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Author Topic: Feeling icky after a client talking about weird things and underage sex  (Read 4909 times)

Violette

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I hear what you are saying Benny, but I sort of went primal on him, I remember one min talking to him and the next being pulled off. I really did loose it that day. Let's just say it struck a personal note.

cindy

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The thing about it (the boundry pushing) that annoys me is the total disregard for my wishes. Some men seem to have contempt for escorts when they mention such things. They must be fully aware that it makes you uncomfortable but dont seem to care. Its certainly not the subject that they would discuss with thier partner whilst sitting in thier conservatory reading The Guardian but because they are paying me there must be no limit to amount of lewd suggestions I will put up with. If nothing else its very disrespectful.
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Alexxx

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I'm sorry to hear about the numerous bad experiences regarding 'age play'. I had a client ask me to pretend to be a schoolgirl and I agreed, but told him that the yougnest age to mention is 16 as this is the age of consent and any mention of under 16's from him and I would be forced to end the booking.
He got the point.

If somebody has experienced any sort of abuse in childhood, then maybe it isn't a good idea to be acting out a schoolgirl fantasy. It might be what your client wants, but IMO it encourages untoward comments which can result in you losing the plot. Probably best to stay away from this particular kind of roleplay. Just my opinion of course, I don't mean to offend anybody.
 
Adultwork is full of sicko's who seek out women who've only just turned 18. I was on there at 18 and dealt with loads of crap from perverts thinking I would be an easy target for their nasty 'undr 16' fantasies. Not a bloody chance. I cut down on alot of this by adding a question about age play. Something along the lines of 'I don't offer age play and will be offended by any person requesting this. Please don't waste my time or yours'. It seemed to work and if anybody did ask, the block button came in rather handy.

It can be really difficult during a booking when they start talking really filthy about stuff that you don't find acceptable. I'm very forward and tend to stop it before it gets too out of hand. If I get a bad review, I'll answer it by telling the truth.

Just because we choose to sell sex doesn't mean we have to put up and shut up.
Stay strong ladies/gents and don't take any sh!t lol x x x