Author Topic: Falling for a client (Read 31615 times)

MARIPOSA 76 · « **Reply #90 on:** 02 July 2018, 08:41:03 am »

Quote from: Chanel xxx on 17 July 2017, 09:55:08 pm

I'm just giving a newbie my opinion. Yes, meeting men and forming and honest and loving relationship is hard enough. Some may find happiness with men who lie and cheat on their wives and/or girlfriends by seeing prostitues behind their backs. Would I be wrong to wonder if he would likely lie to me too?

I completely agree with you, it happened to me a few months ago with a client, a beautiful man, fantastic, I met him on a tour, 5 hours away from my house, after he returned to my house, he became infatuated with me, he wrote me every day and I conquer with his mind, his beautiful physicist, desid to rent me a flat for a week, he treated me like a king, he told me he was not married, but in reality he lived with his girlfriend and his son .... ..
for me it was a great pain to discover it ... I think that if they are not faithful to their wives / girlfriends, they will be less so with us, the sad thing is that, many times, after they conquer and are sure of your love towards they go away without saying anything and that hurts, an immense pain that has happened to more than one of us ..... In life I have learned to live the moment and enjoy the good moments to the maximum because sooner or later Tears come ... strength and hugs ... !!! Let's learn to be powerful women ... !!!

ladylove · « **Reply #91 on:** 13 December 2018, 10:24:24 pm »

I had previously commented on this thread back in Jan 17' under name Edith (must have changed my email address since)

Id forgotten id posted here on this thread and lol'ed at my own comments so I thought id give an update.

I am still in touch with him/the client id fell for, it has become a little long and complicated story, he ended up in prison (i know way too many red flags with this guy) nothing bad like violence or anything but I won't mention why. I'm still infatuated with him and I believe he is very intrigued and maybe infatuated with me too. We've kept in touch throughout his time inside and he recently told me he is officially single and that we should go on a date together when he's back. I really hope this is a lovely love story and I won't be back on this thread in tears lol.

I'm quite aware of the risks of me getting hurt still (but probably go ahead anyway) and his behaviour probably wouldn't be any different with me like with his previous partners but if we did get together I'm wondering if it could work as we both have high sex drives and knowledge and understanding about each other's needs/desires. I get the impression his previous GF wasn't completely aware of his promiscuous ways and to the extent, but I'm very aware, of course ive seen the other side the side he has once hidden from a partner?

DDD · « **Reply #92 on:** 14 December 2018, 01:24:30 am »

I have been asked on dates and to get married a few times.

A couple of weeks ago a regular client - although he is nearly 40 years older then me we get on well - asked me to marry him. I told him I was very flattered but I am far to young to marry but for some strange and bizarre reason I find myself tempted by the offer!

Working lady · « **Reply #93 on:** 14 December 2018, 02:50:26 am »

well I can give a positive spin on this one although it took many years. I fell for a client 15 years ago and in a massive way, this guy was married and I was in a very long term relationship with someone who I stayed with due to fear. We had an affair for two years until the enevitable happened (my partner found out) this guy stood on for me like nothing I ever dare thought possible (he left his wife for me on the spot), I sadly went home to collect my child and personal belongings so I could be with him and what ensued ment that I wasn’t able to leave therefore after two years I lost the man of my dreams. Fast forward to this year (a whole 13 years later) I found myself in a position of being widowed (I married my long term partner 3 days before he died as although the reasons some wouldn’t understand, it was all he ever wanted and I felt that although I wasn’t happy it was my parting gift to him). Some weeks later I sent a very drunken txt to the guy I have always loved (not dreaming he would have the same number after 13 years so in effect thought I was sending it for my own closure as such) in which I said who I was and that I was so sorry I’d wrecked his life and that I hoped he had been able to rebuild his life. I got the biggest shock of my life when he did indeed reply and that he was still single (although had had relationships in between). The final outcome in this is that we are now together although taking it steady as we have all the time in the world but I can quite honestly say I’m blissfully happy and for the first time in my life say I’ve never ever experienced love like this and he is all I have ever and do ever want 😍

jo-jo · « **Reply #94 on:** 14 December 2018, 08:37:08 am »

