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Tiffany_jane

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Falling for a client
« on: 19 February 2015, 10:20:07 pm »
Trying my hardest not to fall for my client ! We're both the same age get on very well we both have issues with our bf/gfs at home ... We speak every day an meet up very frequently and now I'm genuinely falling for him  :FF I find him sooo attractive which doesn't help, I spend have my day thinking about him lol ! Oh god this isn't good need to snap out if it asap !! X ???




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Shewolf

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #1 on: 19 February 2015, 10:49:09 pm »
Hiya,

Does he always pay you when you meet up? x

TheLittleMatchGirl

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #2 on: 20 February 2015, 12:16:30 am »
You can't always stop the feelings from happening but try to keep a level head, remember words mean nothing, it's actions.
Of course I hope it does work out, whatever would make you happy, but the "me and my gf aren't great" thing is a cliche for a reason...

Has he been a client long?
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Marianne

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #3 on: 20 February 2015, 07:33:09 am »
Difficult one, I've liked clients a lot but my feeling have never gone over. I think it's cause (and I know some may find this hypocritical) I wouldn't want to go out with a guy who punts! I had a guy say he loved me and wanted to leave his (3rd) wife for me but how would I ever have trusted him not to trade up when he got the chance?

I also think you have a better chance of finding happiness when you are single and happy where as you are both in unhappy relationships.

Also - I know a lady who got together with a client and guess what? He doesn't like her working any more!

Only you can decide what to do but for me, I'd stop all contact and not see him again and sort out whether I want to be in the relationship I'm in or not.

Good luck whatever course of action you choose to take xxx
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #4 on: 20 February 2015, 10:58:52 am »
"My wife doesn't understand me." Or variations thereof... classic bullshit.

This is a guy who is cheating on his partner. Take his money, enjoy his company, but banish the thought of him being a potential partner.

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #5 on: 20 February 2015, 12:50:19 pm »
Trying my hardest not to fall for my client ! We're both the same age get on very well we both have issues with our bf/gfs at home ... We speak every day an meet up very frequently and now I'm genuinely falling for him  :FF I find him sooo attractive which doesn't help, I spend have my day thinking about him lol ! Oh god this isn't good need to snap out if it asap !! X ???




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But remind yourself can you do without his money.

eatmeplease

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #6 on: 20 February 2015, 09:48:48 pm »
Men will say any thing to try and get into your head ....it all leads to one place ....
I've had and still have several clients that say to me , oh your the only one I see ...I think we're
a perfect match ...we're so tuned into one another...I wish we could spend every day together...
Yeah and the rest ....all the while I'm just smiling and thinking...
I'm just not gullible,
I just want your cash 

Tiffany_jane

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #7 on: 20 February 2015, 10:16:44 pm »
You no what I think that's true think he will try get freebies off me now! I haven't let him an won't I still ask for money xx

VanessaTS

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #8 on: 21 February 2015, 01:00:15 am »
he will try get freebies off me now!
If you are thinking it now, when you are together it will be worse, you will be thinking if he does this with his gf, then he can do it with me when he get bored.

It will be a pain if you are paranoid and jealous, but sex is not love I think :/

You should do what you want inside you and experiment, life is that I think, all people here will tell you the same, he is for free sex, but maybe that is not true.

Good luck and good night if reading.

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #9 on: 24 February 2015, 12:18:38 am »
A good technique is just to focus on other things to move on from. I used to think clients are but would rather a civy any day with little to no expectations. Who like me for me, not what I do attracted them. Which is clients why they contact escorts in the first place.

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #10 on: 24 February 2015, 09:38:06 am »
I have one client messing with my feelings so I know how you feel. I have decided to stay strong and explain myself is a bad idea to fall for one this way. They can say sweet things and do not mean any of them.
I do not want to get hurt. So this is business strictly only.
I guess there maybe some happy stories, but would think this must be very rare.
All the best.

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #11 on: 26 February 2015, 11:38:16 pm »
I had a 2year relationship with a client. I don't think they're all "out for freebies" them again aren't all men. But I don't think it's a good place to meet someone, maybe I'm tainted but I just feel usually no good comes from a hooker client relationship. I'm sure the odd time it works out, we're all only human. But this industry isn't really the norm, and if you're okay with a relationship with different facets/outside the norm...fantastic , but if you're a typical woman wanting the typical thing (like me) it won't happen
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TheLittleMatchGirl

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #12 on: 26 February 2015, 11:40:31 pm »
Men will say any thing to try and get into your head ....it all leads to one place ....
I've had and still have several clients that say to me , oh your the only one I see ...I think we're
a perfect match ...we're so tuned into one another...I wish we could spend every day together...
Yeah and the rest ....all the while I'm just smiling and thinking...
I'm just not gullible,
I just want your cash

This is exactly right! I fell for it at first (shameful I know!!) I can't even imagine falling for it now, it's just ridiculous isn't it, every other bloke "professes this love" it's cringey now to me
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #13 on: 26 February 2015, 11:47:09 pm »
I have a slogan I live by and it goes for men trying to talk his way into your panties gratis :

How do you know a guy is telling lies ? ........................ His lips are moving ?

Cynical I know but its never let me down yet.
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It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
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TheLittleMatchGirl

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #14 on: 26 February 2015, 11:56:03 pm »
Ugh now you've depressed me LL! I get you though, I've contemplated lately whether I could be in a relationship with a woman!thats how disheartened I feel. I can't imagine ever being innocently involved with a man ever again now,only 26but I guess that's it!lol
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