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PissedOffPrincess

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Feeling like I should do only quickies
« on: 18 November 2018, 05:15:32 pm »
I ask men who they have seen before to try screening they wont say.
Some get very aggressive like nasty!
How do others get them to tell you anything the ones who ring me are rude if I ask any question and believe me I am very nice on the phone.
I am thinking i should go into quickies and give as much respect as I get book everyne make them wait etc no favourites blow and go
Fed up being nice and getting treated like dirt.

someonesomewhere

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #1 on: 18 November 2018, 05:54:16 pm »
What questions are you asking?
If you are really asking them what wg's they have previously seen?

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #2 on: 18 November 2018, 06:18:27 pm »
Why do you ask them if they have seen another escort

They could say that they saw escort A but unless you know Escort A has seen this punter I can’t see how asking them that makes a difference as you won’t really know

I don’t ask them anything. I do pretty much all my work by text. I’ve never asked them who they saw before. No point as chances are I wouldn’t know them and how they treat 1 escort could be totally different to how they treat you

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #3 on: 18 November 2018, 06:46:59 pm »
It is not our concern who they have seen before.  There is no need to ask this.  Did you mean to ask if the guy had seen an escort before?  Is that what you meant.  Sometimes I ask this but only dropped in the conversation the same way as I may enquire if they travelled far or if they are working that day (e.g. after the booking).  Just to keep a small convo going to be amiable.


PissedOffPrincess

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #4 on: 18 November 2018, 06:54:57 pm »
I get told by many escorts in ireland this is how they screen.
They ask who they have seen before then ask that escort for a ref to confirm.
I have been asked for refs for men I have seen.

ParisB

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #5 on: 18 November 2018, 08:09:55 pm »
I get told by many escorts in ireland this is how they screen.
They ask who they have seen before then ask that escort for a ref to confirm.
I have been asked for refs for men I have seen.

I worked in Ireland for a few years and never once asked for references from other escorts.
Maybe it’s changed now as it was a while ago but it would be much harder  way of working for me

Kay

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #6 on: 19 November 2018, 02:35:54 am »
I do ask a few things, but never if they've seen any other escorts - I can imagine that would throw some clients. I think if you want to be treated well, you need to improve your marketing/screening: surely offering blow and go quickies isn't going to help there?  ???
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #7 on: 19 November 2018, 06:45:00 am »
Many punters just want to book without strings and without interrogation.

MelissaS

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #8 on: 19 November 2018, 07:25:56 am »
I do ask a few things, but never if they've seen any other escorts - I can imagine that would throw some clients. I think if you want to be treated well, you need to improve your marketing/screening: surely offering blow and go quickies isn't going to help there?  ???
Exactly this. If anyone started giving me shit like that they’d fail my screening and never be entertained by me again. They fail for much less than that.

The only thing I can think that I ask each time is, “have you checked my rates and services?”

What are you asking to incite such a reaction?

someonesomewhere

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #9 on: 19 November 2018, 02:02:19 pm »
This now makes sense when I have been contacted by a couple of guys who have said they can provide references from other wg's. I think it's a crazy system and I wouldn't like it. I am discreet for a reason and this doesn't include punters passing my details onto other wg's nor does it include other wg's having my contact details.
So how does this ridiculous thing work with someone like me who would really lay into any punter who gave out my details?


PissedOffPrincess

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #10 on: 20 November 2018, 06:18:44 pm »
I wonder is it because Ireland is much smaller then England?

It is something  have tried now and again as an experiment and I really do ask very nicely

Seems to work for everyone else from what I hear but I rarely if ever get told.

Seems gut feeling is the only way to book anyone.

I have been part time and only recently started touring more so seems I have a lot to learn.

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #11 on: 20 November 2018, 09:00:30 pm »
From my Twitter and Switter contact with SWs in USA, it seems they do much more in-depth screening over there, including asking for ID, info on employment, plus references from other WGs. To my knowledge nothing like that happens in the UK.

I rely on the mobile number/email checker on the NUM site, a certain amount of email correspondence beforehand, feedback on AW and gut feeling.

PissedOffPrincess

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #12 on: 20 November 2018, 09:14:52 pm »
From my Twitter and Switter contact with SWs in USA, it seems they do much more in-depth screening over there, including asking for ID, info on employment, plus references from other WGs. To my knowledge nothing like that happens in the UK.

I rely on the mobile number/email checker on the NUM site, a certain amount of email correspondence beforehand, feedback on AW and gut feeling.

Yes seems to be the only way.
I do know WGs who do ask for refs from other Escorts i have been asked and given it but when I ask the men they say no one has ever asked them before and get all huffy and offended.

I think in america they have to be OTT as the police do stings from what I hear so the clients may be more understanding

The situation in Ireland is getting dodgy for clients you would think they would understand the need for refs but they dont want to know.

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #13 on: 21 November 2018, 08:01:18 am »
The only time I would ask for anther escort for a reference if it was a long outcall booking & said punter mentioned anther escort being their regular or whatever.

Just stick to aw feedback if that's how you want to play it but as we all know what other people say about other people isn't always accurate.

someonesomewhere

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Re: Feeling like I should do only quickies
« Reply #14 on: 21 November 2018, 03:09:53 pm »
The only time I would ask for anther escort for a reference if it was a long outcall booking & said punter mentioned anther escort being their regular or whatever.

Just stick to aw feedback if that's how you want to play it but as we all know what other people say about other people isn't always accurate.


That's actually a good point about the bs feedback on AW. There is no saying that wg's would also give the same bs feedback about a client to get rid of them. Or if they are a really good client, to retain them.