Quote from: Working lady on 14 December 2018, 02:50:26 am

well I can give a positive spin on this one although it took many years. I fell for a client 15 years ago and in a massive way, this guy was married and I was in a very long term relationship with someone who I stayed with due to fear. We had an affair for two years until the enevitable happened (my partner found out) this guy stood on for me like nothing I ever dare thought possible (he left his wife for me on the spot), I sadly went home to collect my child and personal belongings so I could be with him and what ensued ment that I wasn’t able to leave therefore after two years I lost the man of my dreams. Fast forward to this year (a whole 13 years later) I found myself in a position of being widowed (I married my long term partner 3 days before he died as although the reasons some wouldn’t understand, it was all he ever wanted and I felt that although I wasn’t happy it was my parting gift to him). Some weeks later I sent a very drunken txt to the guy I have always loved (not dreaming he would have the same number after 13 years so in effect thought I was sending it for my own closure as such) in which I said who I was and that I was so sorry I’d wrecked his life and that I hoped he had been able to rebuild his life. I got the biggest shock of my life when he did indeed reply and that he was still single (although had had relationships in between). The final outcome in this is that we are now together although taking it steady as we have all the time in the world but I can quite honestly say I’m blissfully happy and for the first time in my life say I’ve never ever experienced love like this and he is all I have ever and do ever want 😍

So good to read this.

Love won!

LotusFlower · « **Reply #95 on:** 14 December 2018, 09:15:50 am »

Of my own experience, I don't think where or how you meet people necessarily dictates how any relationship will develop or the level of treatment you are likely to see. If the guy's an asshole, he's going to be an asshole anyway.

I recently met a first time client (first to me and first for him in general) who I fell for, hard. We dated for a while but he has a lot of issues with his previous relationship and child which means we can't continue. It wasn't because of my job and it wasn't because of our dynamics. If he didn't have this mess then I have no doubt we'd be going hard and strong indefinitely - it was like meeting my soulmate, if you believe in that. If I had met him out of work scenario, the outcome would likely have been the same. So yes, it can work, in the same way it can work if you meet someone in any other situation.

English Green · « **Reply #96 on:** 14 December 2018, 09:27:20 am »

Quote from: DDD on 14 December 2018, 01:24:30 am

I have been asked on dates and to get married a few times.

A couple of weeks ago a regular client - although he is nearly 40 years older then me we get on well - asked me to marry him. I told him I was very flattered but I am far to young to marry but for some strange and bizarre reason I find myself tempted by the offer!

What was the engagement ring like that he proposed with? Lol

DDD · « **Reply #97 on:** 15 December 2018, 12:04:59 am »

Quote from: English Green on 14 December 2018, 09:27:20 am

What was the engagement ring like that he proposed with? Lol

LOL Surprisingly he did not have one!

jellib33 · « **Reply #98 on:** 14 March 2019, 03:56:36 pm »

Hi everyone.

I was just wondering if you know of anybody who has met a client and has had a successful relationship develop from it (outside escort/client setting)?

Kay · « **Reply #99 on:** 14 March 2019, 04:55:13 pm »

Don't take this as my having a go, but I really don't think you should be considering this.

There is at least one thread on relationships with clients...

Missyblue · « **Reply #100 on:** 14 March 2019, 07:00:33 pm »

Please don’t even consider it —bad idea. I’ve seen too many situations -girls go into relationships with clients and coming out far worse than before.
Unless you are planning a sugar daddy arrangement even at tht make sure you state your terms clearly.

englishrebecca121 · « **Reply #101 on:** 14 March 2019, 10:35:08 pm »

i dated a client for 3 years didnt work out but we are still good mates.
worked for me .....

LotusFlower · « **Reply #102 on:** 14 March 2019, 10:54:51 pm »

I dated a client (he would never call himself a client though as he claims he only ever met me that one time), he had broken up with his ex 3/4 months prior. We spoke to each other every day, he knew that me breaking this boundary was a big deal for me, he got back together with his ex and dumped me over a text - I was left utterly humiliated, took weeks to get over it and I'll never make that mistake again.

Dolita · « **Reply #103 on:** 14 March 2019, 10:59:43 pm »

I am sure it does and has and will work out well for a small minority, but from any I know who have tried this, it hasn't worked out too well.

There will always be a nagging doubts; is he just using me for a freebie? Does he just seem as a cheap whore? Is he really okay with me doing this? Will he ask me to stop at some point? Will he still be seeing other escorts? Am I just some notch on his punter belt? Is he with me "because" I am escort? It would mess my head up too much.

I have met people, that if we had met in different circumstances, I could definitely see me falling for or being very compatible with. But we didn't meet "normally". So just couldn't stop the nagging doubts myself. I would rather just not blur those lines and from hearing some horror stories in the past few years about how guys can "use" this job against ladies when relationships end - I am glad I don't.

MelissaS · « **Reply #104 on:** 15 March 2019, 12:14:00 am »

I dated a client. We weren't at all compatible as a couple, whilst we got on really well sometimes, the rest of the time we just kept falling out and arguing and just didn't seem to be right for each other. So we broke up and now we're really good friends. We get on miles better as friends than we did trying to make it anything more than that!

I can't say it would happen again I don't think. I'm not against it but I've never had a meet that was anything remotely like mine we were with him and I don't believe it would ever happen again with anyone.

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MARIPOSA 76

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