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Mirror

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #105 on: 15 March 2019, 06:21:26 am »
Yes, I ended up living together and marrying him.
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #106 on: 15 March 2019, 06:49:39 am »
I met my ex boyfriend like that. First we were just meeting up with no strings attached and then we became a couple. We were together almost 3 years. Broke up but on good terms and we are still keeping contact.
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #107 on: 15 March 2019, 07:15:04 am »
Yes it can work. It’s been five years and although it’s no easy it’s working
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #108 on: 15 March 2019, 09:03:10 am »
We were together for 5 years, had 2 children. I stopped for him as soon as I met him and I was accused of cheating constantly. He treated me like a sex doll and made underhand comments about how promiscuous he thought I 'should' be all the time.

I ended up in 3 womens refuges due to his controlling and manipulative behaviour, and am now a single mum.

For the first 2 years, he thought he was my "saviour" but ended up my worst nightmare.

Obviously not all clients are like that, but they put on as much of an acting show as we do, and we don't know what they are really like because they came to us for one thing and one thing only.
Somewhere down the line, whether its a month or 8 years down the line, they'll show their true colours.

Imho, don't mix business with pleasure.

P.S Im probably just cynical because I had such a negative experience.
« Last Edit: 15 March 2019, 09:07:46 am by DailyGrind »
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #109 on: 15 March 2019, 10:25:34 am »
I have dated, and am currently dating a client.
In the past it has been because they were supporting me at a tough time, or because the connection was there.
1 is still a friend, though rarely in touch, and I could never see him as a client again.
1 got a bit stalkerish and I had to tell him where to go.
1 was a narcissistic lying **** who I believed entirely and he destroyed my mind.

But, I'm an eternal optimist and romantic so I'll try again. It's also hard if you don't go places to meet guys - ,I'm too old for clubbing and Tinder pisses me off
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #110 on: 15 March 2019, 11:42:33 am »
Dating a client just means you lose a decent regular client!
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jellib33

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #111 on: 15 March 2019, 05:51:13 pm »
Yes :) to all of these!!! I appreciate the responses:) yeah, more I think about it, you got to wonder why any guy in the right mind would want to pursue a relationship with an escort? I find that slightly odd.... wouldn't they want a normal relationship? But yeah. I just really can't believe the mindset of some men.
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #112 on: 15 March 2019, 06:07:18 pm »
A paying man is always a paying man.
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #113 on: 15 March 2019, 07:35:05 pm »
I am pretty sure that not any decent guys would go along with it. End of story. I have seen an escort leaving the job for a client who became her boyfriend. She started to work in a pound shop 10 hours a day, got very little money. Naturally the guy kept on seeing escorts despite of her sacrifice.
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #114 on: 15 March 2019, 10:30:04 pm »
Quote from: summer2015 on 15 March 2019, 07:35:05 pm
I am pretty sure that not any decent guys would go along with it. End of story.

Thats pretty judgementle.

Me and my ex who was a client lasted 3 years and are still great mates, he was happy for me to carry on working, we had a great 3 years and parted on good terms.

yes i expect the majority of these kind of relationships will fail but not all, same as civy life.
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #115 on: 15 March 2019, 10:37:09 pm »
Quote from: jellib33 on 15 March 2019, 05:51:13 pm
you got to wonder why any guy in the right mind would want to pursue a relationship with an escort? I find that slightly odd.... wouldn't they want a normal relationship?

Well just because you (and apparently others) believe that sex workers are not 'normal' or capable of 'normal relationships' (whatever those might be) and that purely because of a job we do a few hours of the week we somehow become such disgusting, undesirable lepers that anyone who sees us as individual entities with our own individual personalities and characteristics that aren't defined by or anything to do with our job must literally be 'not in his right mind', doesn't mean that everybody else thinks the same way. Thankfully, some people have more sense.

Quote from: summer2015 on 15 March 2019, 07:35:05 pm
I am pretty sure that not any decent guys would go along with it.

So you've decided this on behalf of all punters, based on a sample size of one. I'm genuinely glad I don't have such crap customers as people here seem to - if my opinion of punters was this low, I'd have long since gone back to stacking shelves.
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #116 on: 15 March 2019, 10:38:47 pm »
spot on amy .
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summer2015

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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #117 on: 15 March 2019, 11:03:06 pm »
Well, yes I might have sounded judgmental. She is my best friend and it was hard for me to see how much she suffered. Of course it was not all bad, there were also good things in the relationship. Personally I don't have bad opinion about punters, as I don't even know them. Sometimes couples who are married for years still don't know each other. Simply I don't look at clients as possible boyfriend options.  :)
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #118 on: 26 March 2019, 12:19:41 am »
I'm seeing one now. The sex is great. He's kick started my libido after years of it having been naff, and he's made me absolutely love sex again because it's now in a personal setting and not work which has made a huge difference. Just early days right now and so I can't profess to know what will happen but if nothing else it's what I've needed for a long time and proves I can still get wet and excited with the right guy! And for once I'm the one getting all the attention rather than me just focused on getting the guy off.
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Re: Falling for a client
« Reply #119 on: 26 March 2019, 09:16:21 am »
There is a guy who comes to see me for overnights once a month —he told me recently he got into a relationship with an escort he showed me pics they took together on holiday and her profile ..I asked him if she’s aware he still sees other escorts, he replied No she doesn’t...he claimed or thinks she’s falling in love him.
I didn’t want to press further as it’s none of my business
Smh...
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