I had a client not so long ago (sorry if I'm repeating myself to anyone who read my old post about it!) who had a bit of a rape/forcing fantasy and wanted to verbally act out a dialogue as though he was assaulting me and I didn't want it, although the sex itself was extremely normal/gentle/misssionary. Towards the end he asked me to say things about my young pussy and how his big cock was hurting me and I just said it so he'd ejaculate and get off me. After I left, though, and wasn't so worried about self-preservation or getting a bad review or something, it all sunk in a bit more and I felt gross, like I'd encouraged a sick pervert. I still don't know what I should've done although I sometimes fantasize about all these horrible men being arrested, tried and castrated! But then, it was only his fantasies that he wanted to talk through and I suppose he was trying to do it in a safe way so maybe I'm overreacting or confused. It was an agency booking and I wish they'd given me warning (he was a regular of theirs) rather than let me go through that delightful surprise. I don't know, I'm sorry I'm not being any help here. I just hate to think of dozens of other girls going through the same thing!

The only thing I would say is not to berate yourself - you mustn't think that you did anything wrong because who knows, if you'd said something to this creep he could have turned violent and if you'd gotten hurt, that would have been even worse. You could maybe consider leaving feedback if it was an Adultwork booking? That can still cause you a lot of risk, however - anything from him trying to destroy your reputation to getting a 'friend' to book you without you knowing, to hurt you in person.

This may sound odd but it's the same thing I mentioned in another thread - have you tried asking your GP or the nurse at your GUM clinic whether there might be someone you could talk to about this? I did recently and have been amazed at the response, they're extremely kind and professional people and seem to encourage the idea of anyone going through a rough patch, possibly to do with sex work but not necessarily, having a word with a qualified counsellor-type. They are absolutely brimming with practical advice, too!

One of the things some clients want is to be able to express fantasies that they otherwise cannot. This doesn't mean you have to let them! Whether it's them sticking their fingers up your bum without asking or wanting to talk about your pre-legal sex life, if it makes you uncomfortable, tell them to stop. If they don't, throw them out.

You can't do much about your age and it will be part of the appeal for some. You can be picky about the ages you see though.

If you advertise losing your virginity at 14 on Adultwork, don't be surprised if someone wants to talk about it. Same with rude pictures. If you don't want men wanking over them, don't post them.

I do not allow any discussion of any illegal or unhygenic sex act with my clients.  The kinds of people who want to talk about these things with escorts are no end of trouble.

If you have discussed or roleplayed or fantasised about any of these things in your civilian sex life, that is between you and your partner.  Clients are strangers and you cannot trust them with this kind of thing.  A partner is a different matter entirely, as are your own fantasies.

A WG im friendly with was up against this recently, the underage schoolgirl fantasy. The client leered at her and asked her age, obv wanting her to lie. She replied that she was 34 with 3 children. That p****d on his chips!! lol.

So sorry you have been through this.

It can be very distressing to have to listen to someone acting out his underage and/or demeaning fanasies.

The thing is, if it has not been discussed and agreed upon prior to the booking or at least at the start you should not feel obliged to go along with it.
Stop whatever you are doing and politely point out to the client that this was not discussed and that you feel upset/offended by this behaviour and if he continues you will have to end the booking.

I know it is not an easy thing to do and a bit of a dilemma when faced with this unexpectedly, thoughts of reputation, giving good service and obligation go through your head, but at the end of the day this person is violating you just as much as if he was trying to force you into anal or unprotected sex.
 Just because it is verbal doesn't make it less damaging.

Protect yourself.

I at my age, do a kinky school girl fantasy, but believe me when I say I am not fooling anyone that I am actually one. But, I have had a client who wanted me to tell him about sex with children as young as 9, and well let's just say he left the appointment a little worse for wear, some hair missing, and lots of blood on his shirt! After being pulled off of him by some other working ladies, one of my friends talked to me, because I was quite upset. Basically, she said, as sick as it is he is coming to an adult to act out his fantasy and not actually harming children. I don't buy it then and I don't now.
And I am sorry you had to go through it, because it does leave you feeling quite ill and violated. There are some sick people out there, and we get the pleasure of encountering some of them.

I see what you mean CatBBW, however I don't think the client was a paedophile, he didnt mention anything about children just teenagers, it was probably him trying to act out his fantasy etc, but it made me uncomfortable and I don't think I'm the right person he should be going to for that sort of behaviour. Maybe some other escort wouldn't be as bothered?
It wasn't just the talking about underage sex and stuff, it was a lot of how he spoke to me, I felt degraded. I mean I would never talk to another human being like that, he sounded like a sick pervert! :S