching over him waiting for it to start xx

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« Reply #7 on: 17 December 2016, 07:20:32 pm »
Regarding filming - if you put anything online, you have to accept that it may be shared, distributed, etc. Maybe to people you know. You can put whatever security limits on but people will always find a way around it, and tbh the more hurdles you put in place, the more people will be motivated to break them.

When I first started I blurred my face in any video or photo, now I've gone full time and don't have a  civvy job I don't bother. I know that eventually someone will tell all my former colleagues "OMG LOOK SHE'S A HOOR" and I'm prepared for that day.

Yes you can minimise the risk by not allowing filming/photos but it could still happen any time.
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« Reply #8 on: 17 December 2016, 07:41:26 pm »
Regarding filming - if you put anything online, you have to accept that it may be shared, distributed, etc. Maybe to people you know. You can put whatever security limits on but people will always find a way around it, and tbh the more hurdles you put in place, the more people will be motivated to break them.

When I first started I blurred my face in any video or photo, now I've gone full time and don't have a  civvy job I don't bother. I know that eventually someone will tell all my former colleagues "OMG LOOK SHE'S A HOOR" and I'm prepared for that day.

Yes you can minimise the risk by not allowing filming/photos but it could still happen any time.
Ur absolutely right; the silly c***s would see it as a Challenge...**sighs to herself**
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chlo89

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« Reply #9 on: 18 December 2016, 11:26:52 am »
I think you'll probably be able to find masquerade ball type masks somewhere!

With the watersports it is totally psychological. Sometimes I have to just run the tap and listen to the sound to help me pee.

I have one of those masks! It doesn't cover my lip piercings though :( I have 5 just on my lip, there's plenty online so maybe it's too late? I'm not sure. Yeah I know the pissing is psyhcological because I can't do it with someone literally next to me but can if someone is in the next room but I never used to be able to! Maybe it's got better.. lol.

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« Reply #10 on: 18 December 2016, 11:30:34 am »
Ur absolutely right; the silly c***s would see it as a Challenge...**sighs to herself**

Regarding filming - if you put anything online, you have to accept that it may be shared, distributed, etc. Maybe to people you know. You can put whatever security limits on but people will always find a way around it, and tbh the more hurdles you put in place, the more people will be motivated to break them.

When I first started I blurred my face in any video or photo, now I've gone full time and don't have a  civvy job I don't bother. I know that eventually someone will tell all my former colleagues "OMG LOOK SHE'S A HOOR" and I'm prepared for that day.

Yes you can minimise the risk by not allowing filming/photos but it could still happen any time.

I suppose you're right yeah and let's face it, you don't have to be a member to view it and guys can even just take a screen shot etc and pass it around.. sometimes I wonder if people know around here because they look at me strange.. there was a time when I had a normal part time job and this guy looked at me the exact same way, turns out he found me on AW - I guessed already, he'd been texting me on mty work number EXACTLY after he'd just seen me, I was like yeah I know who you are.. he was asking for freebies because he 'knew' me, er no he SAW me, big difference lol! Even if a guy 'knows' me he won't be getting a freebie, dream on guys haha!

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« Reply #11 on: 18 December 2016, 11:32:20 am »
Just re-read your original post & saw that you didn't even mention uploading vids to internet so sorry that I rambled on about it, I sometimes read far too fast & think I read things that I didn't so apologies in advance & I understand my post may be removed, edited etc. Sorry.

No some vids where online a previous client told me he downloaded it from my profile (after paying) that shocked me...

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« Reply #12 on: 18 December 2016, 11:32:57 am »
Thank you for all your answers ladies :)

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« Reply #13 on: 18 December 2016, 04:01:08 pm »
Id be careful with the filming, its a bit of a grey area im afraid.

If you agree to filming then unless you have a clearly defined release form signed by both parties then it wont stand up in court, as for saying its revenge porn, if the client is able to produce anything supporting his claim that you allowed filming then nothing can really be done unless it goes against a something that is written down in black and white.

If you do let filming then ensure that you get note of their address and name and ensure that it is checked before doing so. I know too many models out there that got caught out with this. Id say make yourself unrecognisable and then take it that the material will get out eventually. once its out there it will never go away.

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« Reply #14 on: 18 December 2016, 04:43:02 pm »
Id be careful with the filming, its a bit of a grey area im afraid.

If you agree to filming then unless you have a clearly defined release form signed by both parties then it wont stand up in court, as for saying its revenge porn, if the client is able to produce anything supporting his claim that you allowed filming then nothing can really be done unless it goes against a something that is written down in black and white

If you do let filming then ensure that you get note of their address and name and ensure that it is checked before doing so. I know too many models out there that got caught out with this. Id say make yourself unrecognisable and then take it that the material will get out eventually. once its out there it will never go away.
I agree, you're just opening yourself up to alot of grief & we all know the mentality of alot of these clients & some of them are very much in the mindset that if 'we're going to be filmed/make films for AW then why do we have a problem with it going on the internet?? After all we are 'prossies' & we are just mere men that allow our penises to make our decisions & I was going through a "rough" time' this is just an example of what a guy could say.

Its not very good of AW to make the films so easy to download; is AW run by a man by any chance?
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